Jagya Sanchi ...are they really poles apart? - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi will almost become a psycho if the marriage breaks or this allance breaks. She is a sociopath.
Jagia, even if he was selfish was Never a sociopath. if this allance breaks Jagia and Singh family
Will be saved. Anandi may have some problem. But she has to face it for meddling with J's life in
Forcing him to agree for marriage. But Shiv is on her side. So Ira will not be more than a tooth ache.
She should be able to handle it with her people skills. Sanchi better breaks now than after wedding.
If she breaks now, there is a chance she an be corrected and her life rectified. So it is in the
Interest of evety one that this alliance should break.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aparna - Excellent thought provoking post by u dear 👏
Yeah .. J - S are poles apart .. esp. due to S's thoughts and behavior .. 😎
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Posted: 12 years ago
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a nice thought provoking post..😊...

they are similar in some manners and completely different in others..😛

lets see what is in store for us...😊
Edited by HemaG - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aparna, very thought provoking and well articulated post.
What I think Sanchi is the past form of Jagya in many aspects, infact similarities between the two are much more than the few differences.
The i, me , myself was his nature also. He was also self centered, many a times rude, For his own interst he used Anandi like anything. If he would have just left Anandi that would not be considered such a big crime but he shattered Anandi's self esteem, made her believe that she is useless, the way he abused Anandi is nothing what Sanchi did to Ganga, Anandi and others. Jagya told Sumitra to throw away Anandi as he has married to Gouri and the same Jagya ran after Anandi for financial help and what not.
Both were spoilt by overpampering. They always got whatever they wanted , Thanks to DS and Shekhars.
The way Sanchi has been shown hating villagers, Jagya has also shown ashamed of having a village background and for that he changed his name, introduced Anandi as distant relative , misbehaved with his friends.
Still Jagya has been shown having attachment for his family which is definitely more than what Sanchi has and many times he was not bad at heart but his attachment vanishes when it hurts his own interest, That time he shouts on everyone- be it Anandi, his father, his mother, his friends even misbehaved with Bhago and Khajan.
But definitely Sanchi is champion in this but still she also has been shown nice to Daddu, Mahi, CM etc, but shouts when they come in front of her happiness. But if the elders can raise voice she keeps quiet though that cant change her mentality. This is the biggest blunder of Sherkars that they never voiced their opininon in front of her and always bowed down in front of her unreasonable demands.
DS did the same thing with Jagya and becoz of DS others also kept mum.
In Badi Massi time he behaved like that as he has soft corner for his family and in his subconcious mind he never actually got over of Anandi. Moreover that time his marriage with Gouri was already on rocks, He was jobless. So he was so reluctant even to go back and give his exam . By that time his infatuation was almost over but cant accept that .
So definitely that are not poles apart but both have some dissimilarities, But no wonder the way Jgya spoilt his whole life and understood the values of everything, Sanchi will also realize one day, Only the question is who is going to do that
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Appy - A very intriguing and a thought provoking post
Yes Saanchi is definitely a lot like I, me, myself J of younger days and has been pampered to no extent by her family members
But J did value his relationships much more than Sa does...his inherent weakness was that he could get influenced by anybody easily...thats y in the childhood he got into gambling and lied so much to his parents and the way he behaved with his family and A after G1 entering his life was basically the effect of the femme fatale G1..after he decided to come back to them for good, he has stayed true to his family...became of good son, professional life got stablisied by running his hospital even though he is broken within - for that matter even in his revenge from A phase - he treated the patients suffering from swine flu and did not promote unethical stuff and quit the hospital when he was in Mumbai - so even in his 'Jagat' phase, there were parts of him which still had compassion...as much as I hate Jagat...he is still better than Sa
As against that Sa does not have basic sense of behaviour, is mannerless and is shallow and has a one up thing out of her own accord - she was not influenced by anyone - whatever she does is her own decision, her own happiness, there is no third person involved in it
So I would still say that more than being two forms of the same pole, they are more of poles apart kind...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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At a certain point of time jagya was like sanchi in some ways but now jagya's priorities have changed, sanchi is full of life where as jagya is quite happy to have stability and slower pace in life. Family is more important to him he mess up bad and doesn't want to hurt them. Sanchi might mess it up for him if she doesn't change her attitude and realise its not all about her.

I actually thought the molestation incident might change sanchi slightly but it didnt. Not actually sure what would make her change to realise the importance of relationships and become mature instead of her importance for material things.

Sanchi is definitely educated but she lacks common sense and life and social skills. Shekkars kept her in a bubble with their pampering.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely post arparna 👏 👏...

The last points on saachi are so good ..they are really the question that every girl should think before getting married on their own wish .

Yes jagiya and saachi are not poles apart ..when it comes to their upbringing ..their views in their age are same ..i mean when jagiya was at age of saachi ..jagiya was same thinking person as saachi doing now .to some extent Saachi is even good at manipulating and cunning where jagiya was not ..because may be he didn't learn of manipulating things he is village grown up boy .

sometimes if i see saachi ..and her thoughts of doing things i feel like aww this girl so brave and challenging like dadisa 😆...but all her plus points that indulged in her she is doing it for a wrong person ..at wrong place ..Sacchi's attitude is like All fair in love and war 😛..and she is proceeding in that way .

but will she achieve or get anything with this marriage nothing ..the reality hits on the first night of marriage itself ..

Jagidish who saw almost everything in life ,he has been called as husband from the age of 8.. whether willingly or unwillingly he did all the works that a husband should do at very young age .
when they grow up as teenagers they are given a life of married status ..in that age where feeling and mind develops ..they are sent in to married life ..

and jagiya had most happiest moments with anadi ...next he entered college where if he say he is married he would treated as gawar ..he got to explore new things new life ..his way of life ..where their is no one on his head to teach him what should do what shouldn't do ..

he did go against his family married to another girl ..on feeling that he was betrayed by total family on the decision marriage ..which is another failure in his life ..finally he came back to his family after so many insults society and betrayals by his lover .

Now he wants nothing in his life ..literally nothing ..he want a peaceful life ..where their are no excitements of something adventurous..mingle with new people ..Nothing like new married person do ..he wants a life where his life partner too don't expect anything from him..just to share a normal life with him .

if we count the jagiya married life he had this husband tag for about 20 years ..and with in 5 years he would celebrating silver jublie with anadi if everything goes well by now ..what would be expect from a married person who is about to celebrate a silver jublie of his husband status soon ..

where as saachi ..totally opposite to the expectations that jagdish has..tomorrow saachi will be devastated by seeing her married life ..she is a girl with full of life ..she wants to explore so many things and have so many colorful thoughts on life ..if you remember saachi's dream dance with jagdish ..how romantic was that ..those are her dreams on life ..and here jagdish not even close to that area..

He expects a partner who is practical..expects nothing much from him..making his life easy by making good relationships with his family..a girl who can mingle with his family with out coming to him saying something against his family on daily bases because he is not in a position to leave his family for wife or not in a mood to change his wife according to his family .

so saachi will be suffering from this marriage ..with her arrogance and lacking of common sense she is about make her life like hell .even though she changes her selves for jagiya ..she will not be the same bubbly happy girl any more .
Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago

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