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Posted: 9 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: SPuja


I am not frustrated.

But when it was never shown that DS ever gave these jewelry to this man - how can people go on giving justifications and explanations? 😛

As regards the child choosing M - I was sure that she will choose Anandi - because this is a story and creatives can show any irrational thing. In real life - it will be difficult for a child in Nimboli's condition to choose Anandi over M.


In real life, it would have been far more easier.
The kid would question Mangala much more than Nimboli has ever done.
She would never have started calling Mangala as a mother from teesa, not that easy in real life.
She could not have accepted the sudden out-pour of love from Mangala and instead would have challenged her.
Considering the time Anandi spent to make Nandini feel comfortable with her. the kid would have easily accepted her.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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In real life a child will not address Teesa as maa so easily
The child would have questioned Mangala a lot more when Mangala took her on a ride to no where in the back of the trucks

She would have asked Mangala a lot more questions about fake maa

The child would have chosen CC over Mangala since she knew either of the two are her family

Even in real life the child would choose her mother over Mangala.The child was made to believe that she was dumped in garbage bin. If she got to know that her mother never dumped her but in fact searching for her why would she reject her mother who was searching for her?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: tellygeek


In real life, it would have been far more easier.
The kid would question Mangala much more than Nimboli has ever done.
She would never have started calling Mangala as a mother from teesa, not that easy in real life.
She could not have accepted the sudden out-pour of love from Mangala and instead would have challenged her.
Considering the time Anandi spent to make Nandini feel comfortable with her. the kid would have easily accepted her.



Nimboli questioning M would have been better. She has the right to question. She would not have called teesa as maa that is sure - no child would do that. But there was no sudden love - M always meant much for Nimboli and vise versa - clear by the events in Jhalra.

But then she would have questioned Anandi even more and certainly would not have chose to go with Anandi. No child will live like she lived in BH. A child in real life will certainly question these shower of gifts - even Anant gave her gift - as if bribe or price of providing valuable information.😆

And certainly no child wold want to live with her/his mother's ex-husband - Anandi is not going to tell nimboli that that palace like home is actually not her home - that badi nani sa is nothing for her - loads of lying that Shivam has experienced since he was an infant and now will be experienced by nimboi also.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#34
In real life a woman who was otherwise nice and genuine would not turn into overnight manipulator and cheater, just out of possessiveness either.


Point is, Cvs had to show N choosing A in such a way that neither N nor A is made to feel guilty (or get pointed )for any of their decisions.

If only M was kept as ethical as she was during Akhiraj's arrest ( with J) , and if she had not run away but instead told Nimboli straight away that Anandi is her real mother, things would be lot different and lot interesting. The track would look genuine and Nimboli would not find it easy to go with A.

At that point it would be interesting to see how A earns her daughter's respect. And the day N would accept A, would be an honest glorious victory for Anandi.

Moreover, N would know how she landed in Jhalra, which is one question she won't ask Anandi anymore as she would be too pissed off with M to think of anything else about her past.

This victory of reunion was brought to Anandi on a platter by Anant (The final bits). Infact he also had to force to get up anf get going. So suddenly Anandi decided to march to Jhalra to slap M.

I felt sorry for N, for being tossed so much, but nothing for Anandi. She absolutely made zero efforts in earning her daughter.






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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi told that the Haweli belongs to Kalyani Devi on day one.
The child knows that.

She knows that badi nanisa is everything to her mother.

She loves Mangala who has neither given her birth nor adopted her and knew that she is Teesa because Mangala is her Balak Var's Teesa 😛

So why would the child ask for explaintions ?

As for the children not being aware of the relationship neither Jagya's children nor Anandi's children know about it.
Way back when Abhi was just born it was Ganga who told Amol that he can call her Kaki when he asked her how he should address her. Ganga at that time did look up to Anandi as a role model and probably did consider her as an elder sister.


Mannu got to know about it through Pooja.Mannu didnt even know about his mother's first marriage when the truth about his first marriage impacts him most since he was a product of her first marriage

Anandi's kids will get to know about it when the time comes.Anandi's children are the products of her second marriage.Shivam knows who his father is and knows about his father's family now Nandini also will know who her father is the moment she gets to know Anandi is her mother.

In the Haweli where the kids don't even important things like the man who is bringing him up is not his biological father until he was sixteen years old people are expecting them to know about Anandi Jagya first marriage 😛

Atleast Shivam knows who his parents are and Nandini will know the moment she gets to know that she is Nandini she will know who her mother and father are.



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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is quite apparent that Mangala got madly attached to Nimboli since the time she discovered Anandi was her mother. Till then, she was loving and kind to the girl but not motherly for sure.

Yes, Nandini would have questioned Anandi much more, on how she lost her, about her father, family etc. We might get to see some of it in the coming episodes.

But there's no point harping on Anandi's bond with dadisa or Jagya. 80% of BV story is based on this bond. In real life, we may never get to see this type of arrangement or such a docile Anandi. In real life, Anandi might have never lost a gem called Shiv so foolishly. In real life, She would have shone as an outstanding star with the likes of BV folks clapping for her in the audience.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: tellygeek

It is quite apparent that Mangala got madly attached to Nimboli since the time she discovered Anandi was her mother. Till then, she was loving and kind to the girl but not motherly for sure.

Yes, Nandini would have questioned Anandi much more, on how she lost her, about her father, family etc. We might get to see some of it in the coming episodes.

But there's no point harping on Anandi's bond with dadisa or Jagya. 80% of BV story is based on this bond. In real life, we may never get to see this type of arrangement or such a docile Anandi. In real life, Anandi might have never lost a gem called Shiv so foolishly. In real life, She would have shone as an outstanding star with the likes of BV folks clapping for her in the audience.


@bold - Even before Anandi came into picture - it was shown M's feelings towards N and N's feelings also when she said mother would be like teesa. When Nimboli was most distressed due to Kundan, when she fell down due to Urmi's prank - she remembered only teesa. Mangala told J that she cannot live without Nimboli - and J assured her that nimboli will not be separated from her - all this before M was instrumental in bringing out the truth that Nimboli is Anandi's daughter.

@blue - 😲 what does this mean?

@ red - how this can be predicted? In real life there are many persons who are outstanding - but how can it be said that in real life it would have been like @ red?

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Posted: 9 years ago
#38
Mangala got attached to the child the moment she set her eyes on that baby.
It is Mangala's desire for motherhood that saved the baby.
It was evident from what she told Chagini

Mangala never liked the child's fascination for CC even before she got to know that she is none other than the child's mother
That is the reason why she tried to prevent any possible meetings between CC and Nimboli because she was convinced that if CC asked the child to to SN the child would readily agree.That is the reason why she never let Anandi know about child marriage.

When she got to know that CC is none other than the child's mother she knew that child would choose to go with her mother without any hesitation

All this drama was because she knew very well that the child will not think twice before accepting Anandi as her mother.

She knew of the child's pre occupation with her mother and she knew there is no way she can get the child to put her in the place that she has for mother.

Mangala wanted the child for herself so that she can have some company in her misery.Don't think she ever loved the child like a mother would love her child.


Well this story is not about Anandi and Mangala but it is the story of an estranged mother and daughter Anandi and Nandini.CVs ensured right from the word go that the viewers are well aware of the child's true identity so where is the question of audience accepting Mangala as the child's mother when they know very well how the child was snatched from her mother's arms?
Besides Mangala knew very well how and why the child landed there so how can she stake claims on the child that too by allowing the lie to take roots?

She never had guts to tell the truth to the child even when the mother was no where on the horizon.
She allowed the child to believe the garbage bin story for her own benefits.
She can't generate positive feelings with her acts so she uses negative feelings the child had towards her mother and Akheraj family to draw the child closer.

When in BH she was terrified of the positive feelings that she created situations by making use of the fears insecurity of Anandi and her children.

She was never ever a principled woman not before definetely not now.



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Posted: 9 years ago
#39
Immediate post leap the child used to wonder about her mother never thought of Teesa as mother
She wanted to know why she screams maa when ever she is hurt.

It was after the scene where Akheraj told garbage bin story to the bride's parents she started calling for Teesa 😛

In her mind Teesa and maa are two separate entities. It is Mangala who wanted to make them into a single entity.


As for Mangala acting this way now a disturbing event about a mother is making news.
So who knows what people will do when they are weakened by overwhelming emotions?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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On the topic of exes there are lot more horrifying tracks in some shows that are on air currently and they are on the top of TRP charts too.
This particular show drew my attention initially because it was based on custody of a child where the first wife walked out on her marriage the second wife is an infertile woman. But I never watched the show because I told myself that I will not watch showd from this ladies PH. Read that the ex is being used as a surrogate mother for her ex husband and his current wife's baby 😛

At least BV writers when they decided to break up Anandi Jagya marriage it was a clean break with nothing to tie them up together through the marriage that broke.

Today they are friends and the only thing they have in common is their love for Dsa.For Dsa Anandi is her own family just like J is .She cant differentiate them.




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