Is anandi failing Shivam too? - Page 2

Yes. Grandmothers can take care of kids nicely. Many working women leave their kids in the care of grandmothers. The NRI mothers feel relieved when grandmothers come to take care of their kids. When mothers are no more, it is the grandmothers who take care of the motherless kids.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Yes. Grandmothers can take care of kids nicely. Many working women leave their kids in the care of grandmothers. The NRI mothers feel relieved when grandmothers come to take care of their kids. When mothers are no more, it is the grandmothers who take care of the motherless kids.

Yes they do. But can they fill the void in the lives of those kids left by their mothers?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Yes they do. But can they fill the void in the lives of those kids left by their mothers?

I think they can most of the times if they are relatively young like Ira and Meenu.
While grandfathers are not that competent to fill the void.

@ leaves,

Shiv's death should have made anandi an independent woman. Instead we are seeing her living for 11 years in BH, She could have stayed for a few days there and then convinced DS why she wants to go back to Udaipur. I will blame the CVs for this twist.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Shiv's death should have made anandi an independent woman. Instead we are seeing her living for 11 years in BH, She could have stayed for a few days there and then convinced DS why she wants to go back to Udaipur. I will blame the CVs for this twist.

I agree. After nandini's loss, Anandi was fragile and in that state of mind if she lived in BH for 3-6 months just to get that initial support and also so that Shivam can be a little more grown up, it would have been sensible.

Yes Shiv would have made a way better father to Shivam & Nandini than Anandi is as a mother. Shivam would be living in his own house, amongst his own people, in his own city...not in some refugee camp arranged by Shiv's ex-girlfriend. Right now Shivam is living in a dharamshala, not his own home. Anandi has no self respect so I don't expect her to move out of BH but I hope atleast Shivam is sent to Singapore atleast for his further studies so that he can get his real family there. Shivam should get married and settle there with Anandi visiting her son abroad if she cares to meet him...And in that way CVs can vanish him too and concentrate on Nimboli's kachra unwanted sasural track and drag the show for another 68 years...

Originally posted by: -Palienigma-

Yes Shiv would have made a way better father to Shivam & Nandini than Anandi is as a mother. Shivam would be living in his own house, amongst his own people, in his own city...not in some refugee camp arranged by Shiv's ex-girlfriend. Right now Shivam is living in a dharamshala, not his own home. Anandi has no self respect so I don't expect her to move out of BH but I hope atleast Shivam is sent to Singapore atleast for his further studies so that he can get his real family there. Shivam should get married and settle there with Anandi visiting her son abroad if she cares to meet him...And in that way CVs can vanish him too and concentrate on Nimboli's kachra unwanted sasural track and drag the show for another 68 years...

The CVs wont do our bidding.

They will pit abhi against shivam, ganga against anandi.

Nimboli is their brand new anandi and she will go through fire.

Jagya is their new Bhairon.

Why staying at bh is like depriving the child of own house? tomorrow Gehna stays at bh with nandu? I don't think it will be said like this. Why becoz basant is his bapusa?

Bh is also Anandi s house, she has done so much for bh when their own blood had disowned them.

Anandi and jagya bringing up children together would be the last thing I would imagine. But Like many have said Anandi, jagya, Ganga have moved on why can't we?