Jagya talked and talked - Page 8

His family heard his deepest secret which he hid from them for 6 months and remained unmoved.

He told his family abt what he overheard Sanchi telling her friends, they remained unmoved.

Their anger hasn't seized or even reduced after giving him slaps & badduas...

Where's the room...any signs that they will accept him? Their stance is clear...we won't accept Ganga...and his is too, I can't live without her...there's no room to negotiate...they give him none...they don't even respect his place as their son...because they openly tell him that he's not important...someone else is...but he takes it.

Leave him alone.


As for regressive? He sent her off to get an education...and I bet he will tell her to work if she wants after marriage...he's a broken person right now...no family, phatkars, badduas, slaps, humiliation...no hospital...and he loves this one girl ...and he cannot imagine himself without her...so he tells her to stay...

He has one sympathizer among a lot of people who have reprimanded him ...his friend, Lal Singh...let him at least have his friend.

Originally posted by: ranitha

They love him dearly.I agree completely on that point(I cried for Dadisa too)
But love isn't enough is it? They don't care for him even though they love him

A husband might be so madly in love with his wife that he becomes jealous and possessive concerning her. He loves her but that love isn't accompanied by understanding or care

A mother might love her child dearly and in that love will be scared to relinquish her hold over her own child or dominate over that child. That love isn't accompanied by understanding or care

A love without these two elements doesn't flourish. It gradually withers away or turns into hate or anger.
Here the Singh's adore their Jagya but they never took the time to think from his point of view. They first spoilt , then tried to bully and browbeat him when the results of their upbringing became evident- which in turn drove him to extremes. Later when he left them to pursue his redemption they get Anandi to drag him back, they emotionally blackmail her to emotionally blackmail him to get married and now all this!

They love him but that love is a posessive love. They need him to follow their rules, their ways of life, stick to their orders and if he rebels - throw him out. This sort of love is the worst sort of love ever, even worse than pure anger or hate because the object of your love, especially a man like Jagya who is weighed down by guilt over his past actions, can never be happy- even when he tries to make his own decisions. Because he knows the people against him loves him, he will never be truly comfortable with all the decisions he makes

Is that what love should be. A dark, stifling, hurtful emotion?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

By all means , we will support u fully

Let us take a stroll in this zigzag pathway... and talk about Anandis' future action !!Yes I support your suggestion that Anandi to stay out for once !!

another upmaa for ganga by ira .yesterday it was basi phool by sumitra now today it is was patthar by ira .being in decent family how can they give such type of upmaa for ganga .

I agree whatever anandi did for them she earned and deserves that place singhs have gave to her.I am happy that anandi is so important for them.

But what I disliked as an audience today everytime jagya does something he is reminded what he did to anandi.Everytime.Its so painful to watch.It was ok when I saw jagya was brutally insulting anandi but not now.Now Jagya's guilt gives me pain.Jagya cant marry a girl,a psycho b*tch thinking anandi's happiness.Anandi herself will not like it or accept it.What jagya realized about sanchi anandi couldn't realized.One day anandi herself will say to jagya what I couldn't have seen you have seen it,thank god you married ganga otherwise our family would have been in huge trouble.Jagya ki haar ek baat singhs anandi pe khatam karte hai and I hate it.Look at jagya and anandi,they are comfortable with each other but this family ruins everything.How can they accept that jagya will have the guts to say no to a girl who is well educated,beautiful minus her lips especially upper one,most importantly an unmarried girl without any reason.Now he has the reason he went to them and said sorry I cant marry.The truth were revealed to shekhars but they thought sanchi was doing masti,itni hi masti karni hai to issko koi play school bhejo,why getting her married.Jagya ke piche hi par gaye hai ye log.Thank god he married ganga otherwise it would have been impossible to avoid that girl because nobody cared what sanchi said.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So burnt out ...so unhappy ...they made him miserable and guilty for exercising his choice . Even in agreeing for a proper marraige i felt that for him , in that empty state , was only the thought of making Ganga guilt free and comfortable . He took all the blame on himself and faced Shekhars alone by breaking up , he took the decision of marrying Ganga and faced wrath of his family and tried to protect her as much as he could . He literally took all the blows alone ...how much capacity does a human being have .

Ganga must realise his worth and show spirit when Ira insults him .

Originally posted by: Dastaan.

Since Shashank's performance has been appreciated in this thread, I just want to say that I personally feel he is the best actor on the show. He has always maintained that he's the worst actor with the best role. But I say he is the finest actor with the best role. Not only is Jagya a complex character which many actors would enjoy playing, Shashank himself has emerged as a real talent. His expressions, dialogue delivery and body language...it's all been spot on. But he seems too modest about himself as an actor :)

Originally posted by: naq5

hes improved a lot he was not this good earlier

Even I think Jagia's dialogues with Ganga was not regressive. Dialogues like this should be