Why Ganga is wrong and Anandi is understandable

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maria13

@maria13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: faryal-malik
Anandi ji is too over confident she can do anything take , any decision about others lives and they will follow her thats why she took decision Glad it hit her face now if she has any sense she should go to Ratan and tell him i cannot do anything in this only Jagya and Ganga can help you in this They are Mannu's parents
I have seen people comparing Jagya with Anandi he would have done same Lol Jagya is Mannu's father Not only soul attachment he has with Mannu Thats why he is father He has proved himself better father of Mannu than Ratan Ratan is only Mannu's father by birth but Jagya has proved himself Mannu's father by his pure , selfless love for Mannu

Jagya is also legally father of Mannu so he has all rights to take decision here Who is Anandi to take decision here ? She has more humanity in her that she forgot about parents of Mannu and took decision herself ? 🤢

Yes Anandi is too over confident about herself and acts she owns everyone so can play with their lives anyway and force her decisions on their head 🤢

I am so glad even Dadisaa did not supported Anandi in this Dadisaa 🤗i loved her 😉

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maria13

@maria13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

I don't know Ganga has used whom 😕 She always uses people to full for her advantages This blame is put on her head 😲

Ganga has used Ratan singh when ? in fact this blame on Ganga she has used Ratan Singh reminds me of Sanchi She once said to Ganga you trapped Ratan Singh , got pregnant with his child and then left him May be Ganga bashers agree to Sanchi in this thats why she is blamed like this 🤔

Ganga has never used Jagya she never asked help from him He decided himself

Ganga never came to Badi Haveli on her own neither Jagya brought her It was Dadisaa 's idea and Bhairon Sumitra agreed to her

It were Singhs who made Ganga part of their family Sumitra too

Ganga was leaving Badi Haveli Dadisaa stopped her and took promise from her not to leave

Ganga never asked Anandi to bring her son to him Anandi herself did

Ganga like servant served Singhs Cooked food for them , pressed feet of Dadisaa , even she was seen cleaning Badi Haveli many times with her own hands , she even risked her own life and saved Gehna

Jagya was bang on when he said to his family '' She never asked any help from us we decided to help her , we brought her in this house , she would be lying in the corner We involved her in our family We interfered in her life first not she ''

Ganga left house didn't wait even for a night when she felt because of her Singhs have landed in deep trouble

Ganga never turned bitter towards Sumitra no matter how many abuses she gave to her , calling her ''Bhaasi Phool '' not worthy of her temple like house but Ganga never replied to Sumitra in return because she always saw a mother in Sumitra Once Sumitra too put affectionate hand on her head That orphan girl who never got mother's love saw her mother in sumitra and she immediately forgave sumitra when she called her '' beti'' daughter

She forgave Sanchi too who cursed and abused her and her child when Sanchi showed remorse to her and apologized to her

She forgave Ratan's parents too when they came to apologize

but here Mr Ratan Singh has never done anything to apologize to Ganga for all his inhuman treatment to her and her dear ones and Ganga is bashed , selfish , mean , bad , evil , pathetic she is not forgiving this man She does not know when to forgive Should immediately fulfill poor dying man's wish Same poor man who did not not immediately agree to save his son Mannu 's life He was laughing at son\s pain because it satisfied his revenge seeing Jagya and Ganga in pain ?

and when it is told in serial Anandi ji took care of Ganga's kids when she was studying so people are even misleading serial to put Ganga down Amazing🥱

Edited by maria13 - 10 years ago

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

I can't believe people are comparing Ganga's selfishness and Anandi's selflessness on basis of how they treat their ex-sasura.
Anandi wasn't physically abused or raped by her husband. Compared to Ganga, Anandi lived a comfortable life. her parent-in-laws loved her just like her parents, they stood up for her and what not. Abuse is abuse but still one can compare the victim's pain and his/her intensity to hold the grudge over it by how bad the abuse was.
Ganga had no one to love her like a mother.She was being treated by a baby-producing machine there and was almost killed by iron rod so i don't mind if Ganga is not letting go bad events of her past.
Everyone has an individual personality and it's high time viewers and BV makers respect it. They have literally snubbed the idea of individuality of a person in BV.
Most important of all, Anandi gets no right to take decisions or make promises that are not hers to make. There is a difference between being sensitive and being foolish and Anandi knows very well how to blur that line. Anandi needs to understand that she cannot be the only understanding side, let other party also be sensitive and understanding to her situation and position. She made the same mistake while saving the child bride. She could have made that lady understand that she being a mother cannot risk her child's life by talking her there and that lady, being a mother herself should have been able to understand Anandi's position. now even here had she said that she is no position to make promises or give gurantee then other party would have understood and if not then screw them!

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BeautyBabe

@BeautyBabe

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Ganga and Anandi can by no means be compared on the basis of how they treat their ex sasra and ex husband

Jagya has never abused Anandi the way Ratan has abused Ganga Anandi has not been raped by her husband , Jagya has never physically abused , he never raised hand on her

Jagya has helped Anandi a lot many times He stood for her in his childhood even in front of Dadisaa She found a play mate , best friend in him in childhood, someone on whom she relied and would call out to him when Dadisaa would lock her up in dark room and later she fell in love with Jagya and even when he left her he stood for her character in front Gauri He would never tolerate Gauri saying bad words about Anandis character , he has saved Anandi's life and repute when she was kidnapped by Heth Singh Anandi never hated Jagya because she never forgot her her best friend in him the one who has done a lot good to her Anandi knows it was wrong done to him a well when he was wedded to her in childhood He is victim of child marriage Anandi had a heart break in love thats very different from a rape victim

and Jagya he showed remorse on his mistakes and she forgave and from such a long time he is trying everything possible to help her and makes things easy and better for her He is even giving fatherly love to her fatherless child Anandi would be shameless to hold grudge on him

while Ratan ??? He bought this 13 year old girl Ganga for baby only He raped her every night from the day he married her , he physically abused her , beaten her , abused her , discarded her when she could not produce heir for him He married another woman and threw her in servants room , he would never let her touch Mannu apart from only milk feeding and later he along with his family was planning to kill ganga and Ganga heard that she hold Mannu tight to her Ratan tried to kill Ganga so many times brutally beaten her with iron rod and left her to die there , he tried to kill Ganga in hospital , he later tried to burn her alive, he tried to kill Ganga's all dear ones mercilessly He tried to kill Jagya mercilessly and Ganga has seen him hanging between life and death , he tried to kill entire Singh family , he tried to separate Mannu from her so many times . this man refused to save even Mannus life and Ganga has seen Mannu desperate for life in front of her she has seen her son suffering in pain in front of her , she has seen how this Ratan made Jagya beg in front of him for Mannu's life , this Ratan ordered Ganga to stay away from Mannu forever and only then he will save Mannus life

what good Ratan has done ever to Ganga that people just to put her down are calling her selfish ? who can forget all this so soon and run to help him ?

and regarding comparisons between Singhs and ratan's family

Anandi has found parental love in Bhairon and Sumi They never did any wrong to her always supported her

Gehna Basant they were not cruel to her as well

only Dadisaa was mean and cruel but not cruel to the level of Ratan Singh family i have never seen when Dadisaa has beaten Anandi burnt her feet the way Ratan's family abused Ganga calling her cursed woman , beaten her , burnt her , even planning to kill her when dadisaa did that all ?

and dadisaa has made Anandi 's life too Singhs have done a lot good to her They made her their daughter and Sumitra and Dadisaa gave their most precious possessions Dadisaa her wedding dress and Sumitra her mother's locket to her preferring her over their daughter Sugna

Anandi will be shameless and ungrateful if she holds grudges on them

while Ratan Singhs family what good they have done to Ganga ever? in fact its Ganga who saved Ratan's fathers life giving her own blood to him while this Bimla was still cursing her calling her names This manhoos woman will kill her husband

so how Ganga and Anandi are compared here ? why Ganga is wrong if she has not forgotten all the pain and sufferings Ratan Singh and his family has given her Why she should forget everything and help poor Ratan Singh immediately ?

Edited by kikyo - 10 years ago

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

@jiai agree wid u & oders that ganga & A's selfishness & selflessness can't b compared bcoz of the extent of abuse ganga faced.

ppl felt sympathy 4 sanchi wen she was date raped & wen sum ppl said that its bad that snachi was raped but they don't feel sympathy 4 her, they were called names but ganga was always bashed & labelled as selfish,cheap & also trapped J.😲

and ppl r saying that this rakshash saved mannu's life then plz b clear of the facts. he din't want 2 save him at 1st place.wen J went 2 him for 1st time 2 tell abt mannu he laughed & refused & J cried & begged 2 save his mannu but ratan went away saying its revenge from him on them . they"ll see mannu dying.wow wat a father who saved his son's life.

ratan only agreed wen his frnd in the jail asked him2 do deal wid JaGan.after that he got ready 2 save mannu.and that 2 bcoz he needed his male heir oderwis e why din't he think abt his daughter??

and if gunjan's son wudn't'd slapped him & gunjan'dn't committed suicide ratan wud'd taken away mannu & made him criminal like him

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maria13

@maria13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

I remember Ratan Singh would slap Ganga for petty things like Pakodas are too hot He slapped Ganga hard in front of everyone

Amazing people are defending this man 👏

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dolly

@tiny15

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: maria13
I remember Ratan Singh would slap Ganga for petty things like Pakodas are too hot He slapped Ganga hard in front of everyone
Amazing people are defending this man 👏

bcoz he slapped ganga whos faking her gudness & not Aji whos gudness is "genuine".if J'd done that ppl wud'd fried him & still had done that.

and yes ratan is entitled 2've 4giveness but wen it cums 2 J hes not even tho he did so much 4 A but bcoz he was against A so he shudn't b 4given but if his POV is same like A then hes teaming wid A.

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