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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't say cvs fault becoz every thing that happens in the show is due to cvs. Don't say cvs please.
Today what happened between jagya and abhi? whose fault it was?

I felt jagya is behaving like typical dad and abhi is behaving child. It's a problem which happens in almost all households. Now the problem here is jagya believes he is doing right and has done no mistakes and abhi is just spoilt brat. That's it. I have seen this behaviour in many parents, Its due to anger they can't see why is child behaving like this. Why always abhi to understand, sometimes as a parent jagya also should think from abhi s point of view.Why always shout? Infact I feel abhi, a child with low confidence, he needs support and love of his dad.


One more thing, two many children in bh, cvs are not even able to give proper screen space, dialog, to each of them. They only add crowd in bh. On the other hand, nandini is smiling and taking all hatyachar on herself. She should be atleast protesting against it like child Ganga on &tv. She lives like a slave.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think it combination of factors. Jagya is not realizing that he is being unnecessarily rude to Abhi. He thinks he is being strict with him. But too much strictness also will not give good results. Looks like either he forgot how he used to feel sometimes when Bhairon was rude to him and not having sensible talk with him instead of just punishing jagya or Jagya in his guilt does not hold Bhairon and DS's behavior together to have spoiled him.
But cannot stop pointing at CVs because same jagya was shown handling Nandu who was also problem child quite sensibly instead of scolding. Maybe because Abhi is his own child he is being over-strict for some reason😕. Looks like Ganga has been trying to make a point over the years which jagya is not getting still.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Whatever is happenenning is only anandi fault. She is very well aware of all this but chooses to stay ignorant of all this. But, in the end blame will either go to jagya or Ganga or abhi and more sympathy to anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i won't say Jagya is being unnecessarily rude or over strict I think he is quite neutral and fair enough Over strict was Bhairon because Bhairon acted more with slap instead of tongue He was being too harsh which i feel was very wrong

A parent has to be neutral neither too soft that keeps ignoring all misbehavior of child otherwise it has wrong impacts neither over strict like Bhairon was that you end up scaring your child too much whenever he sees you he hesitates or runs away from his home or tries to commit suicide like Mohan did scared of his father

Here the problem is two children of similar age group are having a tussle with each other Pretty normal for kids Even actual siblings have The parents will ignore their childishness if they don' grow rude in that and abhi was quite rude today Not rude to shivam alone He did a rude act in front of adults Thrown away the ice cream and Jagya was right today to scold him what misbehavior is this

Jagya did try to make understand abhi politely in friday's episode Didn't he ? He sweetly made up between both and hugged both Now abhi too wrong meaning out of it too Dad hugged me only because shivam was there otherwise won't ?

Abhi's problem is he thinks he is right If Bapusaa stops him from fights with shivam politely strictly in both ways its only because Bapusaa loves Shivam more than me not that i am wrong

Jagya how would he understand himself what misunderstanding abhi has developed and thats making him bitter towards shivam when all abhi is acting like a spoilt brat in front of him like today he did when Shivam was all sweet and friendly to him but he poured his frustration over him and acted rudely in that ?

Ganga could tell Jagya what is abhi's problem but she acted like a typical emotional mother who came into child's emotions and end up blaming husband yes you are ignoring Abhi and too lost in your sympathy towards shivam As a viewer who is watching all through sections i don't find even one place where Jagya is acted biased towards shivam ? If he would be biased to shivam he would not have brought ice cream for everyone today caring for his children as well when all shivam asked was ice cream for himself ? did n't he ?

I expected Ganga will be clear today and tell Jagya about abhi's misunderstanding in clear words when everything is clear to her he is not exactly ignoring abhi Abhi has developed a misunderstanding Where he ignored abhi that Ganga have started thinking like this but seems like cvs want to cash on this so they dragged it otherwise Ganga would be clear

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If sugna came widowed with her kids, Jagya's behaviour would have been the same and even ganga's reaction would have been the same.

Just because anandi was once his wife does not make any difference to the situation.

It is about kids, not about anandi.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Only gossip aunties like DB will try to find ulterior motives in Jagya's behaviour and anandi's presence and ganga's reaction.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For yesterday's behaviour, Abhi should have been counseled by Ganga. He was extremely rude to Shivam and that too in front of his parents. I don't find Jagya at fault, he was his usual self.
However, Jagya did overreact during that moustache scene. He was rude to Ganga. Abhi apologized for that innocent prank. But the same Abhi reacted violently yesterday. This means he is developing. a sense of insecurity and hatred towards Shivam.
Anandi needs to ponder over this as well. Its not good for either kids.
These are such complex relationships😛. I wonder how Anandi survives in BH.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Don't know whose fault it is.
They don't seem to be communicating well.
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J feels that his son is a spoilt brat and getting out of control because Ganga is lenient according to hin
Ganga feels that he is too harsh on Abhi
Abhi feels his father favours Shivam
Shivam is blissfully unaware of the feelings he is causing in Abhi's mind
Anandi feels kids should be dealt on daily basis who ever is caught in the wrong should be punished regardless of the fact whether it is Abhi or Shivam
All of them are partly right and partly wrong
Anandi should leave the place before she and her son become a source of insecurity and jealousy.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Jagya is/ or seems to be lenient when it comes to Shivam because he is without father and feels that Abhi should feel that way too
Ganga feels that her husband pays too much attention to Shivam and neglects his son
Anandi feels that kids should be kept in check irrespective of the fact whether they are younger or older or whether they are fatherless or have a father.
Anandi should realise that J is being lenient towards her son not just because he is younger but also because he feels sorry for him.Anandi's kid doesn't require anybody's compassion or kindness she should move out she and her kid seem to have a strong bond with each other and the kid even though he likes Kakusa he doesn't see him as a father figure.They will do fine without Singhs.
Edited by aparnauma - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Jagya doesn't want Abhi to repeat those mistakes he did previously. Hence he is being over - precautious.


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