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Posted: 10 years ago
#71
That phone call from the police to Anandi and the conversation between Anandi and Dsa and later on Dsa telling Jagya and Ganga how she never gives up her search for her daughter and how she runs after every clue that she gets leaving everything.
The only thing they have not shown is her going from door to door. As to why the police didn't make a sketch of Akheraj from the description Anandi had given for that Anandi can't be blamed/

When they were searching using Baby's picture they almost caught them.

It can't be said that she has not been searching for her daughter.

She has been unsuccessful in finding her daughter..Being unsuccessful in her search and not searching are not same.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: aparnauma

People are not looking down because Mangala is from the marginlaised sections of the scoiety.They look down because OF HER APPROACH TO LIFE.

Approach to life doesn't depend on education level of awareness or socio - economic status.

Well said! Same way Anandi does not have a home to call her own because of her own decisions! She doesn't have her own daughter because of her own decision! She has been unable to find her daughter because of her approach towards this whole issue. There is only so much we can blame on Daddu's emotional blackmail or circumstances...right?!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#73
I think one's motherhood just dont disappear just because one lady is obsessed.

I have seen anandi crying and trying to get hold of akheraj.

If I find a purse that belongs to somebody, I wont spend that money. I will keep it as the amanat of someone else.

If I save someone on the road, I dont get rights over him or her automatically.

Doctors and nurses save so many lives.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#74

When ppl belongs to marginalized section of society , their approach too becomes limited according to their situation , most of the times their aspirations and morale become limited to fulfilling their daily needs instead of thinking about the greater good of society or living a life adhering to high principles.
Instead of looking down on these ppl and their approach , if ppl who are already enlightened and are intelligent enough spare their time to understand their situations and their fears, to make sincere efforts to widen their approach , they too may do better then many of these enlightened ppl.
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If ppl go to vote for those who promises to take care of their needs then are they guilty of doing that and not thinking of greater good of society who hardly bother to think about them and improving their condition? why they are supposed to think beyond their daily needs when they are left with no other options?
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Today's episode have shown what a good person Mangla is . Though she has always stood to help others through her devi act like the woman whose husband was mistreating her, Kamli, Urmi , she easily overlooked those efforts and only thought of her devi acts when she was saving herself or Nandini and reprimanded herself for thinking about herself and Nandini alone.
She wanted to do good for all and trying that too in her badly limited capacities but still cursing herself for not doing more. How many ppl are able to do that?
Sincerely how many ppl who are even well situated , quite capable of helping others still not doing enough are able to reprimand themselves for not exerting themselves more?
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If Nandini's mother could not think of keeping her children safe while doing good for others also then there is certainly problem with her strategy.
If she wants to keep thinking about others at the cost of her own kids then it is her choice , why every one else who does not follow her foot steps need to be criticized?
If she could not feel herself responsible for the welfare of the helpless child she brought in this world , then why every one needs to remain unconcerned for the welfare of her child?
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If Mangla ever had the benefit of guidance of ppl like Sandyaji , support of ppl like Bhairon in her life ,she might have served the society in better way than Kishore or perhaps even Anandi.

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It is mere arrogance that society is standing only because of few good ppl , in truth it is standing because most of it's ppl are good and do not give up their inherent goodness despite facing all sort of oppression from few bad and powerful ppl who are also part of this society.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#75
Doctors and nurses save lives because they are paid for it. If they dont do it, they will be breaking the law for not saving their lives.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#76
What about good samaritans who save lives? They will not break law if they dont save them. But they dont ask rights over persons who they saved.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#77
Was Daddu wrong in holding Anandi responsible for losing her daughter? Yes he Dsa and Khazan like every one else held Anandi responsible for losing her daughter. Anandi herself took the blame.
So where is the question of blaming circumstances?She is blaming herself.

Only thing was Dsa Daddu and Khazan didn't taunt her or shout at her like Anop Alok and their wives did. What Ira Meenu Alok said in a caustic way Daddu and Dsa said it nicely and just like this forum members they also told her she is not fit to look after her kids on her own and Anandi agreed with them.

Where is the question of blaming circumstances.She agreed when thye felt she is not fit to be a mother and accepted what ever arrangemenst that Shekhar family head made for his family heirs.

When Anandi blamed herself for losing her kid and accepted that she is not fit to be mother and her children are not safe with her why people are still busy lynching her?


Has she taken her child to a night club/ party/casin and partying away her blues while her daughter got lost?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: anshurg5


When ppl belongs to marginalized section of society , their approach too becomes limited according to their situation , most of the times their aspirations and morale become limited to fulfilling their daily needs instead of thinking about the greater good of society or living a life adhering to high principles.
Instead of looking down on these ppl and their approach , if ppl who are already enlightened and are intelligent enough spare their time to understand their situations and their fears, to make sincere efforts to widen their approach , they too may do better then many of these enlightened ppl.
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If ppl go to vote for those who promises to take care of their needs then are they guilty of doing that and not thinking of greater good of society who hardly bother to think about them and improving their condition? why they are supposed to think beyond their daily needs when they are left with no other options?
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Today's episode have shown what a good person Mangla is . Though she has always stood to help others through her devi act like the woman whose husband was mistreating her, Kamli, Urmi , she easily overlooked those efforts and only thought of her devi acts when she was saving herself or Nandini and reprimanded herself for thinking about herself and Nandini alone.
She wanted to do good for all and trying that too in her badly limited capacities but still cursing herself for not doing more. How many ppl are able to do that?
Sincerely how many ppl who are even well situated , quite capable of helping others still not doing enough are able to reprimand themselves for not exerting themselves more?
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If Nandini's mother could not think of keeping her children safe while doing good for others also then there is certainly problem with her strategy.
If she wants to keep thinking about others at the cost of her own kids then it is her choice , why every one else who does not follow her foot steps need to be criticized?
If she could not feel herself responsible for the welfare of the helpless child she brought in this world , then why every one needs to remain unconcerned for the welfare of her child?
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If Mangla ever had the benefit of guidance of ppl like Sandyaji , support of ppl like Bhairon in her life ,she might have served the society in better way than Kishore or perhaps even Anandi.

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It is mere arrogance that society is standing only because of few good ppl , in truth it is standing because most of it's ppl are good and do not give up their inherent goodness despite facing all sort of oppression from few bad and powerful ppl who are also part of this society.


very true. An illiterate woman like her has more wisdom than that educated masterji and even anandi.

Today I gave her full 100/100 for accepting that all these years she did nothing but saving her own life and nimboli's. She is regretting for not thinking about the society. She took an oath that she will finish akhiraj. 👏

So, soon we are going to see Mangala taking head on with akhiraj. She is the new lead along with nimboli.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#79
If and but are all excuses to coverup. When Mangala herself owned up as to what she was doing and not doing, the argument ends there.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

What about good samaritans who save lives? They will not break law if they dont save them. But they dont ask rights over persons who they saved.


who exactly are samaritans ? sorry,did not understand.

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