DISCUSS: HOW will DM find out? - Page 2

Originally posted by: cimba

I feel that one of the older male hopefully DM's father in law or Santu's nanaji tells DM to fix the domestic affairs. Dm is not so innocent him self. He knows the condition in the storeroom where santu lives is. He brought her home by merring her and she has not officially enter the house yet. Santu should have some room to live inthe house if not sharing Dm's room.
Father in law can come to Dm and put his two cent in to Dm's brain that eough is enogh and bring the wife in the house. He has to respect her publicly not just by the silent talk. As long as man of the house does not respect her ,no one will respect her.
Nanaji can also tell DM respectfully that Santu's respect and safety is Dm's responsibility and DM being the judge and jury of the town himself, he should be fair and just in his own house. Nanaji's grand has not committed any crime by merring DM, so she should not be punished for being DM's wife.

Originally posted by: kooldesi_fun

this is a gud topic....

i think y women in India r suppressed is b'coz they don't speak up for their rights.... they either think of their families first or think of their kids or their husband and do not report physical/mental abuse at home or workplace..

and i think this can also become a social msg thru the serial tht if santo speaks up for herself and tells the world tht how is she being treated .... she might be gud in the eyes of DM but definitely she will gain respect in her own eyes.... and she will become inspiration for other women.... there r not many serials tht depict this problem....maybe if ekta wants to do somethin diff.... she can try ths....

although the IPC(Indian Penal Code) describes rape as" Rape means an unlawful intercourse done by a man with a woman without her valid consent. (Section 375 of the Indian Penal Code)", and today basically she was forced to remove her clothes from a woman...... maybe she can become the inspiration and change the law and include any woman or man against the will as being a rape....

I think if santo speaks for herself then probably she might be tried to put down and unheard at first but she has to have the guts and speak for herself and then only others can help her...... and as the sayin goes god hepls them those who help themselves.....

PS. If i have used derogatory words/lang., I aplogise but as far as my knowldge goes rape is not a derogatory term....

DM ke ghar me sab logo ke ye sanskaar he .........ye bade log he ...........dikhate kuch ore he apne aap ko hote kuch ore he .......they r good acters ...........meadia me kuch ore ...........ghar me kuch ore .....wah😡

also, the longer DM stays in the dark, the worse it is - because as her husband he has taken on the reponsibility for her physical well being atleast, if nothing else. he's taken this little child and dumped her with his tyrant sister. does he care if she has a bed to sleep on, or clothes to wear or food to eat? she was far better off with nanaji, poor though they were.

Originally posted by: soapie

What I hated the most about old BT soaps were the fact that such episodes were always left in the lurch...there were so many things unsolved and the story just moved on!

Bandini has to be different in this regard and tie up every loophole...so for DM-Santu relationship to go forward, he has to know the truth somehow!

Soapie