Anandi has a deep relationship with BH. So how deep was her relationship with Shekars? Less deep , more deep or at least equally deep as her relationship with BH ?( we cannot estimate the depth of her relationship with her biological parents because she herself never mentions them or remember them. ). So if Anandi is deeply connected with her ex in-laws and had time to build relationships with her new in-laws, where is that time for Ganga? To make also such a deep relationship as a mother, a wife, a DIL? Where is that time for Ganga if her husband' ex-wife is always present, always in the foreground, giving promise in their behalf,giving them lectures,criticizing their parenting or their approach,being the first one who will run to console her ex although there is his wife who shares the same grief and sadness and pain? Just because Anandi has a deep relationship with BH no one else will have the same opportunity ever ? It's not about Ganga or any other woman in Jagya life, its about Anandi and her vanity . How is it possible that a person who has had so much failure in her own life, a woman who lost her child due to her stupidity, the woman whom we never see spending time with her other child who already have no one parent, a woman-mother-social worker who meet a girl in the jungle in the middle of the night but does not find it suspicious at all still thinks she is best placed to preach to others what is best for them, what they should do with their marital life, with their kids etc. And if Anandi thinks Jagya was giving more importance to her son than Abhi , why she kept quiet all this time ?Why she didnt move from BH a long time ago? Or she was perfectly fine with that?
So yes Anandi interefere too much but its really sad that writers cannot make their female lead to be one positive character thanks
to her good deeds but by making others looking bad. Who's next?
Its just the writers failed a big time . Because most women will sympathize more with Ganga who has all these years to tolerate her husband's ex just because her husband's ex has deep relationship with BH. With no boundaries.
Edited by Stephi - 10 years ago