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Now Anandi is getting more and more worried about the well being Sanchi Jagya alliance which is more or less doomed to fall apart given it's present state of mind of the two individuals involved.
Anandi's belief is that Sanchi Jagya are polls apart and that's why their relationship will not survive.But as Shiv said opposite poles attract and the relationship can work.
Or are they like poles who are being considered as opposite poles?
Or are they two bands of the same spectrum which starts of with one band and ends up with a different band when it is complete?
Or is Sanchi the past form of Jagya which Jagya is trying to leave behind?
Or is Jagya the future form of Sanchi who ended up as some one dead inside and just existing to make amends for his past deeds and has no thoughts for future and which Sanchi should avoid?
Sanchi - Child of a well to do family who was doted upon and bestowed with every good thing in life by her family.She was never ever expected to give back anything in return for all the love and care she got from her family - not even good behaviour.As a result of which the grown up Sanchi expects her family to honour every wish of hers.She sulks and throws tantrums when she does not get her way and refuses to see the point of view of her family.Because nobody in her family ever questioned her or her line of thinking she also ended up being someone whose thinking has not developed enough to look beyond surface.She makes assumptions based on a very superficial examination of things.
In short she is just someone who doesn't think beyond herself and her pleasures and sorrows and goes about trying to get what she wants irrespective of other's feelings no matter who gets hurt and consequences of her actions on her own self.
Sanchi's current state - Now she decided that Jagya is what she wants.She has been intrigued by him even before she met him and probably afer learning that he has been kicked out by the family made him more intriguing for her it must have appealed to her rebellious self.She met him and saw a side of him which she found very appealing and decided that she has to have him.Not once did she think how her life with him would be.To her he just seems like a doll which she can dress up according to her tastes and parade and his family she thinks she can manipulate to suit her wishes as well like they are some dolls.Her entire approach to this seems to be very similar to a doll play.This is how she thinks of her future.
Jagya - brought up by DS who spoilt him and indulged every wish of his which ended up in him becoming a weak minded individual who gets angry hurt and resentful if his wishes are not met because his choice of things and views were never questioned by his doting grand mother he ended up as someone whose perception of life is very shallow and who made decisions based on superficial appearances of things.
Jagya of once upon a time - Combination of the way he viewed things in life and his own selfish nature and his sense of entitlement has lead to his own down fall.He too viewed Anandi and Gauri as toys to be played with and thought they can be tossed away when he is bored with them.But unfortunately or fortunately life decided to toss him around until he learnt his lessons.
Jagya of the present and his state of mind - He considers himself as a failure in every aspect of life be it in his professional life, family life where he failed as a son person life he failed as a man and as a man as well as a human being. A part of him is dead which can never be revived.Now he does not even think of a future for himself.He just exists and tries to make amends for his past by trying to make his parents happy and lessening his guilt with regard his behaviour towards Anandi by trying to do something for Ganga.He also is a much wiser more patient man than before because of all that he has learnt from life
Sanchi's future state of mind and her life- Will it be somewhat similar to that of Jagya's current state?
What will happen if she gets married to Jagya and realises that marriage is no doll play and the price she needs to pay for getting her object of affection is much more than just wearing Gaghra's and try not to trip on them?Will she be able to pay the price and be happy with what she got?
What will happen when she realises that there is lot more to Jagya beyond the surface that she has seen and realises she cannot handle the burden of Jagya's past?What will happen when she realises she made a mistake?What will happen if she realises that she does not have it in her to pay the price?What will happen when Jagya breaks off the marriage?
After this failed relationship with Jagya whether it is an engagement that is called off or a marriage that disintegrated will she end up like Jagya, a walking dead person that he is now who is full of regrets over his past?Jagya now that he has grown stronger than he was before may come off it with less damage than Sanchi.
Shouldn't the respective families especially Shiv and Anandi who know both Jagya and Sanchi very well be thinking about it this way?
Instead of trying to break the alliance shouldn't they let it take it's own course and let everyone realise that Sanchi is the past that Jagya is trying to put behind and Jagya is the future that Sanchi should avoid?
These are my thoughts regarding the reasons why Jagya and Sanchi's alliance is bound to fail not because they are poles apart but they are two forms where one form has evolved from the other form.
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