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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

The worst part taking shiv for granted. This the second time she told shiv, let's go away from BH now..it sounded ordering from her. She did not even ask shiv opinion on this. Shiv always gives respect to anandi opinion and discusses with her. Why so much anger with singhs that she has to leave the house immediately. It's true they could have asked Ganga to go in the morning not night. But they did not tell her to leave. Being angry is understandable but why leaving the house in haste. She did not even understand that jagya was nt even there when Ganga left the house. don't know how she became sarpanch with such haste decisions and anger. Every week she comes to BH as if she lives there. I understand her visiting them in this situation but please stop making her involve in everything. Please let anandi be in udaipur and start making her work for NGO's soon. If you had her come to jeytsar every week why wasted so many weeks in shiv transfer drama. Ansh were better in jeytsar solving village problems and singhs too.

Agree... how she takes shiv for granted...😆 Poor fellow, just bec he is humble, it does not mean he should be treated like a puppet in her hand...😆

And anandi can raise her voice only in this haveli... In KB, she would have got a kick from Ira and Sanchi...😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Leaves, I don't think Anandi was OTT. I just watched the episode and her outrage took its natural progression. She arrived at BH, enquired about everyone (including Nandu), verbalized her own distress for them and then only asked where Ganga was. Only when Sumitra blamed Ganga for Rattan Singhs actions did she become upset. Sumitra shows no remorse or even a little pity for Mannu even after Ganga has left. What kind of vindictiveness is that. By her theory, with Ganga's exit, danger has left too, so why is she still so mean.

Anandi got more outraged when she saw Sumitra's anxiety over just a hypothetical situation of Anandi being in Ganga's position.

Talking gently and calmly with Sumitra would not work either. She is past the stage of reason. Even when Jagya arrived back, she was more concerned with feeding him than enquiring about Ganga's whereabouts. At least DS asked, but Sumitra is still so callous. So much venom fOr a defenseless girl. What if some outsider treated her girls the same way. Wouldn't she be a grateful mother if a kind stranger helped her girls and treated them well.
Edited by parri814 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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People must see that Singhs had also gone through trauma and Sumitra had seen her worst fears coming true in front of her eyes! So why don't they deserve polite treatment and understanding?

Sumitra has seen strife all her life and has had her family happy and under the same roof after long. She wants it to remain that way. So her getting hyper over security and losing even "reason" for sake of safety are justified given her past and her age.

And please! Let's not behave like Ganga was kicked out and her stuff was thrown away by Sumitra!

Lastly, blasting Sumitra through everyone will only alienate her further and make her worse. She needs to be handled with tact and not made to feel ashamed in matters related to Ganga. Rudeness only makes her feel she's getting all this due to an "outsider" that is Ganga.

Sumitra isn't being bitchy. She has suffered and seen her near ones suffer fatal attacks. Anyone would go hyper seeing death so up and close!

Anandi was behaving as if Sumitra threw Ganga out! And she said she could "understand" those Ira and Sanchi's outbursts and bitchy behaviour. So why can't she be understanding towards Sumitra and Singhs?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think Anandi was rude and neither was her reaction OTT. Anandi always worries about others. In this situation, she never expected her family would allow Ganga to leave. She probably couldn't believe how her family had become so insensitive esp towards Mannu. What she feared had come true. She had feared that Ganga would take this all on herself and was probably prepared to advise her but was shocked to find out that her family held Ganga responsible for this whole mess.

From what they showed in precap, it didn't seem like she took Shiv for granted. She was upset and she told her husband that she wanted to leave. What was wrong with what she told him. It didn't seem like ordering.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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[B]I don't think it was OTT. Actually Sumitra should understand that what she's done is an injustice to G. If her mother feelings doesn't even want to think Anandi in that situation, how can she be so cold hearted to a girl of similar age?? I know Anandi won't shout easily!! I know that, But hasn't she shouted at Shiv for accepting DS proposal? Plz iam not comparing P anandi here. Iam just saying A shouts too. She did understood what a danger Singh have faced.. She said that G aferall was ready to sacrifice even mannu for Singhs safety. whatever A said was very much right. Sumitra needed someone to bring her back to sense. As of going away from BH disrespecting Shiv, when has been Shiv given the due respect? He's just treated like a good husband material. Shame on you cvs for butchering our Shiv!!! Actually i liked the episode, Sumitra deserved each and every word.[/B
Edited by Sudhaiyer86 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is what i feel

She lost it coz her worst fears came true ...all along she was hoping no one would fault Ganga for the incident , she had confessed her fears to Saanchi before leaving .

Ganga ko koi doshi na thehrahe .

That is one thing ...that exactly that happened . The other thing was the innocent toddler who almost went back to his abuser father and was sort of kicked mercilessly out of the house without anyone even thinking of the basics like his food .

The Singhs r too well bred to 'kick anyone out' but their kicking out means suggestive tight lipped coldness which Ganga read and acted accordingly .

See what Dadisa said ...Samajhdaar hai .

Anandi has been observing a lot of things for a long time for now ...she knew exactly what happened .

Also , she has tremendous sympathy and empathy for the abused since she has gone through it herself .

All this cumulatively led to the outburst

Now what will happen is this

Shiv will be in a very very odd position . Had it been just Anandi's relations he would have been ok with doing namaste and leaving with his emotional wife but now this is gonna be his sister's sasural too . He cannot take sides and miff them , coz Sumitra is gonna be his sister's saas .

And if he leaves agreeing with Anandi , Ira will be very upset and tell Anandi to behave and not be so concerned about an outsider but to focus on nice manners as her daughter will soon join their family and them being upset is NOT ok for her daughter , this awkwardness is not what her daughter needs .

She will berate Shiv for not thinking of his sister but siding with wife blindly ...that is IF Shiv takes sides .

The rifts will now occur . Saanchi will love it . I had said it was good that Anandi did not speak to Sumitra publicly on God Bharaai day . Well she did now , and Saanchi will tell Sumitra with mirch masala about how she understands her and about how Anandi bhabi should not have been so rude .

Sumitra will now be cold to Anandi .

Ira will be cold to Anandi .

Saanchi has put Ganga out of that house now it will be Anandi's turn .




Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is wrong to say that Anandi is just their guest now...they loved her like a daughter...they supported hr like a daughter so even after marriage she remains a daughter...even though Anandi was connected to Singhs because of Jagya she never made emotional relations with Singhs because she was Jagya's wife...Singhs shared a very different relation with Anandi which never got influenced with whatever Jagya did

If Ira or Sumitra shouts at someone we say they are humans and they are anxious but now just because Anandi shouted a someone we say she is OTT and rude...it's not just Anandi who squeaks at her in-laws house but orders at her own maayka...it a story of every girl...we think whatever Singhs did for Anandi for a 'ehsaan' but not Singhs and Anandi...she gave them love of as a daughter and they gave returned that love as her own family...if singhs did so much for Anandi then even Anandi never shyed back to do anything for Singhs...it's was insensitive of Singhs to let Ganga go in night...if they had forced her to stay for so long then can't they force her to stay till next morning...she had a child with her...Ganga was totally burned with guilt so she could not think right but Singhs who took care of her so much and treated her like a daughter could have at least had the courtesy to see that she has a place to go...didn't Singhs got her with their own responsibility then they should at least complete it from their side by sending her safely

Guess what guys i think it's better that for now in BV no one preaches Anandi what to do and what to not especially Shekhars because their own 'sikka' is very 'khota'...no matter however Anandi behaves she has a solid reason to do so...her rude tone to Shiv was odd but i think the anger she was in just got into her tone which made her speak like this...she does not take Shiv for granted.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Libsricks I,have to agree how it is easy to become sherni at maika but billi at inlaws
. 😊 I havent watched todays episode yet. Written update is also not found. Based on this thread Anandi
is angry. So she goes in search of Ganga now?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think her reaction was over the top.

She knew that Ganga was the type who would blame herself and she expected her family to comfort her.

When she came and found that Ganga has left and on top of it they allowed her to go away in the middle of the night with a small baby and naturally she was upset.
She did not expect this kind of callousness from her family.They are not the kind of people who one would allow a helpless woman with a small child to walk away from their home in the middle of the night.They looked after Gauri when ever she came over on of her visits to rub salt in their wounds ,whom they considered as a stranger.If they could be so kind towards Gauri how could they be so callous to a helpless woman like Ganga?

It was more disappointment than anger.Just the way Jagya was disappointed at their behaviour towards Ganga.

One more thing Anandi does see herself in Ganga and saw her as someone whose life was much tougher than hers.She even wanted to take Ganga to her place.But DS and Jagya decided to take her to BH.
She thought Singhs would be just as caring towards Ganga as they have been to her.But obviously especially Sumi thought differently.
Before going off to Udaipur she asked Ganga to look after her family because she found that she and Ganga thought similarly.

Anandi's outburst - Singhs have given her the same rights as Jagya and Suguna.What more Anandi has earned her position as a daughter with her dedication towards them from the time she was a little girl.She moulded herself to fit into this family and to cater to the needs of the entire family.So she is as much the child of Singhs as Suguna and Jagya are.

Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with Koolsadhu that Anandi's worst fear regarding people blaming Ganga for the incident has come true, thats why the outburst. However, I still think that the creatives want to paint Sumitra black to show Ganga more white because soon they have to end Sanchi drama. So a new antagonist is being prepared and viewers are not seeing clear picture. I want to ask what would have been Anandi's reaction if Jagya and Bhairo were in hospital due to grave injuries they sufferd? What if Gahna had had miscarriage, due to her ordeal? (They are deliberately showing everybody hale and hearty because they want to blame Sumi and want to create more sympathy for Ganga.) Would Anandi still have blamed and screamed about Ganga leaving?

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