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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Removing thorns one by one.

Anandi and shivam were thorns and they were removed. And now dadisa has become the thorn.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Ganga should have full control on her husband and that was ensured now.

Now ganga cant have that kind of control over dadisa and she has to express her displeasure in other ways.

Can anandi tell dadisa off the way she did with Jagya?

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
DS also adopted mannu at the time of abhi's birth ceremony so that mannu will never feel inferior to abhi in any way. Ganga was happy because mannu was her biological son and she did not feel it was discrimination against abhi. At that time dadisa was applauded and lauded by everyone. But suddenly that same dadisa has become cunning, insensitive, manipulative, biased etc.

@bold: the two are not mutually exclusive. People are complicated and can have good side and bad sides. I think Dadisa is inherently a selfish woman. She appreciates it when people make sacrifices for her, but she also does not mind asking for them to make sacrifices. Dadisa loves Mannu and Abhi but it is clear she is biased towards Shivam. She has her good traits and her selfish traits. No one in this show is perfect -- even Anandi makes mistakes.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Even her marrying off a reluctant anandi is also a very political move. Unless anandi moved out, her ladesar could not be brought back.and then her craving for vansh exposed dadisa like anything.😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Kids are like earth and water, you can mould them with your love. Dadisa found shivam to be more sweet to shower her love. Abhi did not develop natural incilination towards Dadisa. It has been seen in family some people are close to one not all.

My take soon Aji will make understand Dadisa if she continues like this Abhi and Ganga will be left out. And Ganga has risked her life for Abhi - so Dadisa should not over show her love for Shivam. And Dadisa will understand. And with Mannu problem coming Dadisa will be worried and tied to home.

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

It is not that DS is not making efforts to reach out Abhi but he used to thwart every time only because she was giving equal love to Shivam. Like he refused to take chocolate when DS was giving it both of them. And he refused very rudely accusing her for giving everything to Shivan . What extra love she was showing towards Shivan ? She was only receiving the love Shivam was showering on her in abundance?Abhi did not made a single gesture to show his love. He did not wanted Shivam having any share in DS's love . His outlook toward simple things of life is marred due to his jealousy and insecurities because of the love Shivam was giving and in turn receiving from every one.

At the age of around 85 it is not DS's place to try to bring him out from his insecurities . But it is his parents' duty to deal with it. Sadly none of his parents were doing that , Ganga was actually fanning Abhi's insecurities sometimes with her silent supportive glances and sometimes directly telling him that she herself would get him a better game if he excels like Shivam.

Jagya due to his busy schedule is not giving required time to understand and solve Abhi's problems.

Better he now take A's advise and give more time and attention to his family to understand their problems.

Otherwise situation will go out of hand and soon it will be Mannu's turn to come on the receiving end of Abhi's jealousy and insecurities.

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jayshree1942

@jayshree1942

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

I feel dadisa is not happy with anandi decision, she is pretending to be happy. and that is why she went to shivniketan so early morning.

giving prasad is just excuse. and i think it is understood by jagya and ganga.

Dadisa still want Anandi in badi haveli only.

Let see what will be her expression when mannu will know the relations.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Ganga should have full control on her husband and that was ensured now.

Now ganga cant have that kind of control over dadisa and she has to express her displeasure in other ways.

Can anandi tell dadisa off the way she did with Jagya?

No, she cant...😆

Jagya is her friend. she can just tell him off and tell him on his face how immature he and his wife are... She cant do that with dadisa.

by the way, how ganga has full control on her husband??

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

DS never wanted to let Anandi go from BH that is why she was ignoring Ganga's taunts to Anandi as work pressure and Abhi' irritation from Shivam , his thwarting her efforts to reach out towards him as his 'bachpana'.

But she listened G's reaction along with Anandi then she understand situation is really worsening and alllowed Anandi to move out.

Like any mother she is feeling the vacuum created by Anandi and Shivam's absence in BH and is running to meet them . But time is the biggest healer , with time she will learn to adjust with new situation.

Btw earlier too I saw her spending most of her time in SN helping in it's management. So nothing strange if she spends little more time there with the kid who really loves her.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 10 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: tiny15
@sidra i agree wid u.and wid oders alos that its adults who made bonds wid kids not the oder way around.ppl can experiment it on their own.DS bonded mannu & abhi wen mannu was toddler and abhi was an infant. but after that wen shivam came it luked she bonded more wid Shivam tahn Jagan's kids.
and bonding wid mannu then now why that bonding is not visible??post-leap DS never seemed 2 b much attached 2 even mannu. wat she always does is shivam .
so its false 2 say that DS is bonded wid mannu. post leap its not luking like that rather mannu seems 2 b closer 2 both of parents esply wid J and also wid ganga.

yes even Mannu is not much closer to DS now

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