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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Yes Anandi would have been better off if she didn't put the wishes of the family above her desires when it came to her own life.

Had she kicked and screamed saying that she didn't want to marry Jagya instead wanted to go to school her teacherji would have helped her do what she wanted to do. But too bad little Anandi loved and trusted her parents they couldn't do the right thing by her.

She trusted and obeyed Dsa and her parents in law - instead of giving into her own desire to continue her studies she obeyed them and ended up as an illiterate. Wish she followed her desires instead of sacrificing her dreams in favour of her duties as Jagya's wife. She would have been so much better off.

Post her marriage to Shiv which is the only time she actually followed her desires in her entire life. For the first time in her life she chose what SHE wanted to do. Follow her heart and she did.

Her dreams and priority had only been related to Shiv and beyond him she saw nothing.Shiv came with a package of eccentric family dysfunctional family.She spent time sorting them out.In the remaining time she pursued her other passion - helping women help themselves.

When Sarita begged for help she should have put herself and her daughter above Sarita's needs,She would have been living life on her own terms with her children by her side.

Yes she would have been better off on her own post Shiv's death her baby's kidnap but again she put the family concerns above her own discomfort at the thought of staying in BH.

The same Dsa J and her child was responsible for her shifting out of BH.

If only Anandi had put her own interests dreams concerns above others where her family is concerned her life would have been much better.

Too bad - her love and respect for her relationships always end up damaging her life.

Wish she could be just as agressive as she is when she is standing up for people who are being oppressed when it came to her own life. Wish she didn't let her love compassion for her fellow human beings and family come in the way of her own interests.

How I wish she would go against the family like the times she did when her family members were found in the wrong and turned oppressors of the weaker people. How I wish she would confront the family when it came to her own interests.

Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

The point is not what anandi did and did not... the point is her conditions were not same as mangala's are. When you know at the back of your mind that you have love and support of your family, you automatically become confident.

How a 12 yr old is expected to wear a mask and operate? You learn to wear masks at Urmi's age. The fact that she lies to escape beating from akhi/harki shows that she knows how to wear a mask and in future she may use it more effectively.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

There was a time in this forum when Anandi was ridiculed for every thing wrong happening anywhere . Now Mangla has taken that coveted position. 😉 😆 Whatever wrong is happening anywhere is happening due to her. And whatever good has been done by anyone is done despite of Mangla. 😛

She is growing in stature steadily . Me enjoying it. 😳

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Except taking revenge from Akhiraj, Mangla is not waiting for right time for doing good . She comes into action as soon as she finds that something wrong is going to happen or is already happened . She helped Nandini and Kamli in time , actually instantly made plans and executed those and saved their lives. She helped Urmi immediately and rescued her from further cruel treatment of Kundan , has not waited for right time.

Since past many years she must be doing her bit to help ppl timely not waiting for right time. Always seen her trying to oppose Akhiraj and Harki's unjust deeds , it is different matter they do not listen her.

Taking revenge from a powerful , ruthless person like Akhiraj is a big thing , specially when police and society will not help her in anyway . It needs more than just courage to expose and punish him . So she is waiting for the time when situation will be more favorable to her. She has not lost hope. She did not ran away from that house as many have suggested but is tolerating him daily perhaps in the hope of getting any clue ,proof or support which can be enough to seize him.

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Anandi too many times has waited for right time. Has not she waited for right time to expose DB in front of family?

Has not she waited for right time to expose Sanchi's lie about bribing pundit ?

Has not she waited for right time ( almost 6 months) to surrender that government file back to collector office which has information about Anoop's illegal business?

If these examples are not enough I am ready to search my memory to find few more. 😛

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Mangala is a threat to Anandi. She may come in between anandi and her daughter and her daughter may choose her over anandi... this is the real fear behind ridiculing mangala.

That is why it is said again and again that nandini has not given her mother's place to anyone.😆

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Not sure where the problem is with Mangala? Is her sitting at her own home a problem? Atleast it is better than going back your ex husband's home and stay there almost forever.

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Talking about Anandi, and seeing her character grow in the last 40 years of Anandi's life, I can confindently say that Anandi can't survive without support. Otherwise she would have proved it over the last 11 years.

With no Shiv or Bhairon in life, her daughter is not found, and she lives like a headless chicken moving from one person's problem to another. Does she have any direction for her own life?

Anandi is established as a face of change for TV shows, not Mangala. Yet Mangala appears more realistic, inspiring and convicing character unlike Anandi who is nothing but a lost sheep.

Mangala was always established as a simple and regular character with nothing extraordinary about her but nothing derogatory either. She was meant to be a simple, humble character who fights the odds of her life with the means available to her. And that makes her to be a value adding character in the life of Nimboli who is apparently the lead.

So don't get why she gets scrutinised so much?

Genes and comparison through genes looks so lame. No doubt there are inherent qualities in a person, but environment and exposure is a larger contributor to one's outlook. Not just genes.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: anshurg5

There was a time in this forum when Anandi was ridiculed for every thing wrong happening anywhere . Now Mangla has taken that coveted position. 😉 😆 Whatever wrong is happening anywhere is happening due to her. And whatever good has been done by anyone is done despite of Mangla. 😛

She is growing in stature steadily . Me enjoying it. 😳

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Except taking revenge from Akhiraj, Mangla is not waiting for right time for doing good . She comes into action as soon as she finds that something wrong is going to happen or is already happened . She helped Nandini and Kamli in time , actually instantly made plans and executed those and saved their lives. She helped Urmi immediately and rescued her from further cruel treatment of Kundan , has not waited for right time.
Since past many years she must be doing her bit to help ppl timely not waiting for right time. Always seen her trying to oppose Akhiraj and Harki's unjust deeds , it is different matter they do not listen her.
Taking revenge from a powerful , ruthless person like Akhiraj is a big thing , specially when police and society will not help her in anyway . It needs more than just courage to expose and punish him . So she is waiting for the time when situation will be more favorable to her. She has not lost hope. She did not ran away from that house as many have suggested but is tolerating him daily perhaps in the hope of getting any clue ,proof or support which can be enough to seize him.

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Anandi too many times has waited for right time. Has not she waited for right time to expose DB in front of family?

Has not she waited for right time to expose Sanchi's lie about bribing pundit ?

Has not she waited for right time ( almost 6 months) to surrender that government file back to collector office which has information about Anoop's illegal business?

If these examples are not enough I am ready to search my memory to find few more. 😛

CVs of BV keep only one character unchanged and all the rest will be reshaped remodeled to suit the story.

Only one character came with no scope for any changes. Writers CVs and more importantly the channel will NEVER ALLOW her to get any grey shades😆

All the rest of the characters have come with inbuilt mechanisms which can be used to twist change the character to suit the story they are telling.

It is just that some people think that they have noticed the inbuilt mechanisms which allow this particular much debated character to be reshaped remodeled so they are interested debating in those possible mechanisms😛😆😉

Time will tell😛

Anandi still holds the record 😎. She has so many threads running to more than 100 pages dedicated to debating her actions.

Next comes Balak Var of Anandi

Mangala has a long way to go before she can arouse that much passion in viewers's minds😛

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Waiting for the right time doesn't mean one sits around and waits doing nothing- Mangala does that in case of Akheraj.

Anandi gathers more things and information that will nail them and making sure when she points a finger at that person it was not done wrongly and there is no mistake. It is time consuming but one has to be sure that the person is guilty and an innocent person is not wrongly accused.

This same Anandi didn't lose even a minute while proving to the villagers that Shravan was the one who maligned her and trying to ruin her reputation.

Sanchi's case was she waiting for the right time or gathering evidence to support her claim or was she trying to make sure when she accused Sanchi she was right and she wasn't being unfair to her?

@Bold did Anandi wait for right time to expose or she decided to forgive that old lady and give her another chance?

When and why did she expose that lady? - The lady did not learn any lessons from the compassion that was shown to her.The lady has not changed her ways.

File on Anoop - When Shiv got that file it was just mere suspicions he was looking into Anop's case when he died - gathering evidence against Anop or in favour of his innocence.

The next collector was also doing the same Anandi cooperated with the collector and gave the files.to the next collector.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#77

It is really strange that Mangla is accused for not leaving her own house while Anandi who was considered empowered , had all the resources one can imagine had left her own house when she was facing a difficult time in her life and in the process snatched his home from his son. Has not she did that because time was not right for her to live and take care of her son alone?

It will be said that she did it because Daddu and DSa asked her to do that. But why she did not had courage to oppose what was not right even if it was coming from her dear ones? Is it right to surrender before the unfair demands of the family?

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: anshurg5
It is really strange that Mangla is accused for not leaving her own house while Anandi who was considered empowered , had all the resources one can imagine had left her own house when she was facing a difficult time in her life and in the process snatched his home from his son. Has not she did that because time was not right for her to live and take care of her son alone?

It will be said that she did it because Daddu and DSa asked her to do that. But why she did not had courage to oppose what was not right even if it was coming from her dear ones? Is it right to surrender before the unfair demands of the family?

It is understandable to think that anandi stayed temporarily for a year or 2 after all the mishap. But for 11 years?

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

#79

People probably have not read the post.

I have already said that had Anandi been able to go against her family like the way she is capable of going against the world her life would have been so much better.She screwed up her life out of her love respect for her parents Singhs and later on Daddu.

Jagya dumped her. But why should that be the reason for her to let go of her relationship with Singhs? She invested a lot emotions in that relationship with Senior Singhs. Should she leave all that just because Jagya dumped her?

What prevented Mangala from going against Akheraj and reporting him? is it concern for the family? She doesn't have any feelings for her husband's parents.so what prevented her ?Is it out of fear of not having anywhere to go?

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: aparnauma
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What prevented Mangala from going against Akheraj and reporting him? is it concern for the family? She doesn't have any feelings for her husband's parents.so what prevented her ?Is it out of fear of not having anywhere to go?

@bold - did you mean mangala should have reported to the police? It was shown during Gopal's murder track, how akhiraj could manage the police Inspite of murdering him in front of a crowd. So what would happen if mangala reports against him? Akhiraj would continue living happy while mangala would get killed or be banished. So what's the point in taking that hasty step if the goal is anyway not going to be reached?

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