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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am eagerly waiting for news that shekhars r making exit from bv .sanchi making exit from bv because whether shekhars r sad or happy their story r very weak and not at all move by their story ,hope new families r interesting and they have proper characterization
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Dadisaa insists on Anandi getting tri-married (Um what right does she have on Anandi and her kids though?) Anandi will probably become be the ONLY popular female protagonist with 3 marriages under her belt! Now that would be a record too...1st ever TV bahu to have 3 marriages 😆 Now really jokes aside, if accepting Gehna's marriage with a man from her past Niranjan, so hard to digest...like I still have no clue why they re-introduced Niranjan only to bump him & Gehna off 4 months later... Sugna's remarriage with Shyam was welcomed as the Sugna-Pratap lovestory or whatever it was never made a connect with the viewers...they didn't live together...so its okay...Jagya-Gauri doesn't count coz they made Gauri a villain...but how will they show Anandi accepting another man? Although I do know that the makers can stoop down to any level of cheapness to drag their show so, nothing can be surprising really. They've already stooped too low.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If they want to give happiness to Anandi they can in most probability they can bring back Shiv with a plastic surgery or a replacement (If Sid doesn't return) They can later show that Vikram's body was cremated blah blah blah & can find out a way to show Shiv alive...showing it as some conspiracy or strategy...What is the most heartbreaking is it was actually Shiv who always craved for his own kids...and its too hard to accept that he will never get to see his own flesh and blood...If they intend to give Anandi happiness eventually, it would be better if they just complete their 'adhoora wala love'...or they can give Anandi a tragic ending...coz they are a bunch of sadists anyway...Wish Shivam & Nandini got to see their own dad...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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How will Dsa make Anandi agree for a third marriage?

Will she use that kids need a father line? I don't think so. Dsa's kids grew up without father.Dsa managed fine without her husband despite being widowed at a young age and she was barely literate too.
On what basis will she convince Anandi? Can she tell Anandi that she needs a man in her life? If so can she get a man better than Shiv?
Anandi was conditioned to accept Jaagya as her husband because it was bal vivah but Shiv she accepted him whole heartedly as the man in her life.
Dsa cannot force Anandi this time.The Anandi who was left by Jagya is totally different from the Anandi whom Shiv fell in love with and married and the Anandi whom Shiv had left behind is way different from the one he married.
She has shown in subtle ways that she can handle life without Shiv by her side.She may not have had to make it on her own before but she has shown enough grit and determination before when she rebuilt her life and she is very well capable of doing that.
People keep saying that they bumped off Shiv to do Nandini's bal vivah but it's wrong it could have happened even if Shiv had been around
Yes she will never be the kind of Anandi that she had been with Shiv but that doesn't mean she needs a man in her life or a third marriage.
CVs will not be able to convince the need for a third marriage.If they couldn't convince the viewers about Gehna Niranjan marriage how will they convince the viewers to accept Anandi's third marriage?
Who says love stories end with the death of the partner? May be in fiction they end but in real life they continue beyond death.
Why would she accept anyone lesser than Shiv?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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CVs could not convince need for second husband also (at least for some viewers like me) - still they went ahead with the marriage and even ridiculous "mujhse nahi hoga" etc. That is why they will not feel to convince viewers for another marriage - it may happen if they so decide and it may not happen if creatives decide so.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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After what Jagya did to her she deserved a second chance at happiness.

Anandi Shiv's marriage is way different from the kind of marriage she had with Jagya.
She and Shiv had a lot of dreams for their lives they wanted to make their dreams come true.It 's not a broken marriage.
Gehna's re marriage happened because Dsa wanted to relieve herself of feelings of guilt and also it was stuck in her mind that Basant himself felt that Gehna and Niranjan made a better pair.
When it came to Anandi Shiv marriage Dsa was right in deciding that Anandi should be remarried and it happened for the right reasons.It's another story that Anandi took her time to accept Shiv as her husband.
Anandi Shiv marriage was way different from Gehna Basant marriage too - They knew they were right for each other
Shiv was killed not because they wanted to get Anandi a third husband but they wanted to bring in endless troubles into Anandi's life and to show her suffering
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm not saying that Shiv was killed for yet another marriage for Anandi.
Personally, I do not think Anandi-Shiv marriage happened for right reasons and at right time or even the right way. DS or Anandi did not know anything about Shiv's family and barely knew Shiv when the marriage was finalised. It was luck that Shiv proved to be gem of a person.

All those reasons propagated time and again in the serial for remarriages are still valid in Anandi's case - she is still young, the children need a father figure etc. etc. Not marrying because she cannot get a someone better than Shiv is also not a valid point. Even in real life people remarry and cannot compare previous spouse with the current one.

What I'm trying to say is - creatives will do whatever they want regardless of the fact that it is acceptable to viewers or even a logical track.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Idk if they will be willing to compromise with Anandi's image as the ideal Indian women for the general viewers...nor do I feel Anandi accepting yet another man in her life will go down well with the general audience...especially when they have shown AnSh as soulmates and spent 3 years showing us the bond between them...Jagya-Anandi jodi broke the day he fell for Gauri, plus Jagya never really loved her so everyone wanted Anandi to find true love & happiness, which she got in the form of Shiv...so if at all Anandi is to find love & happiness again, it has to be with Shiv only...Introducing another male for her will be in very very bad taste imo...If Gehna-Niranjan marriage appears repulsive, idk how will a 3rd marriage for A look like. Yikes.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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DS used father line in Nandu's case,used Basant's last wish and Gehna's right to have a happy life,to get Gehna married.So why can't she use the same thing in Anandi's case!If Ds doesn't ask her to think of remarrying that will be out of her character.In my opinion DS believes marriage is important because she was young when her husband died and she knows how difficult it is to live without a partner.

She couldn't even see Jagya alone whose two marriages failed and with Shiv's idea they all forced Jagya to get married when he was trying to get out of Anandi's memories.They were not ready to give him time,not even Anandi.Whose thought is all this!All these are writers thoughts.So they will apply this on Anandi,whats the big deal!And Anandi has valid reasons to get married again more than anyone else.

Its personal opinion if someone thinks getting married within six months and jumping on bed with new husband is a sin.But thats not reality.Take time to show Anandi's feelings,Anandi is no Gehna,she is the lead.They will continue this show so slowly they can show the feelings of Anandi.Dadisa should ask her to think and give her time.Then Anandi realizing that she needs a partner,her children needs a father.Nothing is wrong with that.

Its good to believe that love stories doesn't end with death of partner.But I don't agree.I will say only in fiction,love stories doesn't end with death of partner.In real life people falls in love,does mistakes,have attractions.

Every single thought fades away when reality hits,when you crave for getting love.We are not mature enough if we will not able to see Anandi craving for love.We think it as a sin.Everyone finds it difficult to move on.Anandi like person even Jagya like person who is mocked for falling in love again and again.

@the last line,I don't know whether its seriously asked or not?Your favourite character is a widow now.Her children doesn't have father.Never saw their father.Her husband is dead.The perfect husband is a martyr now.She is alone.And till the last day of her life she will be alone and I am being asked why should she accept anyone lesser than Shiv by the biggest Anandi fan I know!She should accept anyone lesser than Shiv because Shiv is no more and she is just 28.Isn't it enough!

If someone shouldn't accept anyone lesser than thier husband then only criminals' wives have the rights to get married again.When Gehna got married did she think Niranjan to be better than Basant or Anandi thought Shiv is better than Jagya so she got married to Shiv?The fact is they moved on.They didn't sit and compare.You have shown every single widow getting married to prove that widow marriage is valid and right but you will keep your female protagonist a widow to show her as an epitome of love!Then you are indirectly showing all others who gave their life another chance as lafangas and cheaters and our Anandi is pure,she can't cheat her husband even after his death!Ya right.Anandi should not get married for the third time,spare us from this ghor paap.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Creatives killed Shiv because they wanted to show Anandi's struggles and that much is obvious as a single mother
Both the writers and the channel wanted Anandi as a single woman and that is the reason why Shiv was killed.
So third marriage is not going to happen
Dsa did not go ahead and fix the marriage with Shiv she just asked him if he is interested
They have seen enough of him and interacted with him enough to know what kind of a man he is and that he is single and of course he is collector so the question of education credentials dont't arise.Shiv is old enough to decide what kind of a wife he wants and if he wanted to marry Anandi with the approval of the family he would obviously convince his family.That much was evident from what they have shown of him before the marriage was fixed or before Dsa had asked him.
The so called neutral viewers have only praise for Shiv but don't appreciate the fact that Anandi was honest and forthright when she told him that she is marrying him only to fulfil her dead mother's wishes and Dsa's wishes. He knew well why she was marrying him.He could have said no but he didn't because he wanted to marry her irrespective of the fact whether she wanted the marriage for herself or for the sake of family If Anandi said mujh se nahi hoga that was not just she who was at fault both of them were at fault.
Why should she forget a man like Shiv?Why should she put someone else in the place of Shiv? Why should Shivam and Nandini be deprived of their father's legacy and be forced to call someone else as father?
Why should she settle for any less ? Amol misses his father but is he behaving the same way as Nandu did after he lost his father? There is a vast difference between the way the two boys have taken the loss.
I don't understand why people keep saying that they will bring in third marriage for Anandi
For all we know they could be telling that marriage is not the solution for all the troubles through Anandi's life.
She had a very happy marrauge but tragically it ended with her husband's death they could very well be using this as a social message even good marriage can be cut short so be self reliant.
All the so called reasons which were necessary for re marriage Anandi does fit but they took great pains to show that Anandi is different from Suguna Gehana and all the others who remarried.

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