My Mummy vs CVs of Balika - Page 5

Originally posted by: Picasso9

😆 Did you not see the benefit of doubt I gave you on your speculation. 😆And I also stated so what if they don't kick her out. At least they all know. Once they know, that's it...onus is on them if anything further happens. Anandi will be off the hook. Right now fact is they don't know of the grievous bodily harm DB has committed on Anandi and could continue to do so on any one of them. They have not been alerted. Thus far, all they are aware of is DB's narrow minded pettiness which is a far cry from willfully endangering a life.

Exactly. DB almost killed daddu and Anandi. Had Ira not come on time, he'd have gone. Anandi was precipitously close to falling off the terrace. Yet Anandi believes all this must be kept hidden from the family.
If one member of my family the almost killed me, and another knew about it, i would expect them to tell me. The other person cannot unilaterally decide that I should not know how I was endangered.

If the full facts, including the terrace scene, and the fact that daddu was close to death because of DB administered drug, were shared with the family, they are bound to be horrified. Even If DB managed to sell her ansh baby story, the holes in the story would be evident. Ansh should have told them how she spat out the laddoo saying she was thankful for being saved

Even assuming they believed DB they would know how much harm she is capable of causing. They would certainly be alert to her kartoots. Now they believe she has changed. That is why the question that 'does not the family know her ' does not wash. They tested her repeatedly and are now convinced she is changed.

The simple point is when A makes an obvious, indefensible mistake, then the blame must go to everyone else except her.

Just imagine if KB folks had decided to brush off the danger to A because of DB, then the forum would have bayed for their blood. There would have been an explosion of anger over selfish, cruel, cunning, evil KB.


Now that it is Anandi who is protecting her, all logic goes out of the window. Why should it be assumed that daddu will ignore the threat to A? He has shown nothing but love to her. He shouted at DB for besmirching Ansh. They were rock solid in their support when she behaved weirdly.
But no, KB people don't care a shit fir A.

It was A's duty to inform them of what happened. What they did with it is their responsibility. Instead DB has been doubly emboldened by being let off. In the circumstances, how can A escape blame for tensions in the family due to DB?

The irony is A protected DB to safeguard family. By doing this she has allowed DB to cause further harm.

Not just this. Knowing what DB is Ansh let her make a call to the drug seller. A sharp DC doing this is incredible. It is moronic to expect DB won't do this. Even after the baba escaped, Shiv had no suspicion. Wah!

The DC and his wife are so much more credible and realistic in Udaan.

Originally posted by: rohini55

Exactly. DB almost killed daddu and Anandi. Had Ira not come on time, he'd have gone. Anandi was precipitously close to falling off the terrace. Yet Anandi believes all this must be kept hidden from the family.
If one member of my family the almost killed me, and another knew about it, i would expect them to tell me. The other person cannot unilaterally decide that I should not know how I was endangered.

If the full facts, including the terrace scene, and the fact that daddu was close to death because of DB administered drug, were shared with the family, they are bound to be horrified. Even If DB managed to sell her ansh baby story, the holes in the story would be evident. Ansh should have told them how she spat out the laddoo saying she was thankful for being saved

Even assuming they believed DB they would know how much harm she is capable of causing. They would certainly be alert to her kartoots. Now they believe she has changed. That is why the question that 'does not the family know her ' does not wash. They tested her repeatedly and are now convinced she is changed.

The simple point is when A makes an obvious, indefensible mistake, then the blame must go to everyone else except her.

Just imagine if KB folks had decided to brush off the danger to A because of DB, then the forum would have bayed for their blood. There would have been an explosion of anger over selfish, cruel, cunning, evil KB.


Now that it is Anandi who is protecting her, all logic goes out of the window. Why should it be assumed that daddu will ignore the threat to A? He has shown nothing but love to her. He shouted at DB for besmirching Ansh. They were rock solid in their support when she behaved weirdly.
But no, KB people don't care a shit fir A.

It was A's duty to inform them of what happened. What they did with it is their responsibility. Instead DB has been doubly emboldened by being let off. In the circumstances, how can A escape blame for tensions in the family due to DB?

The irony is A protected DB to safeguard family. By doing this she has allowed DB to cause further harm.

Originally posted by: rohini55

Not just this. Knowing what DB is Ansh let her make a call to the drug seller. A sharp DC doing this is incredible. It is moronic to expect DB won't do this. Even after the baba escaped, Shiv had no suspicion. Wah!

The DC and his wife are so much more credible and realistic in Udaan.

People are justifying Anandi by saving DB just like she saved jagiya , or talking about other characters in the serial...they are showing anadi as raising her voice and always fighting for truth and getting people punished if they are wrong, but when it comes to her family members she escapes by saying something or the other when she thinks she can save DB because it was with herself so she excuse her for ghar ki shanthi then why not teach saachi to forgive saurabh for the sake of his parent and try to change him into a good human being and bring him out of jail for the sake of saachi;s inlaws,,,,,there are many examples where she try to protect her family members..

They are always passing wrong message to the socity with anandi;s charecter which is the main lead...they showed that it is very easy to prove some one mentally instable where and at the end if she is a women who loves her inlaws family should forgive and hide it from the society and accept that there was something wrong with her

We all know that Anandi is going to hide DB and save her and then DB change into mahan women soon just like saachi.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

But that doesn't mean all the problems that happen in that family are because of that lady or because Anandi did not tell them what this lady had done to her.

The beginning of another problem has absolutely no connection to this lady and Anandi.

If Anandi and this lady become part of the problem it can't be because of these two but because of the foolishness of the others.

Attributing everything that happens in that family to Anandi's acts is not right.

Sanchi's problem happened because of the way she was brought up her foolishness was not checked her bad attitudes were not corrected and blaming Anandi for the mess that Singhs Jagya Sanchi and Shekhars brought upon themselves was not correct.

If Anop and Alok fight DB fuels the fire it is their stupidity to allow themselves affected by her.

Why blame Anandi for that?

Originally posted by: rohini55

Not just this. Knowing what DB is Ansh let her make a call to the drug seller. A sharp DC doing this is incredible. It is moronic to expect DB won't do this. Even after the baba escaped, Shiv had no suspicion. Wah!

The DC and his wife are so much more credible and realistic in Udaan.

@sunflower

So true. From Tulsi to Anandi with hundreds in between, all female leads lie and hide. The story moves forward on the strength of the lie/hiding.

If Anandi had not hidden Jagya's deception, the story would not have got as big as it did. If Anandi did not hide Saanch's pujari truth, saJa engagement would not have happened. If she did not hide Saurabh's visits to Saanchi, the rape would not have happened.

In short there is no story without the female lead hiding. It is the catalyst for moving the story. That she
ends up looking stupid rather than virtuous adds to the story and viewer interest.

The only saving grace in BV is Ansh are an ideal couple who are transparent with each other and allow no MU to develop. But A did try to hide the terrace incident. But Shiv drew it out of her.

Originally posted by: rohini55

@sunflower

So true. From Tulsi to Anandi with hundreds in between, all female leads lie and hide. The story moves forward on the strength of the lie/hiding.

If Anandi had not hidden Jagya's deception, the story would not have got as big as it did. If Anandi did not hide Saanch's pujari truth, saJa engagement would not have happened. If she did not hide Saurabh's visits to Saanchi, the rape would not have happened.

In short there is no story without the female lead hiding. It is the catalyst for moving the story. That she
ends up looking stupid rather than virtuous adds to the story and viewer interest.

The only saving grace in BV is Ansh are an ideal couple who are transparent with each other and allow no MU to develop. But A did try to hide the terrace incident. But Shiv drew it out of her.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Yes Rohini,

That's why I quoted:

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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Are they so blind with family pyar that they didn't anticipate this? Also what happened to family pyar and welfare in case of Chanda,Promilla etc. their families didn't deserve to be shielded?

All non-family people must be slapped and jailed. And if the family is hurt it is between the person and the family; it is their problem. Anandi will only dispense righteous justice. It is not her job to give them a second hearing or chance. Poor Premila pleaded and she got a slap and a lecture! It is immaterial that the girls may have come to pavement. It is their lookout.