Originally posted by: anshurg5
Anandi did not remain unmoved by her dying mothers pleas and promised what she wanted though it cost her tremendous pain and her self respect . She has to beg for marriage with folded hands.
As for Ganga , yes Ratan singh was an evil man and made Ganga suffer all sort of aristocracies so deserves no compassion for those acts but later the same evil man willingly surrendered his rights on his son which he acquired through a cunning deal in favour of same Ganga. If he would have not done that Ganga would have been begging for meeting her son once instead of that Ratan.
IMO by doing one selfless act even a man like Ratan has earned a right to meet his son once before dying.
And Ganga was not unprepared of Ratan's dying wish that she needed time to ponder on that , she was already aware of that but she refused outright without considering merit of that. she could have at least give an indication that she will think upon it to give some hope to the dying man.
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AS for Anandi not visiting her parents in the meantime , it was for the same reason due to which her parents have not visited her. They were remind of J's desertion and Anandi's misfortune every time they would see her . She wanted her parents to save that pain. It was said by herself while she was crying watching bad condition of her mother.
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On a more practical note Anandi did not met her parents for the same reason Bhairon -Sumi have not once visited their home after Basant's and Shiv's death.