Insensitive BH peeps???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ok I know I will be called anti BH; But that is not the case

I love Dsa; Gehna; Sumitra; Basant; Bhairon; Nandu; Mannu and Ganga. Have begun to like Jagya because of Mannu.

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The recent things like the papaya n almond things came attached with

"Jo aurat pet se ho" "Jo ma banne wali ho"

They say all this in front of Ganga

Unknowingly YES they are helping her but they don't know she is expecting but they do know that she will not mother another child as it is a health risk.

They also do not want a child from her.

They love her very much.

Then why say such things about expecting women in front of her.

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Why???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think they didn't told it purposely
they are talking common facts in home
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know but kya har baat par this topic ka slip of tongue unknowingly hoga
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i don't think this makes them insensitive They are just talking common facts at home and they are just acting normal in front of Ganga
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its useless blaming them for Ganga's foolery She is doing that mahanta on purpose.
It will be an awful situation when BH ppl get to know what she is up to.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Its useless blaming them for Ganga's foolery She is doing that mahanta on purpose.

It will be an awful situation when BH ppl get to know what she is up to.

She is not doing any mahanta🤢 she is doing it for her kid
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know that BH peeps are trying to be normal around Ganga But itna bhi normal mat raho to miss the signs that she is carrying n then late ho jaaye

She is risking her life to give them the khushi they are ok without they need to make her understand that

She is thinking about her unborn child n her family but what about Mannu

I don't want that baby to loose his mother for anyone else

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chahanya

I know but kya har baat par this topic ka slip of tongue unknowingly hoga


you are right chahat...
I know they r not doing it purposely but they should be extra cautious while talking about pregnancy in front of ganga
It might hurt her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: santhiyaa_J

She is not doing any mahanta🤢 she is doing it for her kid

I would have agreed if she were alone and would not have a purpose to live.
We have a real life case of Smita Patil who still bore a kid knowing that she may not be able to live after that.
But here she has a family and a kid already who needs her. Just because BH people have assured that they will take care of Mannu that doesn't mean she can conveniently die.
A child definitely needs a mother and just giving birth doesn't mean you have been a good mother.
I know mothers have sentiments attached to their kids but being practical is also important here.
Consider a case where a mother is HIV positive, or parents are both thalassemia minor or haemophila minor.
Would it still be justified to keep the child and give it a horrible future ahead?
And can this be guaranteed that a weak mother like Ganga would be able to produce a healthy offspring? We must have seen UNICEF awareness programs featuring Aamir Khan where it is mandatory for the mother to be healthy to have a healthy child.
Its becoming dangerous day by day to take this show seriously.
I hope the ladies of rural India don't take this message seriously and go about risking lives just to serve the purpose of keeping their family running by producing offsprings.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra


A child definitely needs a mother and just giving birth doesn't mean you have been a good mother.

Its becoming dangerous day by day to take this show seriously.
I hope the ladies of rural India don't take this message seriously and go about risking lives just to serve the purpose of keeping their family running by producing offsprings.


Exactly my point !!

If as the show people claim - they have a huge rural following - then to blatantly risk your life and that or your kids' mom ( once you have kids - kids have a claim on their mom) JUST to please the ELDERS - is beyond ridiculous !

I hope her throw-ups or chakkars etc are noticed by fellow nurses or Lal Singh or someone and Jagya comes to know before 3 months are up !!

She shud be made to listen to a strong lecture by Jagya about being responsible and intelligent and I hope Dadisa also yells at her for being this reckless !! This is not done !!

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