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Muktchand

@Muktchand

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Posted: 11 years ago

#31

Uma

exactly... A showering her love for Shiv... Its not Raunchy

did A throw her clothes or makes any vulgar dialogue or movement ...NO

its pure childish... Yah yah DB might say its besharmi ...

like Gowri i agree its CV way to giving back to DB's be Reel or Real.

A's love for Shiv is always been Q ... .here is answer. For that A being victimized and been tortured... Its painful.

Soon A will emerge as ultimate Winner

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 11 years ago

#32

@ TM -

When the word has a different meaning as contrasting ...feel, we should shy away from using it..

As it can be interpreted / mis interpreted in various ways.

As for me, I got offended in interpreting the word as I have understood it ( for Anandi ),

So...

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Thks for your understanding 😊

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seetha74

@seetha74

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: aparnauma

What is the standard of Anandi's character - As per me what was Anandi before life crushed her and restrained her was her real character and that is the standard of her character.
I am watching Rishtey now a days. Where she said Dadisa had been wrong and she refused to apologise to Dadisa when she was told to because she knew that she had not said anything wrong just called a spade spade loud and clearly without thinking about the consequences and who is at the receiving end. Anandi is an extrovert by nature and conditioning has made her an introvert.
Years of conditioning by Dsa coupled with traditional thinking have submerged Anandi's natural spunkiness and boistrousness and those are coming out now under the influence of that drug which removed the inhibitions brought about by conditioning.
Yes she wouldn't express her love so openly but she would have done it in the privacy of their own space even it been the spunky boisterous Anandi and she had been that way until DB put in double dose.
Only then it became noticeable to all the family members too. TIll now only Shiv and Dadisa have noticed it.
DB is going to fall in a pit that she has dug for Anandi. This is not meant to degrade Anandi but was done to show the family members that Anandi is in danger.Because they seem to be oblivious to subtle changes.
It is painful to watch because it involves Anandi.
Aparna ...this is the main cause for my questioning ?!!

Inherent qualities will be intact in any changed circumstances !

A dignified display of love ,longing , affection and adoration is an inherent quality of Anandi !

By making her , this bold type is hurting me !The writer has many options to show Anandi ...effected by that drug ! But this way downgrading is painful to me to watch !

Yes ...different perceptions , different impressions ,,but everybody has a right to express ...in their own way ! I choose this public forum to express my views !

Edited by SEETHA.K - 11 years ago

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#34

Gouri, perfectly said, we are not understanding what DB wants to prove but real life DBs are definitely getting what she wants from this.

Anandi is an angel, pure in heart . Till date even in intoxicated state she never uttered any thing which is bad. What she did is just shared her hidden desires to her hubby that too in private. But becoz of over dose of medicines she is doing the same thing in front of the others. Of course the drug is dangerous even life threatening. That's the effect of the drug. She is not in her senses that she realize that she is doing that in front of everyone. What she did is just embarrassing in front of everyone but nothing raunchy.

She has not run to hug someone else. She just hugged her hubby and said loudly that she loves him.

In no way its degrading her character. She is completely unaware of the thing. Infact I felt sorry seeing her in the precap.

Had it been that way that Jamnesia drama was much more degrading which she did thinking Jagya's life is in danger and it showed Jagya's mindset that, that time he can go to any extent to get Anandi.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Anandi always displayed her love and effecttion in dignified manner but under drugs effect her brain is not under her control.

Its not any changed circumstances.

Anandi cant think any thing bad against anyone. So they cant show her harming anyone. What best nasha can do her is to love and love more . and thats what she is doing and Toral is doing excellent job

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seetha74

@seetha74

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: hisusmita
Gouri, perfectly said, we are not understanding what DB want to prove but real life DBs are definitely getting what she wants from this.
Anandi is an angel, pure in heart . Till date even in intoxicated state she never uttered any thing which is bad. What she did is just shared her hidden desires to her hubby that too in private. But becoz of over dose of medicines she is doing the same thing in front of the others. Of course the drug is dangerous even life threatening. That's the effect of the drug. She is not in her senses that she realize that she is doing that in front of everyone. What she did is just embarrassing in front of everyone but nothing raunchy.

She has not run to hug someone else. She just hugged her hubby and said loudly that she loves her.

In no way its degrading her character. She is completely unaware of the thing. Infact I felt sorry seeing her in the precap.

Had it been that way that Jamnesia drama was much more degrading which she did thinking Jagya's life is in danger and it showed Jagya's mindset that that time he can go to any extent to get Anandi.

She called DB dokri ...in BH she boasted her decision of her marriage to Shiv is a great decision in her life ...contradicting her hesitation while agreeing for the marriage , then accepting ! Some uncharacteristic expressions ,in an unconvincing way !

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seetha74

@seetha74

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Posted: 11 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: hisusmita
Gouri, perfectly said, we are not understanding what DB want to prove but real life DBs are definitely getting what she wants from this.
Anandi is an angel, pure in heart . Till date even in intoxicated state she never uttered any thing which is bad. What she did is just shared her hidden desires to her hubby that too in private. But becoz of over dose of medicines she is doing the same thing in front of the others. Of course the drug is dangerous even life threatening. That's the effect of the drug. She is not in her senses that she realize that she is doing that in front of everyone. What she did is just embarrassing in front of everyone but nothing raunchy.

She has not run to hug someone else. She just hugged her hubby and said loudly that she loves her.

In no way its degrading her character. She is completely unaware of the thing. Infact I felt sorry seeing her in the precap.

Had it been that way that Jamnesia drama was much more degrading which she did thinking Jagya's life is in danger and it showed Jagya's mindset that that time he can go to any extent to get Anandi.

If they do this ..then nobody will be left to watch this show !

Anandi is an' Ideal Type '[ Socialogy ]---the ultimate definition for a well cultured Indian woman ! Even Shiv and his family members were also embarrassed at her bold expression of love !

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: SEETHA.K
She called DB dokri ...in BH she boasted her decision of her marriage to Shiv is a great decision in her life ...contradicting her hesitation while agreeing for the marriage , then accepting ! Some uncharacteristic expressions ,in an unconvincing way !

She thought she would never love anybody or never fall in love again but didn't she fall in love again? Does that mean that is a change of behaviour?

When she made the decision to marry she was hesitant about it unsure about it but didn't she embrace her marriage whole heartedly and started loving it.

Many times we may be unsure of a decision we have taken but in retrospective we realise that was a very good decision we made or it was a bad decision. She agreed to the marriage because of three reasons trust in Dadisa, her promise to her mother adn trust in Shiv even though she was not sure of marriage and that decision which she made so hesitant became the best decision of her life on retrospective evaluation adn taht she never said it to anybody but told Gauri because the situation demanded it and she wanted to tell Gauri to move on how she found happiness in that move she made. So what was uncharacterestic about it?

She told Sanchi also the same thing soon after the court case and her drunk drama at Jagya's reception. She told Sanchi that it is not worth putting oneself thru pain because of a man and she should move on in life.

She said the same things to Sanchi and Gauri and only it was said in an elated manner to Gauri.

She has not changed only she became less restrained. Her feelings towards Shiv Dsa or Gauri have not changed.

She would have told Gauri the same thing even if she had not been under the influence of any drug because she and Gauri did love the same man for years and shared their lives with him so her feelings for Gauri would be even more empathetic than towards Sanchi.

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hisusmita

@hisusmita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: SEETHA.K
If they do this ..then nobody will be left to watch this show !
Anandi is an' Ideal Type '[ Socialogy ]---the ultimate definition for a well cultured Indian woman ! Even Shiv and his family members were also embarrassed at her bold expression of love !

If anyone understands Anandi she will never say that. its not that Anandi has changed and showing bold expressions of love. Today family and Shiv may fell embarrassed but they understood too that something is seriously wrong with her and Shiv took the appointment of a doctor. Ofcourse we have seen our very pwn Anandi in the precap., dignified, dutiful.

Its not showing Anandi has changed. the track is showing people like DB do exists and to what extent they can go. And what pleasure they are getting out of it and they think they can degrade and demean Anandi.

I wish DB had her brain intact and thought once that when family will come to know they will feel embarrassed not about Anandi but disgusted about her.

People who knows the character Anandi will understand her and watch the show, watching show is something different thing, Even people who hate the show and the actress very religiously watch the show and even capture her every moves. So that's different issue altogether. Lets not bring it here

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 11 years ago

#40

Was Shiv embarrassed by her display of love or was he worried about her behavior?

Because he knew that from experience she doesn't remember what she said or did later on.

He is more worried about this episode and concerned about her welfare.

Were the family members embarrassed or shocked and wondering what is happening to her?

If dignified restrained calm and composed Anandi is the real Anandi then where did that spunkiness and bubbly nature which is so natural to her go?

Where did the Anandi who is an extrovert spoke out her mind and a free spirit go? Was she not real or was it not Anandi's standard?

The child that we saw had she been allowed to grow up the same way she too would have been a lively fun loving spunky teasing pulling her husband's leg playing with her son without a care in the world and of course she would have been careful about how she should say what she thinks of and when and where she should say and what are the consequances because that comes with wisdom and experience which age brings.

A grown up Anandi would have been just a milder version of how Anandi is behaving under the influence of that drug given in double dose.