Anandi in BH AGAIN? SERIOUSLY?!?! - Page 5

Originally posted by: Missesha

I also felt he showed displeasure.

And personally if I were J, I would not like Anandi around me, particularly if her staying back was not going to solve the current crisis. As Jagya, I would not have not liked A to stay back for 2 reasons:

- She is my ex and my wife is capable of looking after my family.

- Just recently J& A relationship was tormented in public, while I am still standing in elections, I don't want to give one more chance to public to raise fingers upon me.

I think ideally Anandi should have met them all and returned to Udaipur. There she should have explained situation to all, including Amol and then returned to Jetsar.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

But here the issue is Singh family still have a bond with Anandi and vice versa. It has got nothing to do with Jagya.

Bhairon didn't want to involve Anandi in it because he did not want to worry her

Sumi broke and down and told everything to Anandi she also said her visit will make them feel better

Dadisa was in avilnerable state and she was asking her to stay for sometime

Finally - Gulli Anandi did take up responsibility of Gulii.She did not bother too much with her when he was doing well for herself and now that girl's life is in danger.

So all these things don't really have anything to do with Anandi being ex wife of Jagya

During the absence of Jagya in that painful period the bond became much stronger.

They all endured the pain of being abandoned by Jagya by staying together.They wre her support and she was theirs.

So it is only natural that they will think of her when in pain and distress.

It is her family as much as Jagya's family.

It was Jagya's family by birth and it became Anandi's family because of the love and the bond that formed due to years of caring for each other and sharing joys and sorrows.

Singhs should not have called her and Dsa should not have asked her to stay on not because she is paraya but she has responsibilities too.

Does anybody know if Khajaan is dead or alive and how he lives as a widower? Is there anybody to take care of him or not?

Originally posted by: atominis

Does anybody know if Khajaan is dead or alive and how he lives as a widower? Is there anybody to take care of him or not?

Are Sugna and Shyam also alive or have they left the country like Gauri?

Aparna, I agree and disagree with your post.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Aparna, I agree and disagree with your post.

I agree about the bonding part and also that Singhs, particularly DS likes A and needs her.

But then there has to be practical angle for everything and people have to change with times.

Ds needs to know that A is not the only one, all her beendnis are equally capable and can look after each other in terms of crisis.

Anandi also needs to understand the repercussions of her sudden decisions. At this point Amol was her priority. Besides which she just went through a name-shame in her involvement with J. So why didn't she think that her staying back may cause more problems than providing solution.

Anandi frequently visits her ex-sasra and needs to be careful of her actions, particularly now when her ex-husband is a public figure.

If I were A I would have told DS, 'aaj to jaana hoga, sab kuch aise hi chod ke aayi hun, but jaldi vapas aaungi.' Then should have quickly met BH folks, gulli and gone back to KB, looked after Amol and come back for serious times like court case.

I am not against A coming to meet DS. But I am unhappy with A's readiness to stay back.

Doesn't it feel awkward to stay in the same house as your ex with his wife and kids, over and over again?

Calling Anandi for campaigning for Jagya was still understandable - other BH beendnies are not public figure (except Ganga - who may be well known in area because of her profession). In the current situation - anandi can do nothing and DS should have remembered the disastrous consequence of calling Anandi to Jaitsar last time.