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The thing is Anandi needed not to give bio data of Sanchi to Singhs and Jagaya She was not expecting Jagaya will say yes because he does not have any feelings for Sanchi neither holds much great views about her but Anandi doesn't have this much common sense to understand this Singhs will come under pressure to take a decision as Shekhars are her sasural? Anandi belongs to traditional house hold seen Singhs years going through this maika sasural logics this should be common sense to her They obviously will not want her in any sort of trouble Anandi was no one to choose bride for Jagaya she was no one also to force him agree to marriage but here the issue is not this the issue is what happened to her sense of understanding ? Why this thought didn't even cross her mind ? It was her duty to clear it to her family take whatever decision take it thinking about your son not about me I will be fine This would have been enough confidence for Singhs They would have kept in their mind they can keep a No option to this proposal as well .Only think about their son Think about his decision and life not her but Anandi didn't even bother to think about this Then i will count that her fault Anyhow she had to convey this message to her family For that she need not to be spoon fed it will be common sense to any person in her place
Jagaya came down with questioning eyes to her she needed not to tell him anything about Sanchi is not suitable for him but with her bent down head and guilty eyes what she was trying to prove to him ? She was not jumping with joy gesturing him Sanchi is perfect for you but whenever he looked at her she looked down showing herself helpless she actually proved to him if you didn't say yes i will land in trouble i have compromised with this situation What can person assume from her this action ? Why she need to do this i still cannot understand Try to understand for once what he wants to know from you and try to gesture him accordingly or you will show yourself in extremely bechari mode i am sorry like my happiness is at stake That was biggest goof up she did and why she did that i don't understand The person standing in front of you looks completely broken from every angle and under loads of pressure and she herself has been forced to marriage as well she should have understood him and responded him accordingly but she was showing herself helpless 😕
and now when the things have gone to alliance fixed she has got guts in her to raise her voice but again her choice of words are wrong Instead of giving lectures on how different life style is of Sanchi she should be telling to Sumitra Jagaya doesn't look happy at all with this proposal etc at least this would be pricking the heart of the mother and she should be giving one thought to her son too To Shekhars she should also will be telling this Jagaya looks like being forced into this proposal he doesn't look happy at all Jagaya was not even smiling properly He indeed looked depressed , broken , forced . Hearing Anandi's words they would have gone into thinking Jagaya's emotions which they ignored didn't anyalse They would now be analyzing yes he is not happy all They would have to reconsider this proposal and talk with Jagaya and Singhs again
It is true the adults are biggest failures here but Anandi was in many places disappointing as well
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