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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: dixie123




So, does that mean she can never get angry on her maikawale just because she got married and they loved her unconditionally ? Don't we ever get angry on our parents ? We always get angry on the people we love the most and are the most comfortable with.

Bharion, Jagya from their expressions knew exactly that Anandi was right in what she was telling.



There is a way of expressing displeasure and and anger. Did she even care to listen to their explanations? Just because they are hale and hearty, she is showing off her anger. Dadisa is still in shock and so is gehna and nandu.

And they are not her parents. They gave her that privilege and she has to stay within certain parameters. Is she not doing that with Ira?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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CV's are just pushing everything to the very extreme. Glorifying ganga, vilifying Sumi and now making Anandi go loco. 😡


I would have liked to hear atleast one sentence from Gehna. Why do they show her like a mute showpiece ? She used to have a pretty rational and strong opinion. So much has been said and done on behalf of Gehna and her unborn and yet not a word from her on Ganga ???

Doesn't that sound super weird ?



@bold: I so agree on this part.

The CVs are trying to show Sumi in an extremely bad light. Even Jagya kept looking at Sumi when Anandi was asking questions about Ganga. Bhairon too accused Sumi yesterday saying he didn't expect it from her. Suddenly, it became Sumi's responsibilty to stop Ganga.

And the worst part was when Jagya came back, Sumi first asked him to eat 😲.. She didn't even once ask was he able to find anything about Ganga and she knew how agitated Jagya was when he left and the reason why he left...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The cumulative silence on Ganga topic wud get anyone in Anandi's position hopping mad. But not screaming mad - maybe cold mad - with the understanding that something is very amiss and I need to get to the bottom of this - NOT - these are are stupid - I'm out of here.

I didn't like her yelling at Dadisa. The earlier Anandi wud have had a hurt, disappointed reproach filled look in her eyes for Dadisa. Not the wild -eyed how-cud you be so cheap.

Anandi shud stay and ask more patiently why what happened.

LOVED LOVED LOVED Jagya's reproachful level stare at Sumi thruout. He got her really really uncomfortable. Also loved DS's acceptance of her responsibility for the attack being due to her negligence in letting all the guards have a night off. She also gave Sumi credit for warning her earlier.

But what DS is not saying is - since she herself feels responsible for lapse of security - Sumi has a right to get mad - but at DS - not at Ganga.

DS shud have said - it was my fault, not Ganga's. It pains me to say so - coz I love DS and can't bear to see her in the wrong.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



There is a way of expressing displeasure and and anger. Did she even care to listen to their explanations? Just because they are hale and hearty, she is showing off her anger. Dadisa is still in shock and so is gehna and nandu.

And they are not her parents. They gave her that privilege and she has to stay within certain parameters. Is she not doing that with Ira?



Anandi has EARNED the privilege from Bhairon and Sumi to be their daughter. Although they are not her birth parents but she is given the same love or in fact more love than their own son.

What explanation were they giving ? That Ganga had made up her mind and she had decided to leave. That is all they said. Nothing more..She was shocked that her family had not thought through the consequences of letting Ganga go in the middle of the night.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya is shining best nowadays.

He has given protection to an abused woman. And he is serious about it.

He is attached to mannu and he cant bear anything bad happening to mannu.

He is not in love with either sanchi or ganga.

Sanchi was imposed on him by sumitra. While Jagya is not encouraging ganga by speaking even one romantic word or throwing one romantic look till now. While ganga is cherishing her close encounters with Jagya, he has almost forgotten about them.

He is practical. He immediately left searching for them.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

hooked, she is a loving mother but she is not that caring sometimes about mannu. Crying buckets before mannu, leaving in an unsafe hour, allowing the child to be soaked etc. etc.

If her grandparents were rough with mannu, ganga is doing that by being negligent.

sorry, still don't agree.
Kidz need love n happiness most of all. his GPs cud never have given him that. And imagine - what if Padma had also had a son ? what of Mannu then ?

Ganga is just a kid herself. The reason she was reminiscing that day at the fair was also probably bcoz in her much torturous young life - that was the one day when she got to eat ice candy at a fair and go on a ride and just be happy. She has never had a loving mother and she herself has had no education - only hard work, torture, rudeness and suppression.

Despite that - she gives a lot of love and acre to Mannu and makes him happy and keeps him healthy. Yes - she has cried in front of him - but the no of times she's creid must be few to the no of times she's made him smile.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
It is not like Anandi has always been cool and calm.

There are many instances where she got angry with her family members.Like when DS went ahead and proposed to Shiv on behalf of her then when Jagya went away soon after their marriage and the family hid the truth from her are two such instances.She even got angry with Shiv when he agreed to marry her because she thought he agreed to marry her out of kindness.
Even then her reactions were criticised as being OTT.

Outburst did not happen straight away.She inquired after everybody and saw that they are up and about and trying to put this behind and get on with their lives.
This happened only after she asked about Ganga and found that she left.
She also reacted to Sumi the same way Jagya and Bhairon did when she heard what Sumi had to say.
She was upset with J and DS because they made themselves responsible to Ganga's well being and they let this happen.Agreed J was not there when Ganga left but DS should have convinced her to stay till it is morning.

It may have been Ganga's decision to leave but DS should have convinced her to stay till morning and made arrangements for her to stay at some place else.Because she has taken it upon herself to look after Ganga.

It is not about blind support to Anandi and Ganga.

I do feel Sumi's line of thinking is not wrong but her taking out her frustrations on Ganga was wrong.

DS and J have a right to take on Ganga and help her stand upon her own two feet and protect her from her menacing husband.But if they have taken the responsibility looking after they should have ensured the safety of their own family too.They failed in that.

Ganga has decided to leave and they are fully right in respecting her decision to leave.But while respecting her decision DS could have convinced Ganga to stay on till morning and found her place to stay still she finds her own feet.

Anandi was right in her outburst against DS and J because they were the ones who brought Ganga to Haweli and took the responsibility for her safety and well being and they failed in that.Jagya is not at fault but at this given point she does not know that J did not have any hand in Ganga's departure.

Allowing a helpless woman that too with a small child leave their home in the middle of the night seems to be a very callous thing to do.So Anandi was right in her outburst.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Right or wrong , one thing is sure

Saanchi will take advantage of the Anandi Sumitra rift .

And yes , Shiv will do the balancing act .

Ira will blame Anandi ...Saanchi will see to it . Everything is exactly the way Saanchi wanted it ...Ganga out , oppotunity to put Anandi out of Sumitra's heart , Jagya alone without Mannu and Ganga .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What about nice moments with dadisa, gehna and good old sumi? Why cant she remember those moments also with fervour? For ganga, the romantic Jagya is more appealing.

It is not such a mahaan thing for a mother to give love to her child. Even animals do that. It is an instinctive behaviour. When an outsider gives some love, it matters. I remember how worried sumi sat with mannu when he had high fever. Jagya's love for mannu. dadisa's and gehna's love for him. Even ratan's parents bringing a tricycle. They are old fashioned and they will always prefer a son. so was dadisa once upon a time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Right or wrong , one thing is sure


Saanchi will take advantage of the Anandi Sumitra rift .

And yes , Shiv will do the balancing act .

Ira will blame Anandi ...Saanchi will see to it . Everything is exactly the way Saanchi wanted it ...Ganga out , oppotunity to put Anandi out of Sumitra's heart , Jagya alone without Mannu and Ganga .



I don't think there will be any rift between Sumi and Anandi that Sanchi can take advantage of. I don't think Sumi will ever encourage Sanchi or will even heed to Sanchi against Anandi.

I hope they show Shiv doing the right balance. He must have learnt something from all the previous failures.. 😆 I so want him to learn to balance his mom and wife.

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