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Posted: 9 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Shinya



In my country, anandi would be in the jail for taking a child to a dangerous place and her child would be taken away from her by Govt. even if found later.

Even in India, Social workers are bound by certain laws and dos and donts ... it is not that they can go for protests with their infants in arms, take the law in their hands, start slapping the offenders and bark at the police.





Few days back I watched "Southpaw" the latest Hollywood movie. In which the hero becomes alcoholic and drugs addict after his wife gets killed in an event. He looses his everything. He looses his house car etc and left with zero balance. All the time he was in a drugged state. After that only his only daughter put under the care of Child Protective Services. In the end when he wins a boxing fight again and gets his house back etc then he gets his daughter back.
So none of the above mentioned case was with Anandi, so even if she was in USA, her daughter won't be snatched from her by police.

India is a democracy so I gave you example of another democracy i.e. USA. But if you live in some monarchy or military ruled country then I don't know about their rules. They may not have right to Freedom of movement etc.
Edited by Sup123 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi hasn't gone to Pooja-Kundan wedding to give blessings 😆nor she was their relative that she takes her baby girl with her. She went there to stop that marriage. Taking your child to friends/relatives wedding is an entirely different thing.

All relatives attend the wedding and if there is any interruption in the proceedings they will come together and attack. They wont keep quite because it is a prestige issue for both the parties. They don't care even if it is a child marriage or something else. At that moment they only consider completion of all rituals before the auspicious wedding hour passes. (Eg. Gulli and Jyoti marriage.) Anandi knows this very well!

What Anandi would have done if all the relatives of Pooja and Kundan attacked her before the police arrived? Would she be able to keep her baby safe? What if Nandini got injured in all this? Suppose things went from words to extreme violence...she would have lost her daughter and her life also.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#83

I am not talking about movies. I am talking about what happens in real life... If a child is abused by a parent, the child is taken away from the parent.

Here the mother was so irresponsible, that the child got almost killed. Such a mother would be deemed unfit to raise children.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#84
Anandi had gone to attend a wedding or she had gone to stop a wedding ? 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


I am not talking about movies. I am talking about what happens in real life... If a child is abused by a parent, the child is taken away from the parent.

Here the mother was so irresponsible, that the child got almost killed. Such a mother would be deemed unfit to raise children.



Nandini was abused by her mother ? 😲
From where on earth you came up with this conclusion ? 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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anandi should never take nandini to wedding venue because at such event there r more chances of fighting .such dowry fighting now if anandi went to wedding and if suddenly bridegrom starting demanding dowry and anandi call police to arrest culprit then nandini will again kidnapp .bridegroom father will say to anandi u does not let us to take dowry so i taking nandini away from u

this wedding venue is very dangerous place .so anandi should never take nandini to wedding venue
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


I am not talking about movies. I am talking about what happens in real life... If a child is abused by a parent, the child is taken away from the parent.

Here the mother was so irresponsible, that the child got almost killed. Such a mother would be deemed unfit to raise children.


To answer your other post, Anandi didn't go to attend the wedding. Correct, she went there to stop the wedding but I'm sure she or no one would've even thought that her own child is going to be kidnapped there. See Anandi has already stopped many more child weddings in the past and from that she is probably able to guess the problems associated at such places. Maybe no one else was Akhiraj Singh. But this was a unique case where the kidnapping of her own child took place. It has usually been shown that once she arrives st the venue with police the police stop the wedding and the police arrest the offenders or the parents concerned that's it. But here it was different. Akhiraj managed to escape from police and ran away.


Do you think if Anandi even guessed that such a thing is going to happen she would've taken her child along? And if you have seen i Akhiraj has snatched the child off her hands. It's not that she left the child elsewhere in the ground to stop Pooja wedding.


So that continues with the answer for your current post. She has informed the police and the police have heard the whole story and they never deemed her unfit as a mother. It was an accident where the mistake was only Akhiraj Singh as a kidnapper.


Just like how now Mangala Devi is a kidnapper. The police will call her a criminal and definitely unfit to be called a mother or unfit to raise a child.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stalwart.


Anandi hasn't gone to Pooja-Kundan wedding to give blessings 😆nor she was their relative that she takes her baby girl with her. She went there to stop that marriage. Taking your child to friends/relatives wedding is an entirely different thing.

All relatives attend the wedding and if there is any interruption in the proceedings they will come together and attack. They wont keep quite because it is a prestige issue for both the parties. They don't care even if it is a child marriage or something else. At that moment they only consider completion of all rituals before the auspicious wedding hour passes. (Eg. Gulli and Jyoti marriage.) Anandi knows this very well!

What Anandi would have done if all the relatives of Pooja and Kundan attacked her before the police arrived? Would she be able to keep her baby safe? What if Nandini got injured in all this? Suppose things went from words to extreme violence...she would have lost her daughter and her life also.


Your logic is correct but there is a certain risk involved when you are a social worker. And sometimes social workers are so committed to serve humanity and society that they do get injured. Anandi losing her child is an example.


But at the end they are also human beings and may have their families. What to do? Maybe no mothers should be allowed to be social workers. Or else they should be told first take care of your own selves and families only after that bother about others lives. Let others go to hell that should be the attitude. Otherwise there will be people to call you unfit mother and careless mother etc.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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unfortunately anandi get very little time to stop child marriage first it was jyoti then she has to go alone in jyoti marriage and anandi was locked in room by jyoti parents and even villagers r were throwning anandi .fortunately shiv reach there and save anandi

anandi does not want to take nandini to stop child marriage but unfortunately lack of space lack of time force anandi to take such step
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sup123



Nandini was abused by her mother ? 😲
From where on earth you came up with this conclusion ? 😕


You admitted yourself that you started watching BV only after 11 yr leap which was the beginning of this year 2015 when the show was started way back in 2008... That means you are not aware of the foundation of the story.

To be able to debate wisely and correctly, you should watch all the old episodes.


Edited by Shinya - 9 years ago

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