Serves anandi right!! - Page 21

Originally posted by: aparnauma

It is obvious that everyone expected J and Singhs to reject the rishta.It is Sumi who bulldozed everybody with her great logic.They consciouly decided not to dicuss this matter with her.If she interfered and said something she would have been blamed.Now why is Anandi being held responsible for Sumi's stupidity and Ira's irrationality?These two mothers in their blind love for their children doing all this nonsense why is Anandi being blamed for it?

so dear they expected something from her too Expectations everyone kept from each other J was made bali ka bakra by Singhs but Anandi was the one who goofed up Shekhars and Singhs are dumbos in any way and who is blaming Anandi for Ira and Sumitra Show me We are only telling Anandi's goof up The mistake she made is it wrong ?

The way Sumi and DS and all the other Singh parivar is gushing over Sanchi it is quite easy to assume that he is marrying Sanchi because his family liked her.The state in which he was in he would have had the same sad face if Ganga had been Sanchi's place.At that time it was nothing to do with Sanchi's unsuitability it was more about him getting locked in aprison for his family.He wanted to refuse Sanchi at that time because she told him she loves him.And he felt he would be doing injustice to her.

She already knows he is marrying only for family's sake but the question is of Sanchi with whom she expected according to you he will refuse so If she expected him to say No

to this rishta then she should have guessed there is some reason behind in saying yes of course he would be same depressed , unhappy and saying No to Ganga too but Anandi would not be expecting No from him there When Urmi devi's daughter's rishta came Anandi was not expecting a firm No from Jagya His family if liked the girl he would have said yes despite he himself does not want to marry With Sanchi she expected No from Singhs and Jagaya then when yes came how she could not guess there is something behind it ? of course i don't expect her to be 100 percent perfect . A mortal human she is could not guess but mistakes happened from her too why ignore that while others immediately became immature , indecisive , idiots while she has clean chit ?The result of her this mistake will lead to damage but that is expected to be ignored but brick bats for others? why ?

Nobody likes to say something that leads to breaking of an engagement.It is simple if we don't have anything god to say we keep quiet hoping for the best.That is the reason why she is trying to convince herself that she is changing.

😕At that time engagement did not happen she could tell it to Jagya at least 😕

What double standards?She was angry with Sumi for letting Ganga go out in the middle of the night.When J told her that she is safe she wanted him to take her back home or inform the family but Jagya decided not to do that.When she screamed at Jagya she never said not to help Ganga.She only said helping Ganga shouldn't come in the way of his other relationships namely his mother and future wife because they are the ones who are asking this question about his relationship with Ganga.

So even he got angry at his family for their wrong acts why to blame him for it ? If she is justified he is justified too so why he is suppose to be yelled at and she should be angry at him why she cannot do it on herself ?Interospect herself for once If she is justified then why she is angry at him In hospital quarters he very clearly told her if he will inform his family same hungama Its common sense in both cases same hungama will happen , Sumitra will feel same bad so what he would have done ?and to top it all when her husband agreed with Jagya there too still she is yelling ??? At that time she got convinced now she is yelling ? and of course these are double standards I can leave the house when Singhs are being unfair to Ganga but same if Jagya is angry at his family somewhere she will say to him you are wrong you are revolting against your family for Ganga Wow If he is revolting against his family for Ganga not at all caring to his family he would have gone to drop Ganga to Mangalore on 16th not come back He very clearly told her i will fulfill my family's wishes even if i am dying from inside Is this not enough to open Anandi's eyes To him his family's matters the most How wrong is that to blame someone you are not caring to your family with no proofs in hands and turning a blind eye to all that she has in front of her ?

Whether she told him that Ganga loves him or Lal Singh told him about Ganga's love for him at that time it would have only made things difficult for him.

Lal Singh now suspected that he is in love with Ganga and that's the reason he told him.

Lal Singh just blurted out He does not suspect J loves Ganga otherwise he would have told him before and whole scenario is like this it came out of his mouth later when J forced him to tell him all then he suspected and asked you love whom ?i believe this is what is shown in episode ?If at that time it would be difficult for him even now it is why now criticizing him so much ?

As it is he cannot stand Sanchi and nobody is blaming him for that.But why comparisons with Ganga?That was even before he realised that he was in love with Ganga.When he had every intention of continuing his relationship with Sanchi why compare with Ganga and make himself miserable and later on Sanchi's life miserable with comparisons?

I believe in his place even you and me will remember a good person in front of bad person in same situation he only remembered once in restaurant scene where the hell he did comparisons between her and Sanchi ?Whatever Sanchi's actions are shown in all these six months Did J for once been shown comparing Ganga with her ? NO He very clearly said Sanchi is so immature Where he said Ganga is better than her or thought of Ganga immediately after Sanchi's any call ? so comparisons are where ?

NWhether it is Anandi or Jagya or Shiv they goof up they will not be supported.It just that Anandi's goof ups are comparatively less in number.Jagya can't seem to help himself he puts himself in those situations where as Anandi is thrown into them.

Anandi is always supported 😆Less or more Anandi made a lot many goofs up its another thing her fans always gave her clean chit for everything while same Jagya will never be left by his critics Anandi has never been in Jagya type of situations so we can say she would be great Both of them have faced different situations and Jagya is facing all and will face all and come out better He will help himself Its only matter of seeing it If you cannot see can't blame him You have a lot much different POV He cannot satisfy you so keep criticism up