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Posted: 10 years ago
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Definitely it is the fault of elders.

It is natural for any kid to behave like this.

Ganga instead of making Abhi understand is letting the fire burn more fiercely. Her expressions are adding more fuel to the fire in Abhi's heart. She herself is feeling insecure of all this hence unable to control him. In her dialog yesterday she said 'kahi saalon se' means she developed this long ago and now slowly releasing all that she has dumped.

Also Jagadish said to Ganga ' why don't you teach Abhi...it is a mother's responsibilty...blah..blah...' Oh is it!?...then for what good you are here? Why don't you just do it yourself? You have equal responsibility. Right!? Also the kid has problem with you not his mother then why can't you spare sometime and make him understand?

Jagadish and Ganga have no time for kids. They are very busy shifting professions.

Dadisa is elder to all and is experienced in these matters...but still she's quite all these years? Didn't such issues cross her mind previously?

Anandi chose to remain silent but she should understand these daily outbursts will very much disturb her son.

Elders can act greatness but kids cannot. They simply be what they are.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Jagya has always been kind to children even he feels sorry or not for them All kids have always been his best friends same way Shivam is . anyways even Singhs will do quite well without great Anandi in fact were doing before her so Better move out and take your child with you i as a viewer will be thankful to you for your this favor 😛


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If sugna came widowed with her kids, Jagya's behaviour would have been the same and even ganga's reaction would have been the same.

Just because anandi was once his wife does not make any difference to the situation.

It is about kids, not about anandi.


No situations wont be same because Varun and Shagun are quite older to abhi Mannu . Varun was about age of Nandu and Shagun few years younger to them They will be quite mature by now Sugna would be ready to wed them now 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stalwart.



Also Jagadish said to Ganga ' why don't you teach Abhi...it is a mother's responsibilty...blah..blah...' Oh is it!?...then for what good you are here? Why don't you just do it yourself? You have equal responsibility. Right!? Also the kid has problem with you not his mother then why can't you spare sometime and make him understand?

Jagadish and Ganga have no time for kids. They are very busy shifting professions.


pray tell me How does Jagdish know abhi has problem with me? He does not know that thats the problem because neither abhi has let that in front of him neither Ganga told him

He said that to Ganga because he thinks in all these years he failed to make abhi understand politely and firmly both ways thats why asked her why don't you make him understand as its mother's responsibility Well i feel they were like typical parents all parents in the world do same when kids misbehave and dont listen to them they tell each other to make him understand It happens in every house in the world
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hina-

pray tell me How does Jagdish know abhi has problem with me? He does not know that thats the problem because neither abhi has let that in front of him neither Ganga told him

He said that to Ganga because he thinks in all these years he failed to make abhi understand politely and firmly both ways thats why asked her why don't you make him understand as its mother's responsibility Well i feel they were like typical parents all parents in the world do same when kids misbehave and dont listen to them they tell each other to make him understand It happens in every house in the world


Jagadish said Abhi doesn't listen to him at all. Why!? Because the kid has some problem with his father. So why doesn't he try to figure out the reason behind it? Instead he was saying it is Ganga's responsibility to give good values to Abhi being his mother. If kid doesn't listen to you will it mean mother has not given him good values?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stalwart.


Jagadish said Abhi doesn't listen to him at all. Why!? Because the kid has some problem with his father. So why doesn't he try to figure out the reason behind it? Instead he was saying it is Ganga's responsibility to give good values to Abhi being his mother. If kid doesn't listen to you will it mean mother has not given him good values?

where he said kid does not listen to me it means mother has not given him values ?He only said made him understand because values mothers give

Well he said in this context he does not listen to me at all in this rude behavior with shivam Abhi does not misbehave with everyone Only with one person so how it is assumed he should judge its because he has problem with me not with shivam thats why don't listen to me ?

why a parent is expected to figure all out in super human being way ? Grant him some time Its not like he has some problem with his own child ?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Who is at fault? complex web of relationships, circumstances What else ? I Don't blame Jagya He is the one I feel most sorry for his own child ends up misunderstanding him Don't know where it will lead to . As I see Abhi's problem is he has a tiff with shivam In that the fact everyone accepts that shivam is not milk washed but equally at fault but that abhi does not know Both kids fight with each other and have problems with each other but Jagya strictly asks only abhi to behave not shivam This is making Abhi feel bad and think his dad is favoring shivam more over him Now someone should make abhi clear only this that why Jagya does not scold shivam because he leaves him to Anandi to mend him as he does not think he has right over shivam to scold him Abhi is own child therefore he asks him and if a parent scold his child does not mean parent don't love the child It is only the last way a parent have to stop his child from straying Too much scolding is bad I won't equate Jagya with Bhairon because Bhairon was too harsh He made Jagya too much scared and that was totally wrong Jagya is not that harsh therefore I find him Neutral Neither too lenient neither too strict but in balance and I am sure once he figures out how abhi is feeling he will definitely clear all his confusions the way he did of Nandu's from Niranjan

i will criticize cvs too Why they cannot show a character in consistency ? Their stupid twists with characters make me criticize their poor writing What was the purpose of that holi prank scene ? Cvs need to sit and watch their own serial that how they projected a character before Jagya does not mind such small pranks Ganga and Nandu rudely woken him middle of night at diwali with playing crackers on stereo system and he could take offence of that because he got too scared at that Such shocks sometimes can get harmful as well but he ignored that in their innocence so why he will mind this small harmless joke ? Before leap he was playing pranks with everyone after leap he is minding such small pranks Really cvs ? do you think we are bunch of fools to accept any illogical scene you give us ? if you were trying to project Jagya all stressed up with work load something like that he has changed a bit in all those years but later he was all fine ? Being playful with kids like he always has been All kids still adore him the most among all family members They wished to play holi with him Only him they were not asking around from others come play with us and were gathered around him It only shows he has not changed Kids still adore him and are his best friends because he has always been friendly and playful with them so what was purpose of that holi prank where Jagya gets so angry on something he never minded in the past Play on 10000 times the same joke ?

Edited by saba113 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Beautiful-Soul

I think Jagya has always been kind to children even he feels sorry or not for them All kids have always been his best friends same way Shivam is . anyways even Singhs will do quite well without great Anandi in fact were doing before her so Better move out and take your child with you i as a viewer will be thankful to you for your this favor 😛


regards

Anandi should understand and move out of BH and JaGan life will get back to normal Once again with her trouble came Its hurting to see the child to whom Jagya raised singing lullabys is misunderstanding his father my dad don't love me just because of tiff with Anandi's child


Edited by saba113 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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All our analysis isn't going to change the fact that the writers have decided to make abhimanyu the bad seed. He will be like the way Jagya was the troubled child despite having everything he will be rotten riddled with insecurities cause grief to all. All the other children have lost so much, Shivam no father, mannu has a second father, amol too is adopted but these kids had to face hurdles so it has made them emotionally tough and appreciate life however abhimanyu has faced no loss no conflict so he takes life for granted and has sense of entitlement because he has it all just like Jagya was me me me all the time. Abhimanyu will be the villian child that jagya and other will have to please.
Edited by loveanime - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Badi Haveli mein baccho ka mela laga hai.
But not a single child has proper up-bringing.

Dont know what elders r doing?

Actually all r busy in their work so no one is there to pay attention to children.

and i think abhi is behaving like this because from last 11 years jagya is favoring shivam which we have not seen as leap taken.

This anger is not of one day, its accumulated from last 11 years which is going to blast soon.

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