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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: anshurg5

Jagya due to his busy schedule is not giving required time to understand and solve Abhi's problems.

Better he now take A's advise and give more time and attention to his family to understand their problems.

Otherwise situation will go out of hand and soon it will be Mannu's turn to come on the receiving end of Abhi's jealousy and insecurities .

o PLEASE why Jagya should take Anandi's so called advise and give more time to his family Better take Anandi's advise because Anandi is most sane person on planet who knows everything and Jagya should take her great advises as if he does not know how to take care of his family ? she knows more ? She should better take care of her own son and search for her daughter Others know how to take care of families no one needs her so called advises based on her false assumptions How does Anandi know he is not giving time to his family She was only shooting arrows in blindness she knows nothing Her all lecture was based on her false assumptions not a fact while i as viewer who watches see all sides know Anandi was most wrong there Jagya gives time to his family and take care of them pretty well Ganga is misunderstanding her fault not his Ganga should open her eyes and see

Abhi's problem is simple There is a tiff of him with shivam and in that his father deals with his son on his misbehavior but says nothing to shivam who also misbehaves with Abhi a lot but Jagya leaves shivam to his mother but shivams mother is unable to control him and shivam misbehaves with Abhi never say sorry Shiv continues his teasing taunts mockery of Abhi and no one controls him Now Abhi does not know why his father does not scold shivam and he is misunderstanding that father is biased to shivam but its not a fact Now Jagya is not some God that he would know on his own Ganga should tell him this because she knows this but so far she is unable to convey it to him She twists and turn words and take it to somewhere else there have been several conversations of her with Jagya on this issue but she never talked to the point on what exactly is the issue

His other son Mannu is perfectly fine He does not have any such issues like Abhi His both sons share a very healthy relationship How is that possible if he has not given time to them ? He even teaches them Maths thats why Mannu says Bapusaa is expert at Maths Thats i guess means he is not giving them time ?

someone else kid is causing problems with his uncontrolled behavior is that kid's mother's fault who could not control him well Jagya does not need Anandi's crap advises He knows how to take care of his family and he is taking care of them pretty well Abhi does not carve for his time because he is getting that His misunderstanding needs to be cleared which is not letting him see that Now Ganga should tell Jagya that she knows what is Abhi's misunderstanding

Anandi should look after her family and keep her so called advises to Jagya to herself when she knows nothing Jagya is taking care of his family pretty well Family is in misunderstandings due to circumstances which are not his fault and one day the family will realize it and know how wrong they were about him

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#32

J's son is convinced that his father does not love him and gives undue importance to Shivam . J neither took time to understand his son's insecurities and nor to remove his fears and those goes on multiplying.

Glad to know that he does not need A's advise but it will be good for both Abhi and J's relationship if he takes Abhi's problems seriously and gives more attention to him when the thorn is already out.

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mahi12

@mahi12

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Jagya does not need to take Anandis so called advise that it is said he should better take it act on it otherwise things will go out of hands

while as i viewer who sees the serial seeing all sides story know pretty well Anandi was just falsely blaming Jagya but then i don't blame her either for her this thinking because Jagya does not even involve her in his personal life she knows nothing its another thing she is too habituated to push her leg in his life Cant understand Jagya does not involve her in his personal life so she should stay out No one needs her there neither he

Jagya 's busy life is not in his control Jagya is only doing his duties he is not hungry for name or fame He is only working on what is his duty but how much he can he manage time for his family he does He never neglects them He helps Ganga run the hospital too Many a times seen helping her preparing her files too , he helps his kids in studies too Mannu says Bapusaa is good at maths means he teaches him maths Ganga lives in her misunderstandings and many a times she herself realized she is misunderstanding him He loves her same like before takes care of her same like before The fact Ganga has done very wrong with him and he is hurt at it Ganga sees him not same full of life and happy like before He is in pain i can understand him The blames she put on him , the taunts she give him Such blames , such taunts from a the person you love the most given your life for her still she thinks like this for you then it hurts the most and her unforgettable he even said Those words left such mark on my heart i have not been able to remove them in all these years Ganga has done nothing to heal him for that He needs her love, support to move on from it and forget that as nightmare He is giving her all love , support and care even after that but he needs same from her too He needs understanding from her He needs his previous Ganga back who loved him unconditionally and understood him where even his family failed Ganga has changed over time and gave her up in her misunderstandings her doubts It is not his fault One day Ganga will realize that

whatever is going to happen with Mannu Its again Ganga s fault She should listened to Jagya and tell him about his past They would have made Mannu understand Now Mannu will come to know about that from 3rd person from which Jagya wanted to save him from receiving any shock therefore he wanted Ganga to tell him but Ganga did not listen and she will realize that now How right Jagya has been in all these years Otherwise Mannu is loving child who loves and respects his father a lot He has no complains because he sees his father's love He knows his father loves and care for him a lot

Coming to Abhi Abhi has no problems with his brother neither he sees father prefers Mannu over him but there is a kid shivam who was living in same house with him with whom he had a tiff who teased him , plays rude pranks on him never apologize, put him down but Abhi when he misbehaves is controlled by his father but this kid Abhi does not know why his father cannot control him he cannot understand that complex relationships here Shivam is not his son that Jagya should control him He can only ask his son Otherwise Abhi has no problem with his father His problem is only this now Ganga who knows this should tell Jagya this and he would clear Abhi's misunderstanding Rest Abhi has no problem

so Jagya does not need take Anandi's so called advise He is taking care of his family pretty well Family is given themselves in misunderstandings One day they will realize and apologize to him

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Yes jagya doesnt need advice of anandi to live his life.

But the problems is with writer, they always shown jagya under the shade of anandi and still it is continued.

The fact is when anandi told him that Ganga needs time then only he realized . He did not understand himself.

But i will not blame anandi , its problem with writers , writers always shown anandi as jagya adviser.

This way they r keeping connection of anandi with badi haveli.

Well when writers will stop showing anandi as jagya adviser that day this kucchi umar ke pakke rishte will end but i think this will not happen.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: anshurg5
J's son is convinced that his father does not love him and gives undue importance to Shivam . J neither took time to understand his son's insecurities and nor to remove his fears and those goes on multiplying.

Glad to know that he does not need A's advise but it will be good for both Abhi and J's relationship if he takes Abhi's problems seriously and gives more attention to him when the thorn is already out.

lol He does not took time ?how do you know ?i have seen him plenty of time with his family 😛 He is not some God that he can understand all Abhi's problems himself Ganga should tell him who knows Abhi's problem Thats how things work in a family What mother knows about children and their problems she share with their father What father knows he shares with children' mother but problem is here Ganga had some conversations on him on that but she could not tell him Abhi's problem She should have talked to the point and tell what is Abhi's problem

You cannot put everything on one person 's head he should understand everything on his own He scolds Abhi for right reasons never wrong He is also right if he takes children tiffs as normal It happens everywhere This is a fact but Abhi has gave birth to misunderstandings in him Ganga to whom Abhi shared this should tell Jagya then let me see how much he does not clear him on that ?

Why Shivam's mother cannot control her son and ask him to stop misbehaving with Abhi which he never stops Even teases him over ice cream ? Playful sweet boy right? This is sheer rudeness It is not jagya's responsibility to control shivam Had Anandi been controlling shivam properly Abhi would not be misunderstanding his father He would get the point himself just like he don't ,misunderstand father with respect to Mannu same way he won't be here He would get the point I am dealt for my mistakes by my dad Shivam for his by his mother but the fact Abhi does not know shivam is dealt for all his mistakes to him he goes scott free and he goes scott free because he never apologizes , never stops his teasing and mockery which is not cute but is rudeness

Yes now shivam is out let me see how Abhi misunderstands Bapusaa he loves shivam more when he will see clearly his father loves him a lot and always been same to him it was he who was misunderstanding because of his tiff with shivam

Abhi's problem is because of his tiff with shivam otherwise he does not say Bapusaa loves Mannu more than me because Mannu is controlled for his mistakes by the parents now parents are trapped they cannot control shivam They have no right This gave birth to a misunderstanding in Abhi which Ganga got because Abhi told her so she should tell jagya and problem will be solved He will clear Abhi's misunderstanding

Yeah Jagya does not need Anandi advises and first I guess you should be clear about what was her so called advise that you are saying it will be good for his and Abhi's relationship when in her lecture never for once she took name of his kids she was talking only about Ganga Show me when she talked about his kids ? Talked about Abhi and Mannu ???and about Ganga the fact even Ganga knows she is misunderstanding .Dr sahab is same like before Its she who is misunderstanding Many a times she said even before Anandi's lecture so if the person for whom Anandi ji was lecturing Jagya knows she is misunderstanding then how come you are justifying Anandi and her lecture and Jagya should take that molding it to Abhi when never for once Anandi talked about Abhi there ?

Jagya who has solved nth problems of his brother Nandu , nth insecurities of his even then he was very busy He can solve his son' s too Nandu shared his problems with him Abhi shared with Ganga and Mannu. Mannu knows Abhi is thinking wrong for Bapusaa and tried to clear him on that Ganga should tell Jagya Its her responsibility She should be clear about that

how do you know he does not take his kid problems seriously??? Yeah he does he take his kid seriously Anandi takes his kids more seriously ???🥱 Had she been shivam would have apologized to Abhi on his rude school prank on him For any other kid Anandi would have make to shivam apologize and herself too apologize because of her kid the other kid got scolding and huge insult in front of his class but it was Jagya's kid so Anandi did not bother while JaGan made Abhi apologize for his prank on shivam and there shivam was wrong too for leaving school carelessly and Anandi never ticked him off for it and sided with him that yes only Abhi was wrong? How responsible of Anandi

Jagya does not know about his wife even Anandi mores 🥱She was lecturing him on that ? 🥱Jagya knows his wife and kids more than Anandi The realization is going to happen of wife and kids here who were misunderstanding and will get a reality check not he Because he has done no wrong no injustice to anyone

and Anandi should better concentrate on her family Jagya knows how to deal with his family

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#36

cvs love to show jagya-anandi childhood friendship relation.

from last 7 years they r showing this.

so obviously in future also same thing will continue.

ganga has same problem that jagya anandi ki boli baat ko samjhata hai , lekin uski baat ko nahi samjhata.

basically from beginning itself jagya is shown dependent on anandi. till it is continued.

that is why its kucchi umar ke pakke rishte.

and it will continued till jagya-anandi is there. so dont expect jagya anandi separate track. unke track separate bhi hua tho kahi na kahi milenge hi.

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
It is ok if dadisa takes decisions.

Now dadisa is taking decisions like carrying prasad for shivam.

She is taking decisions to spend time with shivam in SN.

She is partial to anandi and shivam which is her own decision.

In future too, she will take many decisions in regard to her favourites.

We should be prapared for this as we know dadisa.

She favoured Basant over Bhairon.

Her daughter in law Jamna died while fulfilling dadisa's wish of not being treated by allopathic doctor.

Another daughter in law had to give birth to what was actually a rape child to fulfil dadisa's wishes.

One little girl took bullet for saving ladesar and was rewarded by daidsa by getting her ladesar married to another girl.

For dadisa, sacrifices made for her is no big deal. She is used to them.

The present dadisa is not harming anyone. Thats a big relief.

@bold - This statement gives me a thought. DS might also be thinking " If only I didn't marry J that day to Gauri, things wouldn't have gone so complicated and I wouldn't have seen Anandi like a widow, in the same house while Jagdish is still alive? ".

Just imagine what would have happened if that marriage didn't happen...

Gauri would have married another balika var and would have stayed in her village...her village wouldn't have abandoned her..and she wouldn't have turned into such a crack pot even after becoming a doctor.

if only DS had let Anandi study and didn't make Anandi a kitchen maid...Anandi would have been fully educated... dominating enough and Jagya wouldn't have got attracted to the city educated women. And even if he did, no girl would've married him like Gauri did(gauri married him to take revenge on DS). Anandi would've taken him back if he didn't marry anyone(ofcourse after his redemption)...and DS wouldn't have married anandi either if J hadn't married already. JaAn would be husband and wife...if not for DS's evilness. No wonder DS still goes after Anandi trying to make sure she's doing well. Shivam being a sweetheart is another point though!

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