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Posted: 10 years ago
#11
wow wat a unbiased POV abt mannu-pooja case.
even if mannu luvs it doesn't mean ganga's barging in2 stop pooja is wrong.she has every rite.
if ganga barges in2 sraita's home shes entitled 2 it after she asked pooja 2 keep away from mannu.
every mother & prsn has this rite if it interferes in their prsnl matters.
if any employee of sum1 is creating havoc in oders lives then they'r every rite 2 stop & barge in2 the ofc/home of that employee .and atleast this much sense is still there in Aji oderwise she wud'd objected 2 ganga''s cuming 2 ask pooja 4 that blasting even if in her so-called polite & sensible way.

if 2marrow sum hospi emplyoee do sumthing like this wid shivam or nimboli(afte r her cuming back 2 Aji) wudn't Aji will barge in2 their homes/hospi & blast them away 4 creating such havoc even after asking not 2 do that.and wudn't ganga shudn't interfere in that??

and moreover SN was BN earlier. i clearly rembr wen Aji asked J 2 settle sarita sumwhere. J told her he did it in BN. how cum BN turned in2 SN we don't know.

i just wish sumthing happens & mannu royally blast poja & dumps her & ends this forced infatutn 4 that pushy & cheap gal.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12
Yes Sumi was so wrong if she didn't want the refugee to stay in her home indefinitely
Yes Sumi was wrong if she wanted a DIL who is well educated and whose family has a social standing which is similar to theirs and she is wrong if she opts for a girl who wants to be part of her son's life even if it is as his third wife.Yes Sumi was wrong if she wanted the bride's family to be understanding towards her son and accept him for what he is despite knowing what he had been in his past. Yes Sumi was so wrong

Yes Sumi was so wrong in protecting her son's interests. Sumi was wrong in trying to chose a bride with all the qualities his second wife his personal choice had.

Sumi was wrong if she didn't want trouble for her family from a refugee whom they had given shelter only out of compassion but not out of any obligation.

But Ganga has all the rights to barge into Sarita and Pooja's home and warn them and tell them to stay away from her son but never tells her sone directly to stay away from Pooja.

Sarita and Pooja are not even benificiaries of her goodness or kindness.They are given shelter in the school/Gurukul started by Anandi in her husband's name. Unlike Ganga who was just a recepient of kindness of Singhs and went on to become bahu

Very unbiased behaviour from Ganga indeed.

Pooja is in a much better position than Ganga had been she is not dependent on Ganga for food and shelter she is free to do what she wants with her life.

Don't know how Sumi is wrong and how Ganga is right

Don't understand how Ganga knowing that the man is committed else where still dreamt about him is right and how Pooja's teenage behavior is being termed as wrong.

If Ganga's behaviour towards Pooja is right then so is Sumi's behaviour towards refugee Ganga

If Pooja a bright student daughter of a single independant mother is wrong in developing attachement towards an equally young Mannu then where does that leave Ganga who is a single uneducated mother with no means to support herself developing attachement towards her benefactor who is committed else where?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#13
that is why i dont like nimboli character. When Akheraj beat him i feel to tell akhheraj give him two three more slaps extra.
Sorry may be i sound harsh but what to do - i really dont like this character nimboli , i never felt sympathized with the girl.

well all other kids r perfect in their role.

and this Pooja character really not interested , i dont understand what was a need to show mannu-pooja romance at this stage.

Pooja is really irritating character.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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sumi turned in2 monster.if sh e din't want ganga 2 stay then she made her leave also. and ganga went away.and moreover sumi cudn't say that bcoz she'd elders above her who wanted he r 2 stay.
but still sh e went away.
wen she saw the havoc in singhs life bcoz of ratan she went away in that nite wid her toddler kid.
after she went 2 manglore she never called him on her own. wen J himself reduced his calls 2 her she din't call him back except wen she finished the course as J has promised her 2 give job in jaitser.
and wen she lived in hospi quarters also she was in her limits unlike pooja.
and sumi wanted bride of eh r choice no1 is denying that but did ganga present herself as that 2her. she never even thot of being beendani of BH even tho she fell 4 J.

wats wrong if she was in luv wd the man whos engaged .atleast she din't plan or plot or forced herself on him nor she thre herself like pooja did/does.

and din't Aji was still dreaming abt he r Ex hubby even wen she was engaged & mrd 2 anoder man all the while pretending she"ll b gud wife 2 that man.how was that rite & ganga a s wrong

and JaGan situtn & conds r difft form pooja-mannu. they r teenagers not adults.thats the diff.but as usual bcoz ppl want 2 bash ganga & prove he r wrong they will post their illogical reasons

ganga din't push herself on J like pooja is doing. wen she was allowed 2 do things 4 singhs & J she did but wen was asked not 2 do she never did. she din't even invite him on teej tho wen J reached there she was srprsd.

wat pooja is doing?? wen shes asked 2 stay away why cudn't she do that if shes not dependant on ganga like ganga was. but still ganga w as not a free loader. if she cudn't give them back she served them & helped in their household chores even after DS called her a s guest & don't do any work.

how can any1 equate JaGan case wid mannu-pooja.pooja is like sanchi pushy & cheap.
and i think wen DS felt that J is not listening 2 any1 abt going wid ganga 2 mangalore the din't she go 2 ganga 2 ask her 2 stop him??

and ganga'd stopped mannu also wenever she cums 2 know abt it. if she cums 2 know mannu she"ll aks him 2 stop that.she'd earlier 2 also asked him not 2 lie & concentrate on his studies.

just bcoz pooja is a so-called bright student of single independent mother then it gives her more rite 2 throw herself on boys while an uneducated single mother can't secretly luv he r benefactor??
now shud i also say the smae thing ur frnd said 2 me abt DB/? i think the thinking is same 2 DB.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dsa went to Ganga to ask her to leave on her own to Mangla re but did she barge in and order Ganga?
What gives Ganga the right to barge in to Sarita's house and bully them into obeying her?

Why can't Ganga control her son instead?

Sumi turned monster only after seeing her son beaten up by goons and her entire family almost lost their life while trying to protect Ganga and her son

Well if Pooja had been cheap and pushy she would have told Mannu how his mother lied how she caught her lying . But she didn't do anything that would make Mannu lose respect for his mother.

Nobody wanted to see Sanchi married to Jagya just like the way nobody wants to see Mannu Pooja getting attached so early in life.
But that doesn't make Ganga bullying Sarita and Pooja right.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't think either the writers who created Nimboli nor the character Nimboli want sympathy for Nimboli.
Nimboli only wants to be understood and in turn wants to understand how the world of grown up human beings function.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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DS did order in garb of request. that was not request. every1 on at that tim eon forum clearly said that DS ordered ganga in garb of request
and if sumi turned in2 monster after attack on J then why din't she turn monster 2 Aji wen she saw J lying outside dustbin & never thot of being hungry??it was DS who use 2 worry abt him not sumi.
it was never sumi was concerned mom but it was always how 2 bully his son unlike ganga. she never interferes in his studies or any oder matter

ganga din't bully any1. she asked pooja 2 stay away from mannu in a quite polite way oderwise we'd seen in rela & reel life how ppl behave in such cases.
and its the matter of her prsnl lives so she can go & ask any1 whos creating havoc in her lives.
she has every rite.
if sum1 thinks it as bullying then it doesn't mean universally ppl think it like that.tell any1 all abt this & ask their opinions in real life no1 will blame ganga & say shes bullying.
if sarita had considered ganga's barging in as bullying she wud'd said that 2 her

and ganga is controlling her son also. luks liek ppl r watching sum oder ver of BV.wenever she found abt him doing sumthing like this shes asking him but wen she finds out the same wid pooja shes also stopping her. wats wrong in thta.

i rembr one of my frnd was in luv wid a guy form highr caste.and guys family got ready 4 the sake of their boy but wen they went wid alliance my frnds parents sort of insulted them & clearly told that they won't marry their daughter outside their 'biradari". so after that wen once i went 2 visit my frnd her mother sort of complained 2me abt that & asked my POV & as i knew the boy being gud i only said that u shud'd considered that. i din't even talk abt caste.
but then after sumdays wen i went 2 visit he r again her father scolded me 4 influencing my frnd & asked me 2 saty away form her. i felt bad & i told abt it 2 my frnd.my frnd asked her father later on. he told he did bcoz he thot i was bad influence on her as one of oder frnd of mine that frnd was sort of provoking her & he thot that was me. but my frnd cleared all that it was not me& i just put my POV wne asked.
but they also stopped my frnd & wen cum 2 know(even tho i was innocent)that i m creating havoc in their prsn matters they scolded me. but i won't call that bullying.

same things happened wid my bro also wid ex GF. and we did stop him but wen matters turn worse we asked even her 2 stop.thats not bullying.

its not bullying if thats bullying then its ur perception.
if 2marrow shivam falls 4 a pooja type of gal or hav crush 4 nay oder gal & Aji also ask that gal 2 stop i on't call it bullying. she has every rite
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Posted: 10 years ago
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then they should have not shown nimboli 11 year old , she should be shown little small.
If cvs want to show nimboli to know how the world function then really for me it will be boring
Because as per my view nimboli is staying with them from 11 years so she knows what kind of family its.

her dialogue -now i will not speak truth shows her weakness.

Akheraj comes with full swing but nimboli puts cold water with her too much sweet behaviour.

Whenever i watch nimboli i feel even if anandi will come to rescue her she will say i will not come with u , i m happy with them.

I will start liking nimboli when i will see hate for akheraj and kundan in her eyes and in her body language. for me this bapusa and kudansa version makes her typical indian bahu.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have empathy for Nimboli and Pooja because of their age and inexperience.

Love is not a cheap emotion and no one becomes cheap just because they chose to love.

On the otherhand Hate is a cheap emotion and those who hate others just because they love have to introspect.

Age barrier is only for marriage not for love.

Ganga's love, Pooja's love, even Sanchi's love is part of human emotion. Why we love to see beautiful scenary, why we love to sing and dance. all these things come naturally.

All these people loved not to cause deliberate hurt.

Even Jagya's love for Gauri was his emotion and he did not love gauri to deliberately cause distress to anandi.




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Posted: 10 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I have empathy for Nimboli and Pooja because of their age and inexperience.

Love is not a cheap emotion and no one becomes cheap just because they chose to love.

On the otherhand Hate is a cheap emotion and those who hate others just because they love have to introspect.

Age barrier is only for marriage not for love.

Ganga's love, Pooja's love, even Sanchi's love is part of human emotion. Why we love to see beautiful scenary, why we love to sing and dance. all these things come naturally.

All these people loved not to cause deliberate hurt.

Even Jagya's love for Gauri was his emotion and he did not love gauri to deliberately cause distress to anandi.

bold - but sometimes we have to curb our own emotions, especially when we know we are committed to someone else. If people just give in to their emotions, then what will happen to honesty and loyalty towards your spouse ?

Gauri did not know he was married, but he kept on lying to her for 5 long years. He was dishonest to both women. Then he made a phone call to anandi and said I dont love you anandi...

We cant say he did all this out of his emotion of love towards gauri.



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