dadisa is like that only

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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is ok if dadisa takes decisions.

Now dadisa is taking decisions like carrying prasad for shivam.

She is taking decisions to spend time with shivam in SN.

She is partial to anandi and shivam which is her own decision.

In future too, she will take many decisions in regard to her favourites.

We should be prapared for this as we know dadisa.

She favoured Basant over Bhairon.

Her daughter in law Jamna died while fulfilling dadisa's wish of not being treated by allopathic doctor.

Another daughter in law had to give birth to what was actually a rape child to fulfil dadisa's wishes.

One little girl took bullet for saving ladesar and was rewarded by daidsa by getting her ladesar married to another girl.

For dadisa, sacrifices made for her is no big deal. She is used to them.

The present dadisa is not harming anyone. Thats a big relief.




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leavesandwaves thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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One can control physics, not chemistry.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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there was a time when DS was dying 2 see J's son.she kept on ranting abt it
ganga put her life in danger to fulfil her wish
and now DS doesnt look towards abhi at all
4 her only shivam and anandi r imp
again favouritism
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: buzzy.reenaholi

there was a time when DS was dying 2 see J's son.she kept on ranting abt it
ganga put her life in danger to fulfil her wish
and now DS doesnt look towards abhi at all
4 her only shivam and anandi r imp
again favouritism



She is always like that.

But she always showed great love for mannu. And mannu used to reciprocate it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mujhe dadisa ka behaviour ek dam baccho jaisa laga. morning mein prasad lekar jana.
But i think its because of her age.

well i think now dadisa must be around 80 or more than that and bolate hai ke budhape mein insaan sathiya jata hai. baccho jaisi harkate karata hai.

one more thin g i found now writers r not showing dadisa as sensible lady, rather they r showing her emotionally weak person.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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DadiSa is a very very wealthy free bird. She is totally independent.

She is free to go where she wants, when she wants, meet who she wants.

She decided that she wants to meet Shivam and Anandi very early in the morning, so she should. If she likes to see their happy smiling faces to start her day, she must follow her heart.

Everybody else should adjust themselves to her decisions.

At 80+, DadiSa knows best. She should do whatever makes her happy. ⭐️
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

One can control physics, not chemistry.


😕

Means??

How can we control physics?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: buzzy.reenaholi

there was a time when DS was dying 2 see J's son.she kept on ranting abt it
ganga put her life in danger to fulfil her wish
and now DS doesnt look towards abhi at all
4 her only shivam and anandi r imp
again favouritism

sad but true DS gives no importance to Abhi much🤔 Seeing Jagya's son was her ardent wish and her daughter in law fulfilled it and Dadisaa loved Abhi so much but now ???The child has no bonding with her because she never made it With a child bonding has to be made She made that with shivam but Abhi remains distant Fault lies with Dadisaa here She loves Abhi but i don't see that anywhere equal to shivam 🤔

Edited by mahi12 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is said that ' tali ek hath se nahi bajti'.

If DS and Shivam have great bonding then it is because both of them reciprocate each other's affection. How many times DS called Abhi to come and sit with her , to listen story from her or to have chocolate from her but he thwarted her efforts every time just because Shivam was already availing those things. For him spending time was not important but spending it Shivam free was more important .
Shivam used to express his affection for her freely but never seen Abhi approaching DS by his own instead whenever DS called him he rudely went away.
Like children elders of the family too cherish special attention and if some one pay them that attention , they also favour him/her. What is wrong with it ? Do we all not do the same?

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I do not have problem with DS going SN in the morning . Though could not understand why she was hiding her real purpose ? Like Shivam she too was missing him. Giving prasad was just an excuse to meet him. With time she as well as Shivam will learn to adjust with new circumstances .
Edited by anshurg5 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great so its expected from kid to bond with adult on his own The kid should approach the adult Indeed this i am reading a brand new logic for bonding with a kid because usually its adults who make bonding with kids not the other way around Our grandparents approached us thats how we started approaching them Thats how this bond between children and adults are made Yes it is tali ek saath nahi bajti so it applies here like this Abhi cannot be faulted for having no bonding with DS DS is to be blamed

DS made bonding with shivam she failed to make with Abhi Bhairon made with Anandi but failed to make with Jagya but Jagya had a great bonding with DS because she made it with him even as adult he came to share his heart with Dadisaa His fears and insecurities regarding marriage not with his parents why? because parents never had that communication with him They never made that
so here DS is to be faulted not Abhi
Edited by kikyo - 10 years ago

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