Fundamentally wrong - Page 3

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ Leaves, No I am not giving a clean chit to Jagya. He is risking too much and he may not be right, but I can' blame him simply because his decision to risk so much, is a thoughtful decision taken as a last resort.

I am blaming Anandi, because hers was a decision taken in a spur of a moment and it wasn't taken as a last resort. She always had the option of securing Nandini, before setting out for her mission.

Anandi is being criticised, simply for being unthoughtful.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If Nandini was not kidnapped, anandi would not have been blamed endlessly for taking the girl to her workplace. That means anth bhala tho sab bhala.

Originally posted by: SPuja

Why police had to ask Anandi to go from there as she has an infant in her arms? Why not anandi thought this herself? And even after that - she didn't take the child to safety but watching the tamasha there. And we are told that she's selfless😕

Originally posted by: Missesha

Yes ofcourse she would still be wrong for taking her child to a dangerous place, but she wouldn't be blamed for a kidnap that would have never happened.

Or alternatively, had the kidnapped happened at a later date, as part of Akhiraj's planned revenge on Anandi for stopping balvivah (even if N was not present at the crime scene), then also Anandi WOULD NOT have been blamed.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

A bad decision taken after much thought cant be justified.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

By this you agree that it was an accident. Then why blame anandi relentlessly? She lost only her own child not someone else's.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Fair enough. I have no issues if you think jagya should be blamed because Anandi was.

In my perspective, I don't see jagya left with a better alternative than this so I sympathise with him. I did see Anandi was left with a better alternative than what she opted for.

I have already argued all those points and tried to share my perspective. More than that each to their own.

I can't blame J now, just as I never blamed Anandi for Amol's kidnap.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

You are still stuckup with anandi. Why dont you analyse the present situation just as you do for anandi?

Nimboli is a minor and Jagya is an MLA and a lawmaker. He is not some wannabe social worker. He is accountable.

Originally posted by: Missesha

No I don't agree, it was an accident. Please re-read my posts and you might figure out at what point I am blaming Anandi.

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And so what if she lost only her child. Is her child a lifeless property that Anandi can play with as she wishes, back then and even now?