Here once thing we can assume that generally in some families the beti is always prominent and upper hand before she gets married off and even after the beti's marriage she is given equal importance in her maika whenever she comes there. I think DB want's that position in KB given Daddu considers her as the most loving sister he lost for some time. But DB observed that Anandi is given more importance, love and respect than her by every one in KB. Here DB's selfish and cunning self coming out. She want's to suppress Anandi's status in KB but one thing she forgot that Anandi was given that status by KB people before she was married with Shiv and after marriage she earned more.----
In this DB's desperate attempt to regain her position as a ' lovable beti's' in KB angle, I fully agree with you Padma !