Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
The protagonist Anandi lacked heroism which should be the characteristic of a true lead. I pitied her, I empathised with her but she never inspired me. Her approach to social issues was not professional but laughable. Her goodness was wasted on wrong people and her goodness was not needed by the right people. Yet she occupied the central place and she became the problem and problem solver. Anandi allowed herself to be used and dominated by people from dadisa to Ira. Now she is reduced to become a clotheshorse and her dress sense is making more news than what she is doing. Her admirers from Shiv to Ananth saw in her a woman who will never be a threat to their manhood. She will always find something to occupy herself than give them trouble the way a Sanchi or a Pushpa can give. Jagya found her wanting in something. Maybe he wanted a challenge.
Anandi is a paheli. A seedha saadha woman who was turned into a heroine by circumstances. Whats her contribution? Being allover and everywhere.
Anandi lacked heroism?
Who exactly is a hero? A hero is someone who would not to think twice before reaching out to people in trouble
A hero is someone who doesn't fear for his/her life
A hero is someone who will always stand up for what he/she thinks is right.
This is the same girl who has been rescuing child brides from the time she herself was a child.
She never stopped to think whether she would get help in doing what she thinks is right.
She set the lead and others followed her.
Bhairon Singh the wisest man was so loathe to against his domineering mother but the litlle girl had all the guts defy this old lady to do what she thinks is right.
She helps others fight for themselves and stand up for themselves.
Pushpa and Sanchi are examples of womanhood?😛 These women who want their husbands to dance like puppets in their hands are paragons of womanhood?Did these women wanted men or wanted dolls to play with or dolls that talk and dance when key is turned?
Shiv chose Anandi because she is no threat to his manhood?😲 Or did he chose her because she is someone who had enough and more inner strength to give only good to the world which has been harsh to her?
What were the reasons for Shiv choosing her? She has an identity of her own and whose thinking is unconventional yet respects relationships.Shiv loved her and respected her for what she is.
Why can it be not that Shiv had more guts to accept her for what she is?
Jagya's reasons for rejecting Anandi was it because she did not have what he wanted her did he not have it in him to get what he wanted out of her?
All the things that Anandi was forced to do in her first marriage by Dsa in the name of tradition and her husband in the name of fulfilling his wishes she did willingly in a whole hearted manner for her second husband.😉😆
The Anandi who allowed herself to be dominated by Dsa was a child.and inexperienced and not a mature woman.
There are two different aspects of Anandi - she would not allow anyone to come in between her beliefs about what is right and what is wrong. She doesn't let family influence her beliefs.She was most of the time fighting her family to cling her values and principles and what she believed as truth.
How many people have it in them to get into conflicts with their own loved ones for the sake of principles and what they believed as truth?How many people have it in them to be prepared to lose every relationship for the sake of what they believe as right?
Yes where her desires and dreams are concerned she always put other's happiness and well being above her own if that makes her door mat so be it.
Did Anandi ever care for what people around her think about her? Was she ever shown thinking what will society say ? Was she ever afraid of the society and it's reactions?
Can't argue with people who think clingy women and bossy women define womanhood.
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