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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi has a deep relationship with BH. So how deep was her relationship with Shekars? Less deep , more deep or at least equally deep as her relationship with BH ?( we cannot estimate the depth of her relationship with her biological parents because she herself never mentions them or remember them. ). So if Anandi is deeply connected with her ex in-laws and had time to build relationships with her new in-laws, where is that time for Ganga? To make also such a deep relationship as a mother, a wife, a DIL? Where is that time for Ganga if her husband' ex-wife is always present, always in the foreground, giving promise in their behalf,giving them lectures,criticizing their parenting or their approach,being the first one who will run to console her ex although there is his wife who shares the same grief and sadness and pain? Just because Anandi has a deep relationship with BH no one else will have the same opportunity ever ? It's not about Ganga or any other woman in Jagya life, its about Anandi and her vanity . How is it possible that a person who has had so much failure in her own life, a woman who lost her child due to her stupidity, the woman whom we never see spending time with her other child who already have no one parent, a woman-mother-social worker who meet a girl in the jungle in the middle of the night but does not find it suspicious at all still thinks she is best placed to preach to others what is best for them, what they should do with their marital life, with their kids etc. And if Anandi thinks Jagya was giving more importance to her son than Abhi , why she kept quiet all this time ?Why she didnt move from BH a long time ago? Or she was perfectly fine with that?
So yes Anandi interefere too much but its really sad that writers cannot make their female lead to be one positive character thanks
to her good deeds but by making others looking bad. Who's next?

Its just the writers failed a big time . Because most women will sympathize more with Ganga who has all these years to tolerate her husband's ex just because her husband's ex has deep relationship with BH. With no boundaries.

Edited by Stephi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

How Ganga changed suddenly?

Everything was so abrupt.

Anandi going to Jagya to console him looked ok and the way Jagya broke down was a surprise. he was maintaining a tough exteriror.
And surprise of surprise, Ganga's behaviour. No one can change so suddenly. Not even a chameleon. She was also showing the tougher side of her so far.
How husband and wife became teary eyed one after another?

Nimboli's naughtiness and her laughter lightened the heavy atmosphere. Hope she teaches lessons to everyone.She will not take nonsense from a newcomer. What a relief to see her so different! Anandi will crush this spirit in no time and make her another anandi in no time.
Except stone throwing, I like Nimboli's other pranks.

Well Jagya's breaking down doesn't look abrupt because people snap suddenly especially when they are putting up a brave front in front of others and for the sake of others.

Ganga's realisation that Anandi's interference was just her attempt to help them in any which way looks a litlle sudden. Hope they show what made her change so swiftly

Nimbol's naughtiness and spirited nature why would it be suppressed by Anandi? Isn't Shivam a spirited kid? Was Amol ever prevented from speaking his mind out or expressing his opinion?All thanks to Anandi he finally learnt how to tell off bullies like DB. He was such a shy introverted kid and became such a bright kid who lightened up the atmosphere with his cheerfulness Don't see any difference in Shivam and Nandini.Anandi doesn't have to make her into another Anandi. Nandini/Nimboli is Anandi repackaged and remixed.
Wasn't Anandi spirited little kid full of energy?
If anyone suppressed her it was Dsa and then her first husband.
It was Shiv who brought out that child who was in Anandi.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya


Ganga remembered anandi saying that she has a deep relationship with BH. She realized that it was not an interference but it was her concern for their family. That is why she is also concerned about her mannu, that her heart is pure.

How come you are saying she always interferes ?😕



This is in context of who changes or which character changes drastically. Anandi is always the same with all her faults and with all her plus points. Even the changes are not drastic.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Well Jagya's breaking down doesn't look abrupt because people snap suddenly especially when they are putting up a brave front in front of others and for the sake of others.

Ganga's realisation that Anandi's interference was just her attempt to help them in any which way looks a litlle sudden. Hope they show what made her change so swiftly

Nimbol's naughtiness and spirited nature why would it be suppressed by Anandi? Isn't Shivam a spirited kid? Was Amol ever prevented from speaking his mind out or expressing his opinion?All thanks to Anandi he finally learnt how to tell off bullies like DB. He was such a shy introverted kid and became such a bright kid who lightened up the atmosphere with his cheerfulness Don't see any difference in Shivam and Nandini.Anandi doesn't have to make her into another Anandi. Nandini/Nimboli is Anandi repackaged and remixed.
Wasn't Anandi spirited little kid full of energy?
If anyone suppressed her it was Dsa and then her first husband.
It was Shiv who brought out that child who was in Anandi.



Well, will anandi approve those harmless pranks indulged by Nimboli? Tit for tat types and making faces.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Even if its is abrupt, I am glad that Ganga started to introspect and will be sensitive towards Jagya's feelings and understanding about others.

Jagya's breaking down. He is basically a soft heartted person and we have seen proofs of this at other times too. When he tried to please badimaasi against all odds. And when he rescued anandi from kidnappers. When he brought Gauri home for treatment.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya feels that he lost both his sons. He feels while trying to do his best for Mannu Abhi was neglected by him.Anandi just agreed with him and told him that not just Mannu but he paid more attention to Shivam than Abhi. This is what Ganga has always felt and was fighting with Jagya about this issue.
Finally what Anandi said while she was leaving BH made sense to her. She wanted to leave because she wanted protect relationships and not because she was angry with her or upset with her.
Everybody in BH including J held her responsible for Anandi's exit but Anandi never left because she was angry or upset with Ganga.

Thta realisation struck her when she heard what Anandi was saying to Jagya.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ganga's tears and FB's of her conversations with Anandi had nothing to do with Anandi's pep talk to Jagya. At least not entirely. Though it did open her eyes to some facts.

What hit her was watching her husband in tears and blaming himself for the Mannu, Abhi fiasco. She realised that he too was vulnerable because of his love for the kids. She probably never saw her support needing support.

She had blamed himfor not loving Abhi as much. She had commented on Jagya taking Anandi's side or agreeing with her.

What she saw and heard on the terrace showed her the true nature of the relationship between Jagya and Anandi. Two kids who grew up together and had a roller coaster journey in life and could freely express their thoughts to each other. DadiSa would have told him the exact same things as did Anandi.

The incident should strengthen the relationship between Jagya and Ganga. And Ganga will hopefully pull out of her self-made race to become No.1, and instead concentrate on becoming her own person.

They moved Ganga's enemy outside her home. Instead of infighting, Ganga will be fighting Bimla to get Mannu back...looks that way at least.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Well, will anandi approve those harmless pranks indulged by Nimboli? Tit for tat types and making faces.

What ddi you mean by saying that she will crush Nandini's spirit and make her into Anandi?
If at all anyone will crush Nandini's spirit it will be Mangala because of her inability to handle such a spirited little kid.She may think she is doing great by curbing her just like Dsa thought she was doing a lot of good by clipping Anandi's wings in the name of tradition and discipline.
Of course Anandi won't approve those pranks. She didn't approve them when Shivam played pranks too.She showed Shivam how it feels when he is at the receiving end of his own prank.
Don't think he played those kind of pranks again after that.

But does he look any less spirited?Did Anandi crush Shivam's spirit?
I think the main reason why she left BH was because of Shivam's high spirits.He needed a lot more space for himself.
I know people in this forum love to think that she left because of Ganga and Jagya's problems but the main reason was she herself wanted freedom just like they wanted peace.
Why would she crush Nandini?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nimboli's case if different from Shivam's. Her pranks are justified to some extent.

Hope she tells Akheraj that Urmila cooked food for a change and then Akheraj will say the food is great with a sour face! Her mother told that the cake was baked by Sanchi to protect Sanchi's reputation and she also said that she cooked bad food to protect DB!
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Nimboli's case if different from Shivam's. Her pranks are justified to some extent.

Hope he tells Akheraj that Urmila cooked food for a change and then Akheraj will say the food is great with a sour face!

Well you should make up your mind whether her playing pranks is good thing for her not 😛😆

Now the girl knows only one way to make her point and she doesn't know there are other ways to make a point.
Anandi never took things lying down even when she was a kid . Dsa's yelling didn't put her off she used to demand an explanation and used to ask why she was wrong even she took the punishments she was never quiet.
Nimboli is also doing the same thing as her mother . Only difference is Nimboli's mother was into non violence and satyagrahi by nature as opposed to Nimboli.


Nimboli needs to know that there are other ways to protect others who are weaker than her and other ways fighting for justice . She took on Kundan when he beat up his sister while his mother watched helplessly . She took on people who she found to be harassing the helpless and weak ones . Will Anandi curb that?No way.

When Amol was being troubled by DB his parents told him to avoid the lady because he was too young to take her on but at the same time they explained to him that he should accept scolding when he has done wrong and when he has not done anything wrong he shouldn't take it . They used to spend time with him explain things to him and that's what made him take on DB.Anandi didn't have to rush in to protect him he managed fine and he even stood strongly by her when the family was angry and upset with her.

A shy withdrawn introverted child becoming assertive strong and able to handle problems that came his way in a sensible manner.



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