Others to blame, always...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Does Ganga ever hold herself responsible for anything that goes wrong in her life? It is always others.
Old habits die hard.

Yes her Aunt/uncle were to be blamed for her child marriage.
Yes her in-laws were to be blamed for being harsh to her.

So in her opinion anything wrong that happens to her is everybody else's fault.

She is unable to communicate with Jagya, it is his fault.
Jagya concurs on some valid points with Anandi, it is his fault
She does not want to tell Mannu the truth, it is Anandi's fault.
Her son is having a girlfriend, it is the girlfriend's fault, and Pooja's mother's fault.
Mannu is behaving irrationally, it is Ratan's fault.

She needs to introspect whether she is going wrong somewhere.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes nothing in her life is because of her fault.
One more thing if Abhi feels that Shivam steals thunder with better performances it is Shivam's fault.If Shivam's enthusiastic hugs are welcomed by Dsa and Abhi feels neglected it is Dsa's fault

If Abhi feels his father is lenient towards Shivam it is Jagya's fault.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Now her son ran away with his girlfriend, it is Anandi's fault

Pooja is Anandi's student, it is Anandi's fault

Anandi helped Saria and Pooja, it is Anandi's fault

Anandi dropped Bimla accidentally it is Anandi's fault(or Bimla's fault?)

Anandi met Ratan, its Ratan's fault.

Ratan died in Jaitsar hospital and created such big mess in Mannus life, it is God's fault


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee

Does Ganga ever hold herself responsible for anything that goes wrong in her life? It is always others.

Old habits die hard. ... very true.

Yes her Aunt/uncle were to be blamed for her child marriage. ... only here it was not her fault.

Yes her in-laws were to be blamed for being harsh to her.... she could have turned the tide in her favor just like nimboli is doing. She was much older than what nimboli is now, but she kept on blaming and cursing her in-laws and husband.

So in her opinion anything wrong that happens to her is everybody else's fault.... she is wrong to think this way.

She is unable to communicate with Jagya, it is his fault. ... it is her fault, not jagya's

Jagya concurs on some valid points with Anandi, it is his fault
She does not want to tell Mannu the truth, it is Anandi's fault... she is solely responsible for manking mannu's life a mess.

Her son is having a girlfriend, it is the girlfriend's fault, and Pooja's mother's fault...no, it is her fault because she put restrictions on mannu that instigated him to lie to his mother and to meet pooja more often.

Mannu is behaving irrationally, it is Ratan's fault.... her fault. She hid the truth from him and took him for granted that he will accept whatever stories she will tell him.

She needs to introspect whether she is going wrong somewhere... people who think others are wrong can never look within themselves. They remain unhappy forever.


nice post Rtee.👍🏼

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Posted: 10 years ago
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so what about madam Anandi ?
Has her highness the queen ever interospected herself for her any mistake 🤪

Does she not declare others at fault every time ?O just recently she was blaming Jagya He does not understand his wife lol and Anandi understands her more ?


and i don't know when Jagya has agreed points of Anandi Thats Ganga's misunderstanding and even Anandi madam misunderstandings When the hell Jagya has asked her opinion and even agreed with her so why Anandi the great thinks he agrees with her that she barges in the house delivering her gyaan to him without anyone asking her ? Madam ji does not even need permission to speak in others matters The most perfect soul she knows the best ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: saba113

so what about madam Anandi ?

Has her highness the queen ever interospected herself for her any mistake 🤪

Does she not declare others at fault every time ?O just recently she was blaming Jagya He does not understand his wife lol and Anandi understands her more ?


and i don't know when Jagya has agreed points of Anandi Thats Ganga's misunderstanding and even Anandi madam misunderstandings When the hell Jagya has asked her opinion and even agreed with her so why Anandi the great thinks he agrees with her that she barges in the house delivering her gyaan to him without anyone asking her ? Madam ji does not even need permission to speak in others matters The most perfect soul she knows the best ?

lol yes Anandi the great she thinks she is never wrong She is most perfect Have never seen her looking into herself even for once 🤓if madam over confident could look into herself even for once she would not be so over confident she knows the best
How many times she has falsely accused Jagya 🤓Did she even once introspect she was mistaking ?

she thinks Jagya concurs her points only Gives more weight to her words than Gangas Wow what makes this woman thinks like this ?

Jagya does what he wants to do Ganga was misunderstanding him if he would so much agreeing with Anandi he would have send Mannu to Ratan when Anandi came up giving him promise Did he do even asked Ganga ? Absolutely NOT

Anandi herself interferes in his matters without him involving her


yesterday how Anandi entered the house and started giving her lecture about others kid Did anyone ask her opinion ?Did she ask her opinion before speaking 🤓


Ganga was making Jagya a punch bag for no reason She was wrong in that and she needs big time apology from him

Rest why she should introspect herself for this woman Anandi ? why she interferes in Jagya and Ganga's matters without feeling the need of even asking permission May i suggest something ? she is an outsider ? why Anandi shows off she owns Jagya ?Any other person in her place yesterday would have asked permission before speaking but she entered the house and gave her lecture then smiling showing as everyone agreed with her when i believe Jagya was saying that even before she entered Its not Jagya and Dadisaa agreed with her Happy Ganga eyes are seeing things in correct way now here why not Anandi introspect herself and give others their space She left BH but again and again coming there with her unnecessary lectures why? 🤓

why Ganga should interospect herself for Dadisaa ? what wrong she has done to Dadisaa 🤓

i believe she has scolded Mannu and Pooja both why she should introspect herself for Sarita mata and Pooja Sarita who is such clueless mother Her daughter lying beneath her teeth to her she goes to trap Badi Haveli great grandson Hold chutiya of bindya she will tell all Pooja 's little tricks and even lies i don't know why Ganga should introspect herself for these two new great souls ?


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ganga should sit and introspect herself for Jagya She was wrong in thinking he follows Anandis crap lectures and take his decisions accordingly Anandi interferes in his matters on her own and he does not concur her any points and takes his decisions because Anandi is most right NEVER Yesterday was another proof In this condition he did not want to send Mannu to Mumbai he gave his view without even once saying i agree with Anandi or even asking her opinion
Anandi interferes in his matters on her own coz she loves too She loves to show herself off she knows the best even when she knows nothing

so Ganga asking Anandi to stay in her own limits and mind her life would have been more correct then blaming poor Jagya

Even Abhi's matter her blaming Jagya was wrong

Not listening to Jagya in this Mannu's matter was also wrong

All in all she was wrong to Jagya and she realizes that


Rest why she needs to introspect herself for almighty Anandi ? why Anandi does not introspect herself and stop interfering in Jagya's matters when no one asks her opinion neither her opinion matters Yesterday the family was discussing among themselves why she pushed her leg without anyone asking her opinion ?if anyone asks your opinion do give when no one asks then why doing your blah blah blah ? and then if Ganga would have disliked it and said anything something Anandi Anandi would have start crying and become false victim Ganga has poison in her heart for me ? Every parent like to make decision about their kid themselves No one can be perfect Mistakes happen Jagya was making Ganga understand the point why Anandi started her lecture entering ? Anandi thinks herself of best parent in the world she is preaching others ?

why Ganga should introspect herself for Pooja and Sarita ? Is Ganga's responsible for Pooja's acts 🤔in Mannu Pooja love story the mess maker is Pooja coz she started this and she accomplished her plans so why Ganga is wrong in that ?🤪
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: RTee

Does Ganga ever hold herself responsible for anything that goes wrong in her life? It is always others.

Old habits die hard.


After watching today's episode and precap, it is becoming clear why ganga could not get along in Ratan's house and why they wanted to kick her out and keep mannu with them.

Better would have been if mannu was with his father and grandparents. This mother ruined his life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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God or fate gives her something with its right hand and takes away something else with its left hand. Life is like that. One has to lose something It cannot be winning all the way.

She has to cope with failures after her winning streak.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves


God or fate gives her something with its right hand and takes away something else with its left hand. Life is like that. One has to lose something It cannot be winning all the way.

She has to cope with failures after her winning streak.

wats this??😲failures after her winning streak??
how can any1 is so callous 2 talk like this?? a mother is loosing her son & ppl r happy. wat a disgusting thinking.🤢🤢🤢how cna they say it winning & loosing??🤢

how can any1 blame ganga.just bcoz ur fav Aji has lost all & always blamed oders ganga shud also loose??🤢🤢

ganga had/has always hard way unlike Aji but ppl blaming her instead of supporting her just 2 put their fav on pedestal.🤢
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