Shiv was not wrong!

I am not really angry at Shiv!!
Shiv the brother was very much correct in his reaction...any brother would do this in such situation!!!
first he never pushed for this rishta...he was against it from start, but his sister's logic and making him remind of his promise and himself marrying a divorcee cause she is perfect was enough to keep him shut.
Plus J was indeed a changed man, had saved his sis so Shiv cudnt really say that he is not currect for Sanchi!

Still when post rishta fix, anandi raised an objection he did support her...and did stand by her when she brought her concern in front on family...but then Sanchi tricked and made everyone believe including anandi that she is changing for good...

Still Shiv asked J before engagement that is he happy with this rishta..J messed up saying yes!!
when Sanchi's reality was told by anandi he did believe his wife and was ready to apologise to J ...and that is why they came to Jaitser...
but this wedding drama took everyone by utter shock and disbelief...no one had a wind that J loved Ganga and wud marry her...all were thinking they wud apologise and maybe work out this rishta!!
so he was definitely in a shock to see his sister's life ruined in a minute...he probably believed J the most and now he without any proper explanantion not only broke the rishta but went on to marry Ganga immediately...
Sa's world is finished as of now for all the Shekhar's and no family would behave sane in this condition...he is a collector but that doesnt mean he shud have no heart and always think out everything rationally.
Shiv is after all a human for God's sake...today apart from his sis nothing matters...and for him his sister came to say sorry and she get's such a rude shock is too much for any brother...
anandi was also equally shocked...and what Sanchi said to anandi everyone just saw it as part of her outburst ...
we know Sanchi's true colors inside out...not Shiv or shekhars or even Singhs..

J should have taken the responsiblity to properly address this and bring out the entire truth...
and anandi does stand for every other person, why cant she really give it back to Sanchi on her comment? in normal situation she might have...but she didnt cause she was also equally shocked with the turn of events...she also did not expect the wedding to happen...