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Posted: 10 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

Ganga is cruel heartless selfish ugly who did not cry buckets for her abuser , her rapist , who tried to snatch her kid so many times from her , who tried to kill her , kill all her dear ones , who refused to save even his son's life first, let him die it will my revenge on Jagya and Ganga but since Ganga did not cry buckets for him and immediately taken Mannu to him and break Mannu down she became cruel ugly heartless selfish for people wah 👏

if Ganga would be so cruel won't be wasting time on him and kick him out of hospital but she is not like this beast who tried to kill her so many times but why she should cry for him and give him reliefs making promises because he poor angel deserves to die peacefully she is trying to save his life isn't that enough , , why she should take Mannu immediately to him ? why she should not worry for her son and his break down ? O Ratan and his mothr should see him and confuse him , shock him break him down into pieces but Ratan can have his soul satisfaction 🤪why the poor dying man has no wish to see his daughter ?

and glorification of mahaan Anandi see the difference What wrong Ratan has done to her She will only make promises to him🤪

but the great Anandi rejected her own parents and never visited Bhago even once and her mother died in wish to see her happy face just for once and Anandi was doing perfecly well in her career O great beautiful side of Anandi 🤪Look into Anandi first before bashing Ganga

Ganga can be blamed for being the reason of her rapist and abuser dying without getting his wish fulfilled but Anandi has the burden of her own mother's death. Anan i is more of sinner than Ganga. More than anyone else, Anandi is to be blamed for Bhago's death because she never tried to keep any contact with her mother and give her some satisfaction of seeing a happy and successful daughter. This girl cried buckets when she realized that she could not trace the unhappiness of Dadisa in her voice while calling her from Udaipur. She felt guilty for enjoying her life when Dadisa missed her grandson but never once felt any guilt for not being able to trace unhappiness in her mother's voice or guilt for not being in contact with her. 🤢
People say why should Anandi feel anything for the parents that gave her away in some marriage at such tender age but blame Ganga for being little indifferent towards her rapist. 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Anandi did not remain unmoved by her dying mothers pleas and promised what she wanted though it cost her tremendous pain and her self respect . She has to beg for marriage with folded hands.

As for Ganga , yes Ratan singh was an evil man and made Ganga suffer all sort of aristocracies so deserves no compassion for those acts but later the same evil man willingly surrendered his rights on his son which he acquired through a cunning deal in favour of same Ganga. If he would have not done that Ganga would have been begging for meeting her son once instead of that Ratan.
IMO by doing one selfless act even a man like Ratan has earned a right to meet his son once before dying.

And Ganga was not unprepared of Ratan's dying wish that she needed time to ponder on that , she was already aware of that but she refused outright without considering merit of that. she could have at least give an indication that she will think upon it to give some hope to the dying man.

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AS for Anandi not visiting her parents in the meantime , it was for the same reason due to which her parents have not visited her. They were remind of J's desertion and Anandi's misfortune every time they would see her . She wanted her parents to save that pain. It was said by herself while she was crying watching bad condition of her mother.

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On a more practical note Anandi did not met her parents for the same reason Bhairon -Sumi have not once visited their home after Basant's and Shiv's death.
Edited by anshurg5 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: saba113

no she was heartless from the day she was born 😛


Ok , maybe. I didn't know her when she was born. but why are you telling me this?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: libsrocks

libs agree wid u.tho ganga'd 4given ratan & hs family but she hadn't 4goteen wat eh did 2 her form the tender age of 12yrs.

and yes i wud'd also moved like Aji bcoz of the same reasons u r telling.bcoz i wudn't'dgone or hadn't gone thru which ganga'd gone thru.
if Aji's gon ethru such she wud'd reacted same.
rembr wen J came back & only asked 4giveness from her she denied himinstantly. she took her time & taht 2 wen J never left her dying after beating wid iron rod or raped her.

but if i'd gone thru like ganga i mite'd behaved same like ganga did.and its not shes not moved even a bit.shes also feeling sorry thatswhy she rembrd ratan's request & it shows her dilemma that on one side bcoz of her humanity & clear heart shes thinking abt ratan's pleas but on the oder hand shes afraid of mannu's breaking down.

i rembr wen once i was in delhi 4 my UPSC coaching. i'd a frnd who was also my roommate. we bcame such gud frnds wid in short period that i used 2 defend her wid oder gals of my PG tho we all gals were frnds wid each oder & oder gals always held me in gud esteem & considered me gud human being. but later on due 2 sum MUin which major fault was of that gal we sort of broke up she got frndly wid oder gal & then my mental & psychological torture started.she tortured me like this so much that she indirectly wanted me 2 leave the room so that she can live wid that gal.
i used 2 cry. oder gals were also gone & only we 3 remain in that PG. later on new gals came & tho they were helpful 4 me but i was sort of alone.but then as its said karma bites u my ex frnd & her frnd had huge fight & broke up ugly.
i 4gave her tho after cuming back from there & also talked 2 her but if she"ll cum 2 me like this i won't immediately help her.
and its said that "jaak epair naa phati biwai so kya jaan epeer parayi"
its easy 2 moved by pleas & give promises 2 dying prsn if u r not direct victim of that prsn.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: anshurg5


Anandi did not remain unmoved by her dying mothers pleas and promised what she wanted though it cost her tremendous pain and her self respect . She has to beg for marriage with folded hands.

As for Ganga , yes Ratan singh was an evil man and made Ganga suffer all sort of aristocracies so deserves no compassion for those acts but later the same evil man willingly surrendered his rights on his son which he acquired through a cunning deal in favour of same Ganga. If he would have not done that Ganga would have been begging for meeting her son once instead of that Ratan.
IMO by doing one selfless act even a man like Ratan has earned a right to meet his son once before dying.

And Ganga was not unprepared of Ratan's dying wish that she needed time to ponder on that , she was already aware of that but she refused outright without considering merit of that. she could have at least give an indication that she will think upon it to give some hope to the dying man.

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AS for Anandi not visiting her parents in the meantime , it was for the same reason due to which her parents have not visited her. They were remind of J's desertion and Anandi's misfortune every time they would see her . She wanted her parents to save that pain. It was said by herself while she was crying watching bad condition of her mother.

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On a more practical note Anandi did not met her parents for the same reason Bhairon -Sumi have not once visited their home after Basant's and Shiv's death.

Anandi did give reasons for infrequent visits to her parents' place .No daughter likes her parents to witness her broken life and remnants of a broken marriage.The sight of their daughter who returned home after broken marriage or after her life has fallen apart is something very painful to endure for any parent.Especially in our culture where daughter how ever well she is educated and well placed is considered a burden.
It is not a nice feeling for the daughter either to stay at home of her parents knowing that they are suffering silently in order not to make her feel bad. To top it all the neighbours gossip and show unwanted sympathy when they get to know how life of the girl is fallen apart.
This is one reason why so many girls stick on in a marriage gone bad too.

It is very easy to ask why Anandi didn't go back to her maika after her pati dumped her but it is not that easy to face parents at that stage.That is why it is better to stay at in laws place if the in laws are supportive as in case of Anandi.
Bhago herself drilled into Anandi's head that life or death it should be at sasrewale's home only
So she was doing only what her mother told her to do.
She agreed to marry for the sake of her mother's happiness even when she didn't feel ready for another relationship.
Of course the CVs also are to be blamed for no contact between Anandi and her parents. They don't say why Jagya never talks about his parents or why he doesn't visit them nor do they ask why Dsa doesn't talk about Bhairon and Sumi but when it comes to Anandi even though the circumstances are similar they will have enough and more things to say😛

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Posted: 10 years ago
#26
kamli is foolish person , she herself give chance to akhira to kill gopal by dancing eating at mela , and it would be have better if gopal have not fulfill kamli request that she want to c mela .kamli and gopal r in trouble only because of kamli carelessness
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Posted: 10 years ago
#27
what about kamli after the death of gopal,will she return home or go back anywhere else
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Posted: 10 years ago
#28
Neither do I watch the show so regularly nor am a huge fan of Ganga but today I feel people are bashing her without any reason.

Come on give me a break.
What wrong Ganga did.
If I was Ganga I wouldn't have cared to even take care of Ratan Singh.
He gave her so much pain n torture and tried to even seize mannu and kill her.
I can forgive him but never forget what he did.
This is human tendency.
Nobody is a saint here and the people who are preaching that Ganga is a selfish lady should put themselves in her position.

I have been in the same position where Ganga is today.
I have already forgiven that person but I can't forget what he did to me.

I would be very happy if Mannu even doesn't get to know about RS.
Why put our future in dark just for the sake of past which has only given sorrow and pain.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29
I feel before Ganga , Bimla will only tell mannu the truth.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#30
Agree ... Seeing Bimla she might reveal ..same time Ganga decided to reveal it too
but Bimla will be one who disclose first ...lets see hope before Bimla reveal Ganga do it ... Otherwise Mannu will be hurt

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