Garbage bin story - Did the CVs say this thing or are they showing us how the society regards children found in garbage bins?
Is it a mirror of the society's views on it or is it their view?
Aren't they showing us how much it hurts a child when people keep on referring to that? So how did it become a bad message?
One more thing isn't this a fiction show how else can they give a message?
They can only convey the message by showing how much it hurts a child when she is told repeatedly that she was found in garbage dump.
Various people in the story used that to serve their needs.
Akheraj and Harki kidnapped the child - to escape questions they came up with this.So that no questions will be asked about the child's parents.
Mangala used the garbage bin story because it served her well too. If the child believes that she is unwanted by her family she will move closer to her and appreciate her for what she has done.
Shiv wanted to know if he was found in garbage bin and asked his father if that was the reason why he was not informed about his adopted status.Why did that thought bother him? It bothered him because that meant he was unwanted by his parents and not because he thought it is something to be ashamed of.
As for Anop claiming his rights as father of Shiv has got more to do with wanting to get back the life and all the years that he has lost not just with Shiv but with his entire family while he was incarcerated in some prison in a foreign country.
For Shiv it didn't really matter because he was a man in his thirties and he has an identity of his own.For him Ira and Meenu both were equally important even before he came to know about the baby swap.By what name he addressed his parents didn't matter to him because all four of them were his parents.He had two fathers and two mothers.One father was around when he was growing up and the other father of whom he was proud of and later of whom he became very protective one mother fussed over him like he was a baby while the other mother imparted good values.Sanchi and Mahi both were his siblings.He didn't love Sanchi any less when she became a cousin instead of sister.In the end it didn't make a difference to Sanchi too.
Amol was adopted because Anandi wanted to experience mother hood and she didn;t want to wait till she became pregnant. She has given him all that she as a mother can and in return she also got a lot of love respect and devotion from her adopted son.But he was not an abandoned child as they were told but he was a missing child for whom his parents were searching for years.
Should the parents of the child be deprived of their own child for whom they have been searching for years just because he found another family who loves him and whom he too loves?
From what little has been shown of Amol post leap it does look like though he lives with his parents he still is part of Shekhar family and Shivam does seem to share a great bond with him.
If he is not seen now it is obviously because they don't have a story for him.
It is quite obvious right from the beginning at least for some people that the child has been more like a teddy bear or a comforter for Mangala rather than a daughter.The child deserves better than that.