Lovely post arparna đ đ...
The last points on saachi are so good ..they are really the question that every girl should think before getting married on their own wish .
Yes jagiya and saachi are not poles apart ..when it comes to their upbringing ..their views in their age are same ..i mean when jagiya was at age of saachi ..jagiya was same thinking person as saachi doing now .to some extent Saachi is even good at manipulating and cunning where jagiya was not ..because may be he didn't learn of manipulating things he is village grown up boy .
sometimes if i see saachi ..and her thoughts of doing things i feel like aww this girl so brave and challenging like dadisa đ...but all her plus points that indulged in her she is doing it for a wrong person ..at wrong place ..Sacchi's attitude is like All fair in love and war đ..and she is proceeding in that way .
but will she achieve or get anything with this marriage nothing ..the reality hits on the first night of marriage itself ..
Jagidish who saw almost everything in life ,he has been called as husband from the age of 8.. whether willingly or unwillingly he did all the works that a husband should do at very young age .
when they grow up as teenagers they are given a life of married status ..in that age where feeling and mind develops ..they are sent in to married life ..
and jagiya had most happiest moments with anadi ...next he entered college where if he say he is married he would treated as gawar ..he got to explore new things new life ..his way of life ..where their is no one on his head to teach him what should do what shouldn't do ..
he did go against his family married to another girl ..on feeling that he was betrayed by total family on the decision marriage ..which is another failure in his life ..finally he came back to his family after so many insults society and betrayals by his lover .
Now he wants nothing in his life ..literally nothing ..he want a peaceful life ..where their are no excitements of something adventurous..mingle with new people ..Nothing like new married person do ..he wants a life where his life partner too don't expect anything from him..just to share a normal life with him .
if we count the jagiya married life he had this husband tag for about 20 years ..and with in 5 years he would celebrating silver jublie with anadi if everything goes well by now ..what would be expect from a married person who is about to celebrate a silver jublie of his husband status soon ..
where as saachi ..totally opposite to the expectations that jagdish has..tomorrow saachi will be devastated by seeing her married life ..she is a girl with full of life ..she wants to explore so many things and have so many colorful thoughts on life ..if you remember saachi's dream dance with jagdish ..how romantic was that ..those are her dreams on life ..and here jagdish not even close to that area..
He expects a partner who is practical..expects nothing much from him..making his life easy by making good relationships with his family..a girl who can mingle with his family with out coming to him saying something against his family on daily bases because he is not in a position to leave his family for wife or not in a mood to change his wife according to his family .
so saachi will be suffering from this marriage ..with her arrogance and lacking of common sense she is about make her life like hell .even though she changes her selves for jagiya ..she will not be the same bubbly happy girl any more .
Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago