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Posted: 11 years ago
#61
@ esha, shekhars have no problems with her attire, they agreed to the eldest son adopting his first child -- this decision was forced on Shiv and the family by Anandi; not just Shiv even daddu and meenu overruled Ira's mild protests -- they have no problems with her going over to campaign for her ex. Even when Tv showed the morphed pic, they did not question A.

She endangers two lives by leaving the gas open, and should they only be bothered that she is sleeping ? Will any of our family members tolerate us in a similar situation? Mine will not. I would have been yelled at. Even then ira handled her gently.

It is wrong for meenu and anoop to be lost in their world but right for gugu to be lost in their world. Gugu for some reason should not be brought up at all. Because the answer will be: why should they?

If anoop and minoo were unconcerned abt A they were equally not bothered that daddu escaped so narrowly. They did not discuss the incident in their room. If any of my family had escaped thus we'd be in shock.
Edited by rohini55 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#62

Treatment of inlaws of a child bride - Well they have shown how in laws of child brides treated child brides. Thye have shown enough examples

How was child bride Ganga treated by her in laws?
How was Gauri helped by Bhairon ? Was Bhairon Singh obliged to help Gauri? The deed was done by Dsa and Gauri's parents
Why were they so many abandoned child brides in Anand's village? Why were they packed off to their parents' place?
Doesn't that make Bahiron and Sumi rare when we look at the others who come from the same background?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63
there is lot of symptoms which can doubt shekhars somthing is wrong with anandi like she cannot able to speak properly .anandi look fatigue.why she started laughing suddenly .shekhars r noticing strange symptoms of anandi for many days but still never bother find out why anandi behaving like this why anandi voice sound fatigue .shekhars even dont bother to find out why anandi face look fatigue

anandi should stop apologise to shekhars
Edited by surabhi01 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#64

Just a little more point to add. DB's anger and jealousy towards Anandi is fuelled by Shekhar's behaviour. They have voiced their opinion time and again to protect Anandi.

After tolerating DB's nuisance for a while;

- Shiv spoke up when DB blamed A for having a relationship with J

- Meenu spoke up during Rasika's incident

- Ira spoke up during the Menses story and is still supporting Anandi while doubting DB

- Daddu spoke up strongly in favour of both AnSh and SanVi defense

- Alok and Anoop often praise A for her food, cooking skills etc.

- Saanchi also defended A

- The full-family joined in Amol's plan to re-unite his parents

- And all these people never question A's support for J and BH. No one doubts her and no one questions her.

Who of Shekhars is left out to show how much they care for A? Yet the whole family is called a mob, selfish, dumb, and are termed as people who don't care for their DIL?

Due to the above DB thinks A gets more respect than required and therefore she is set to spoil A's image. Hardik-gulli was the last triggering point, not the first one. But that means that Shekhars care a lot for A.

I am trying to re-call, how many times Bhairon managed to safe-guard A's honour and her parent's honour against Dsa's wishes. And what was the level of depth of Anandi's pain in Dsa's house as opposed to Daddu's house.

Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65
Appy... true...
Shekhar's accepting A without any complain ... give her happiness ...

Its their own son wants to marry her...knowing her background. His parents knew they can't change his mind. Shiv was quite firm


Sanchi case...how Anandi is responsible...Ira Alok does not have any duty. Ira herself accepted. Anandi share everything with Shiv.

Abt Anandi running BH leaving Amol on Shekhar's ...well didn't Ira left Sanchi on Anandi ... Anandi giving company to Sanchi after after assault. Ira allowed that... Anandi makes effort to make Sanchi normal. Sanchi trust Anandi over her own mother...

Amol is responsibility of Shiv Anandi...If Anandi is not around Shiv take care of him... whts wrong in that... isn't father has same responsibility like mother

If Ira Meenu had some problems taking care of Amol they shd complain ... it means they treat him like their own Grand son...

So if Shekhar's has done some fav on Anandi ...so Anandi does too.

Even in SaJa drama she try solve problem within family... every one on high that time... end of the day its Ira Alok humiliated becoz of Sanchi ... Why blame Anandi ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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They should have AT for all the great modern educated people of BV too along with Jaitser AT.

We do need AT where the educated modern open minded Shekhar family members too
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67
Same Educated Ira said Anandi shd say in fav of Sanchi no matter wht...
becoz She is mother of Shiv whom Anandi married


wha... such tight slap on Ira... when she got know her Prize name Shiv is belongs to Meenu... she ended up mother of Sanchi


during Shiv identity... Anandi makes sure Shiv and his family connection remain as it ... She makes Shiv understands convey him to have word with his both mom's ...try tell them for him everything remain same...


Edited by blushing - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

rohini I'll try to be a member of that Jester AT atleast. 🤣Couldn't be a part any other AT till date anyways😒



Me too and Jagya will be my favourite sadasya (member) within the jaitser AT.

Ds would have definitely married off Shiv or his equivalent. Even the reformed and modernised DS did not think twice before asking A to remarry J and dump Shiv.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69
Shekhars are glittering but that glitter hides certain problems.

Like Sanchi and DB.

When it comes to Sanchi or DB, Anandi is always expected not to rock the boat too hard.

Of course they shout at Sanchi and DB but they never take concrete action against them.

To top it, anandi's own soft attitude helps the Shekhars.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#70
Yes Bhairon and Sumi were rare compared to others of their kind, but that does not make them any better than Alok-Ira, and neither BS contribution to Guari or others in their vilage makes Alok-Ira any worse.
We are discussing, how BS were better in-laws than A-I. To which, the response is that, it is not comparable, because while one set dealt with a child-bride and formed a bonding over twenty years. The other set is dealing with a self-dependent matured bahu, and they are behaving with her accordingly. They cannot be expected to treat their DIL like a child.
Another point if BS were rare to throw out their son for their DIL's sake, and get her re-married, Alok-Ira have been rare to accept a village nurtured divorcee very gracefully for their most eligible son.
Alok-Ira were rare as compared to other people of their society.
And if BS were rare, so were Madan singh and radha, who also accepted a bahu with someone's else child, that too a child out of wedlock.
So no comparisions make Alok-Ira as bad in-laws for Anandi.

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