My Mummy vs CVs of Balika - Page 6

Originally posted by: rohini55

@sunflower

So true. From Tulsi to Anandi with hundreds in between, all female leads lie and hide. The story moves forward on the strength of the lie/hiding.

If Anandi had not hidden Jagya's deception, the story would not have got as big as it did. If Anandi did not hide Saanch's pujari truth, saJa engagement would not have happened. If she did not hide Saurabh's visits to Saanchi, the rape would not have happened.

In short there is no story without the female lead hiding. It is the catalyst for moving the story. That she
ends up looking stupid rather than virtuous adds to the story and viewer interest.

The only saving grace in BV is Ansh are an ideal couple who are transparent with each other and allow no MU to develop. But A did try to hide the terrace incident. But Shiv drew it out of her.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

I agree to an extent here. The thing is that this time iminent catastrophic physical harm could be perpetrated as a result of this continued secrecy. This is not just a case of hiding a little secret. This is akin to seeing a snake in the house and not alerting anyone in case they are heartbroken, without considering the fact that the snake could bite a child or any other member of the household. So withholding this truth is like being an accomplice.

If cvs are using this tactic to prolong the storyline then it's a very irresponsible of them based on the message they're sending out.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

I agree to an extent here. The thing is that this time iminent catastrophic physical harm could be perpetrated as a result of this continued secrecy. This is not just a case of hiding a little secret. This is akin to seeing a snake in the house and not alerting anyone in case they are heartbroken, without considering the fact that the snake could bite a child or any other member of the household. So withholding this truth is like being an accomplice.

If cvs are using this tactic to prolong the storyline then it's a very irresponsible of them based on the message they're sending out.

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👏 agree totally. This is by far the worst and most dangerous case of hiding. It is being argued again and again that if action is taken against DB or she is thrown out, she will get more vengeful.

But does the remedy lie in keeping her inside and putting a lid on her deeds? Wouldn't she get vengeful already for being found out? What if she pushed amol down the stairs? DB is a psychopath and needs treatment. This is like keeping a serial killer at home.

And it is indeed shameful that CVs are propagating the message that possession of drugs is not a serious crime and it must be hidden in the larger family interest.

If DB is not caught and exposed, we must seriously think of petitioning the CVs and alerting the narcotics bureau for the awful message that is being spread to gullible masses.

Originally posted by: rohini55

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👏 agree totally. This is by far the worst and most dangerous case of hiding. It is being argued again and again that if action is taken against DB or she is thrown out, she will get more vengeful.

But does the remedy lie in keeping her inside and putting a lid on her deeds? Wouldn't she get vengeful already for being found out? What if she pushed amol down the stairs? DB is a psychopath and needs treatment. This is like keeping a serial killer at home.

And it is indeed shameful that CVs are propagating the message that possession of drugs is not a serious crime and it must be hidden in the larger family interest.

If DB is not caught and exposed, we must seriously think of petitioning the CVs and alerting the narcotics bureau for the awful message that is being spread to gullible masses.

Whether it was philandering Jagya or people like DB, Anandi should have exposed them and sent them to jail.

Actually Indians at large have this mentality of hiding things, forgiving, giving a chance etc., as hallmark of virtue. They endorse bearing, tolerating anything, standing by others etc as love, compassion. 🤢

Originally posted by: meditation

Hi friends.

My mom has been watching Balika Vadhu for years now and she is very disappointed with what the cvs have been doing with Anandi's character.Anandi cannot conceal such a grave truth about Dadi bua from her family just becoz its her family.I am sure the cvs are just trying to project Anandi holier than thou and eventually the family will get to know about the evil deeds of Dadi Bua and will place Anandi on a higher pedestal that she tried to shelter her family especially Daddu from the misdeeds of his sister.
What if Dadi bua had tried to mix drugs in Amol's food and it had had critical effect on his health ? would she be still sheltering Dadi Bua from her family or act as she had exposed others and send them to jail without caring for the sentiments of the family concerned ?
pls comment. my intention is not to demeen the character but the flaw in the character created by the cvs.
Thank you

The way Anandi's double standards are decided based on family members and likes of Saurabh, Ratan Singh etc etc amazes me.

Anandi's double standards are not just just measured on Suarabh's case and Rat's case. Her double standards started with J's case where she left him freely. Then it continued. She is hiding DB's mistakes now cause she apparently cares for Daddu. Saurabh and Rat too had family members who loved them. Saurabh's mum;s heart shattered when she came to know about. But still Anandi didn't care about her. Why? That's what I call is a double standard. In this case I don't understand why she thinks Ira/Alok also shouldn't know about DB. Does she think she's the only sane one livng on the planet who could manage everyone single handedly?