The issues here are about Anandi's ways of dealing with family members and it is raised by people here.
What Dsa did to Anandi was violating the rights of a child in the name of tradition and yet she doesn't hold a grudge against her what Jagya did amounts to criminal offence against her and she could have filed a law suit but she didn't and that is a fact. Jagya didn't drug her but he constantly told her how she is not good enough to be his wife and the way he used to behave with her is very much there in the episodes.How Jagya's actions affected Anandi;s life was shown in great detail for almost 500 + episodes.The lady has forgotten to smile believing that there is something lacking in her and may be what she has done is not good enough and she spent so many years punishing herself believing that she was not good enough wife for Jagya Lawyer did inform that their marriage is legal and she can sue him for bigamy and she said no Bhairon Singh did want her to go and sue him.
DB was clear in her intentions too she wanted to show Anandi as someone useless and not fit enough to be part of Shekhar family.No where did she say she wanted to kill Anandi.
If Dsa and J damaged her emotionally DB tortured her physically.If she has chosen to forgive the people who have violated her rights why can't she forgive DB?I'm not saying that DB should be allowed to get away with it.
The fact is that be it Dsa J did a lot of damage and she did let them get away with it So did DB who caused damage to her health.The fact is she allowed to them to get away with what they have done to her.
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The damage done by Dsa during childhood and the damage done on her by Jagya when they were young adults changed her entire life and did leave it's after affects on her and all those after affects on her just like DB's drugs did.
Drugs do get out of the system after a few hours and but damage done to young mind will leave it's lasting impact.
Yes she had Bhairon Singh and Sumi as a supporting system and she becomes the supporting system to all the Jyothis of the world.
The discussion was about what DB did is punishable by law or not What DB did cannot be punished by law. Whether Anandi did enough to contain her or not ,
Dsa put her down in the name of traditions J put her down in order to justify his adult choice DB trying to show her up to prove that she is not good enough to be part of the family.The damage they did is different.
I thought this thread is about discussing the current child labour track and not about Anandi or her marriage with Jagya and life in BH
But I guess the people are only interested in dissecting the past tracks and they who brought this topic about Anandi letting her family members getting away with offences.Dsa and J were brought up along with them Basant was also brought in to illustrate she didn't take action against people who have wronged her for XYZ reasons but always stood up for people who cannot defend themselves and she stood up against her own family members.It was just told in her defence that it was her choice not to take action against people who wronged her and it was not to be seen as sign of weakness but her way of handling things and her personal preferences and rights as to whether she wanted to punish them or forgive them.
She was not right when she let Jagya get away with bigamy because she didn't want Singhs to suffer and she was not right in forgiving Dsa for intimidating her during her childhood and nor is she right in giving DB a second chance because of Daddu.
All this was brought up because people keep saying that she forgives family members and jumps on strangers.It was just to show that she only discriminates based on who is at the receving end and not who is the offender.
If anyone of her friends also ended up having a souten just like she did she would have made sure that her friend got justice and made sure that her friend' husband and her friend's souten are locked away and that is the truth when it comes to Anandi's character.If she thinks the victim is helpless she goes all out and makes sure the victim gets justice regardless who the offender is.It has been that way right from the show started.
She didn't tell police that her parents did bal vivah but when Phooli was being married off during their child hood she landed there with police and that time she was only a child.
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Anyways people seem to be only interested in discussing Anandi and not the current track and issues about child labour.This definitely defeats the purpose with which the CVs made this track🤢
Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago
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