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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: libsrocks
Still waiting to see when the hell would anyone, just anyone, point out the fact that it was Anandi's foolishness that landed her in Jhalra?! Nandini is angry with Mangala for the lies she told her but would she ever react the same way when she gets to know what part did Anandi play in spoiling her childhood?
Frankly i feel more sorry for Mangala than i can for Anandi!
Mangala's husband was murdered by his own brother! She lost her chance to have her own child! On top of that, she was stuck in the hell like house with the very man who murdered her husband and had dirty thoughts about her! In midst of all this darkness, Nimboli was the only ray of sunshine in her life! Granted, she did wrong with Nimboli by lying to her and keeping her away from her biological mother but her years of attachment and only chance of having a kid had made her possessive to such an extent! Now the poor lady has lost the only good thing she had in her life! While she deserves Nandini's anger for breaking her trust, she does not deserve ultimate separation from her! If Anandi was desperate enough to risk the life of her own child for an outsider, she should give Mangala some benefit of doubt and ensure that Mangal gets to be a part of Nandini's life!

u r rite.

but do u think CVs will ever show anandi's mistakes as mistakes or lies as lies?havn't u seen her mistakes & lies were/r labelled as gudness. thatswhy oder ckts r made 2 go bonkers whether its gauri, jagya or even shiv(during sanchi suicide attempt drama) & ganga(post leap) & now Mn.it"ll b like sum1 said CVs will slap themselves or prove themselves wrong & after watching BV 4 such a long time i can say BV CVs r worst CVs who don't hav guts 2 prove their lead wrong even if shes wrong & the truth is glaring at their faces.

Edited by tiny15 - 9 years ago

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Amanyu
Will Mangla do Pooja every 1 hour, I thought it is the next day morning Mangla is doing pooja and she is thinking of Harkhi words.

It was the same day because kamli had left saying she is going to the mandi... And when someone knocked at the door, nimboli ran to open the door shouting Kamli jiji.

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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

When anandi lost her daughter right before her eyes, she never had a nervous breakdown... she was fine just within 2 days.

But mangala was devastated though nimboli was not her daughter... that shows how much she loved her... and the way anandi treated her, any woman would have a nervous breakdown.

I felt sorry for mangala... she did not deserve such inhuman treatment from anandi.

I did not like kamli calling up anandi and telling her about mangala's state knowing that anandi is the cause of her state.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Good to know revealtion is happening. Yet to catch up on episodes.

Well Mangala's fate had to be that way. She was meant to do bigger crimes only so that Anandi's mistakes can become negligible in comparison and she can get her daughter back guilt free.

Thanks to Mangala, J and Anant; Anandi got everything on a silver platter.

@Libs and Shinya: N knowing about how she was lost and what is Anandi's fault will never happen. Shivam also never questioned anything and Nandini won't too.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#15

I am sure how Nandini will get to know how she got kidnapped by Akheraj.

For all we know it could be Akheraj/Harki who may end up telling the child how they kidnapped her to teach her mother a lesson and how she ended up being their unwanted bahu

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: aparnauma
I am sure how Nandini will get to know how she got kidnapped by Akheraj.
For all we know it could be Akheraj/Harki who may end up telling the child how they kidnapped her to teach her mother a lesson and how she ended up being their unwanted bahu

Still it is being expected that others will tell Nandini, how she was lost and not Nandini's own mother?

Ofourse, Anandi is a coward. She needs to hide under the shadows of other people's bigger / evil crimes to be able to pass blame of her own mistakes. So for all we know Akehraj might have to do the honours. May be that's why he was brought back from dead to shield Anandi from bearing the brunt.

Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Why would Akheraj want to shield the child's mother whom he hates?😛

He may tell the child what the forum wasis have been saying about her mother.

Now the child knows who her mother is and let her decide whether her mother wronged her or not.

Anandi will tell her version of the story. Akheraj can tell her his version of the story and in between the two versions she can decide who she wants to believe.

Ultimately Nandini will make up her mind based on what she understands as truth.

As for telling the truth about biological mother - It is the duty of the adopted parent to inform their ward/child that their biological parent/parents have come looking for them and they want to take her back.Then only they can decide whether they want to fight for custody or not.So Mangala has done wrong.She did not fulfill the duties of an adopted parent she put the child's life in danger wilfully in an attempt to prevent the child's biological mother from meeting her.According to her own claims she had been taking care of the child and loving her like her own she still withheld the truth about the child's mother wilfully for 11 years.

It was Mangala's duty to tell the child that her mother has come looking for her.If Mangala had not put herself in the position of parent it would not have been expected of her.

If Mangala considers herself as the child's mother she is expected to think and act like a mother would in the best interests of her child.

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If Anandi had not given up the custody of Amol what would have been Amol's fate? He would have been torn between two mothers who claimed rights over him.Today Amol is happy where ever he is because his adopted mother gave up claims on him and didn't put emotional burdens on him.He is free to love come and go as he pleases.

No where did Anandi indicate that she would not like Mangala to be part of the child's life.It is Mangala who refused to see.

Anandi never did claim for Mangala's place. She knew that the child has left her mother's place vacant but it is filled with anger and resentment and she is only trying to reach out to that place.It was Mangala who wanted to take the place that wasn't meant for her. So she is paying price for it.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Why would Akheraj want to shield the child's mother whom he hates?😛

Lols... that was plain sarcasm (in my post). Didn't expect people not to get it 😛

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: aparnauma

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If Anandi had not given up the custody of Amol what would have been Amol's fate? He would have been torn between two mothers who claimed rights over him.Today Amol is happy where ever he is because his adopted mother gave up claims on him and didn't put emotional burdens on him.He is free to love come and go as he pleases.
No where did Anandi indicate that she would not like Mangala to be part of the child's life.It is Mangala who refused to see.
Anandi never did claim for Mangala's place. She knew that the child has left her mother's place vacant but it is filled with anger and resentment and she is only trying to reach out to that place.It was Mangala who wanted to take the place that wasn't meant for her. So she is paying price for it.

For me, Anandi giving up Amol, was not even ideal. Her idea of adopting Amol was a hollow as her giving him up just for the sake of his biological parents. Parents (adoptive or real) do not behave so casual when it comes to their kids

When I don't see anything ideal about Anandi-Amol-adoption relationship, why would I even want to compare Mangala or any other mother figures with Anandi's ideology? Anandi was a failure in Amol's case too. But one thing is to her credit. For the time, Amol was with her, she looked after him well. She was a good care-taker. Not a good mother.

I find deeper bonding with DSa-Basant or Ira-Shiv and even Mangala -Nimboli, as cases of adoptive mothers / children then I ever did with Anandi-Amol.

Mangala is not even being defended for the wrong she did. But why expect Mangala to do Anandi's job of reuniting Nimboli with A? Is it because Anandi doesn't have it in her?

Edited by Missesha - 9 years ago

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Shinya
When anandi lost her daughter right before her eyes, she never had a nervous breakdown... she was fine just within 2 days.

But mangala was devastated though nimboli was not her daughter... that shows how much she loved her... and the way anandi treated her, any woman would have a nervous breakdown.

I felt sorry for mangala... she did not deserve such inhuman treatment from anandi.

I did not like kamli calling up anandi and telling her about mangala's state knowing that anandi is the cause of her state.

@bold - that was the first thought that came to my mind after reading the highlights.

Kamli calling Anandi - will watch what she had to say - it might not be to get medical help - for that she should have called J who is a doctor.