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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

There are so many contradictions in ganga's character. On the one hand she is shown as samajhdaar ladki, finding suitable girl for Jagya and also knowing what is appropriate and inappropriate.On the otherhand she is shown as falling hopelessly in love with her benefactor without any signal from him. And ganga is aware of this and thats why she is trying her best to accept Jagya's rishta with the wrong girl because of Sumitra's overenthusiasm(she tried to drill some sense but was rebuffed by angry sumitra) and then she finally resigned to the things happening like a drama.

This girl has not been treated as a human being since her childhood days.She has never ever known feelings like kindness concern leave alone love.
Neither was she loved nor did she love anyone.Mannu is the first human being for whom she felt all those emotions like love tenderness and concern caring and he is the first one to bring happiness to her life.He probably is the only who loves her.

This girl has for the first time saw people showing concern for her being kind to her when she came to BH.To top it all her benefactors main aim in life is to help her and protect her.
All this is something totally new to her.She has been starving for love and affection her entire life.
It is so easy for her to get attached to all these people and fall for them and not just dactarsa.

Right now all she really does not know whether what she feels for her doctorsa is love or gratutude couple with infatuation.She probably will not be able to tell the difference also.

But all the same she should be concentrating on making a life for herself and for her son with the help of these people instead of trying to act on her emotions and feelings for her benefactor.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

This girl has not been treated as a human being since her childhood days.She has never ever known feelings like kindness concern leave alone love.
Neither was she loved nor did she love anyone.Mannu is the first human being for whom she felt all those emotions like love tenderness and concern caring and he is the first one to bring happiness to her life.He probably is the only who loves her.

This girl has for the first time saw people showing concern for her being kind to her when she came to BH.To top it all her benefactors main aim in life is to help her and protect her.
All this is something totally new to her.She has been starving for love and affection her entire life.
It is so easy for her to get attached to all these people and fall for them and not just dactarsa.

Right now all she really does not know whether what she feels for her doctorsa is love or gratutude couple with infatuation.She probably will not be able to tell the difference also.

But all the same she should be concentrating on making a life for herself and for her son with the help of these people instead of trying to act on her emotions and feelings for her benefactor.


Aparna,

I agree with everything you said except for bold part.

Please explain how Ganga has acted on her feelings for her benefactor. I really want to know, because we as viewers recognize that she loves him, she knows but doesn't know she is in love with him. And the object of her affection, JAGYA, has absolutely no inkling. So how did she act on it?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Right now all she really does not know whether what she feels for her doctorsa is love or gratutude couple with infatuation.She probably will not be able to tell the difference also.

But all the same she should be concentrating on making a life for herself and for her son with the help of these people instead of trying to act on her emotions and feelings for her benefactor.

Aparna -
She has been concentrating on working for a better life. Do you remember how hard she worked for her exams and how she cried when she messed up 2 marks ?

She is not used to being a burden and when she was fretting where to keep Mannu during her exams - remember DS saying you have to trust us to care for him ? You have to do this coz this is for your own betterment ?

Currently too - she is just waiting for the day she can leave here to go join her training. She is just biding her time till she can leave. What emotions is she acting on ?

The impatient one giving in to her emotions is Sumi. Sumi knows Ganga has to leave but still she can't help wanting her to go away - NOW.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think aparna must have meant instead of crying over or being distressed. I maybe wrong.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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She is not displaying her feelings for Jagya to the world. so no body is actually aware of them But she is giving into those emotions and letting those feelings affect her own life.

Instead of thinking of the things that are not possible in her life not now she should be thinking about things that can change her life for better.That takes a bit of will power.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A song for ganga from Kati Patang. Na koi umang hai. Her Rajesh Khanna is jagya.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

She is not displaying her feelings for Jagya to the world. so no body is actually aware of them But she is giving into those emotions and letting those feelings affect her own life.


Instead of thinking of the things that are not possible in her life not now she should be thinking about things that can change her life for better.That takes a bit of will power.


Now you are being grossly unfair.
First you said she shud not be acting on her emotions. And G has been actively shown to tell her self to shake herself free of thoughts about Jagya's engagement.

She can't help his thoughts in her head. But no where is she acting on them.
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If tomorrow I'm angry at something and am trying to overcome it - without even verbalizing it - can I still be accused of being angry and acting on it ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If that were so true - nobody would read fairy tales to their kid coz there are no fairies in real life and we shud only think about practical things. Right ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked

If that were so true - nobody would read fairy tales to their kid coz there are no fairies in real life and we shud only think about practical things. Right ?



In ganga's case, she will have a fairytale ending. Just like anandi got a Collector and that too such an understanding husband. That is called hope and optimism. That is why we love to watch movies where the hero always wins against hardened goons, where good always wins over evil.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hooked


Now you are being grossly unfair.
First you said she shud not be acting on her emotions. And G has been actively shown to tell her self to shake herself free of thoughts about Jagya's engagement.

She can't help his thoughts in her head. But no where is she acting on them.
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If tomorrow I'm angry at something and am trying to overcome it - without even verbalizing it - can I still be accused of being angry and acting on it ?

She can't help it if she likes somebody too much for her own good.It definitely is not in her control.
Thinking about him is only going to make her more sad.I am only talking about her reasons for her unhappiness.
And it does take a lot more efforts than she is putting in right now to come out of that sinking feelings.

They have not really shown her concentrating on the right things that are happening in her life.Except for that one odd scene where she was happy that she got admission in the nursing course.

Obviously the CVs are at fault in this.They chose to show her spending time crying over her lost love and too little was shown about her efforts to shake herself out of that depressed state.
The way it is being shown that it feels as if J is the only reason for her happiness in life.

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