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Posted: 12 years ago
#11
I think Alok was completely helpless and lost. That question to Khajan was completely useless. Even Alok was aware of that but he did it out of helplessness. Even if Khajan had answered, it would not have been of any use.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian



No sheets this time...khajan is directly involved cause...it was his daughter that he gave away to jagya. Jagya was his Jamai.

Singhs ..cannot be asked this question in that sense cause ...they were anandis sasra. Jagdesh is their son.

Usually I am always defending singhs that they raised anandi , they are her parents but this particular situation, bhairav cannot relate with alok. Only khajan could.

Disgusting ... Ira should be ashamed...it's one thing to have a bad ...natured child and one thing tobow down to their wishes,

Had singhs bowed down to jagyas wishes, anandi would be sitting in the kitchen , raising gauris child and watching Rasleela of jagya and gauri.

Had signs gone with what jagya wanted , he would have never changed. He would never realize the worth of what he had lost and how much family is important.

No they stood by what is right ...even if it meant to go against their own son. And that is why they are thousand times better than shekars.


That is why no matter how out of character Sumi looks right now, her inert nature is that she will stand up for what is right. And that is choosing Ganga and or agreeing that she is good for her son.

And she is a class apart from Ira. I still remember how Sumi stopped anandi from putting sindoor in her mang. That took guts in her part.
How dadisa said to file a case against jagya
How bhairav cut off everything from his own son.

How basant and gehna stood behind anandi turning against their own blood...not to mention sugna, who tied rakhi to her then bhabi, but refused to recognize that right for jagya...

They ...stood by what is right, even. If it meant cutting their son off and shekars othe other hand including shiv...!!!!!! Is supporting Sanchi in his wrong doing.

Again anandi , once again stands alone.

I am dissapointed in shiv the most.

Shiv cannot do anything here. When he can marry a divorcee than why cannot saanchi do the same thing. As shiv said if left saanchi alone she will make a mockery of their famliy infront of sings. She is an adult and no one can force her. Shiv thinks its one side and jagya will reject the rista. He said the same thing to anandi. Dont forget how much shiv supported anandi and singhs till now. Like anandi shiv also had to face lot of jagya and singhs natanki just that he loves anandi. Everyone has weakness and shiv's weakness is his sister. Even anandi weakness is singh family.
Dont forget DS did hurt anandi by allowing gauri and jagya in haveli for sometime. Shekhars cannot throw saachi from the house just bcos she loves jagya. I do agree alok asking khajaan about jagya was stupid and he himself was ashamed to do that. If shekhars dont agree saanchi is capable of committing suicide or running to BH for jagya. Best way was asking jagya opinion and set things right.
Now its upto jagya and no one should force him to marry saanchi.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13
Why blame sekhars have anandi ever drawn a line btwn ex in law a
and her pyara .sa ex husband jagya she has always given priority to jagya s problem and badi haveli and sekhars have never taken offense if anandi does not feel awakward in running to her paheli pati ka ghar thenwhy should aloke be blamed.kh talks biradari of sanchi andjagya shadi but Mr biological father where is ur daughter s biradari concern when she cries for jagya leaving and drops ktori for jagya in hospital pahele bet
i ka akal thikane karo phir gyan bato
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Why blame sekhars have anandi ever drawn a line btwn ex in law a
and her pyara .sa ex husband jagya she has always given priority to jagya s problem and badi haveli and sekhars have never taken offense if anandi does not feel awakward in running to her paheli pati ka ghar thenwhy should aloke be blamed.kh talks biradari of sanchi andjagya shadi but Mr biological father where is ur daughter s biradari concern when she cries for jagya leaving and drops ktori for jagya in hospital pahele bet
i ka akal thikane karo phir gyan bato


There might be some truth to what you are saying ...but her concern for jagya is note cause she loves him or that she dreams of him or that she thinks why shiv is in her life ? Or is fantasizing about jagya instead of shiv.

She has concerns for him as a friend and someone whom she shared her childhood with. To bond will never go away.
But once she realised she loves shiv...she has always given shiv and his family priority. Ding everything for them...and thinking about them always. She even wanted to come back to udaipur but it was due to Sanchi she had to stay.

Sheis not in touch with jagya as much as she was before.

The blame lies on dear shekars cause... Do they not realize that the man they want to tie their daughter to once was their Daughter in laws husband
??? Husband of 16 years!!!

Shiv did not Marry the wife of his brother ...he married some girl with whom he has no ties.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#15
But sheets they are not asking jagya opinion... They are taking rishta ...asking opinion is one thing and taking rishta is another. That means they are OK with this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16
I understand that in certain cultures, such marriages are common.

I guess...personally I am not ok with it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

But sheets they are not asking jagya opinion... They are taking rishta ...asking opinion is one thing and taking rishta is another. That means they are OK with this.

Shekhars too think its one sided love and asking directly to singhs they want jagya to reject the rista.
What does it matter if they ask singhs or directly jagya. Its the same. More than shekhars I am angry on sumitra for trying to convince jagya to marry saanchi. According to synopis she does that. She is the mother of anandi and should think how she will feel. When sumitra does not care about anandi feelings what can you expect from shekhars who knew about anandi from few months. Sumitra is so selfish suddenly only thiking about her son. Both singhs and shekhars have made mistakes in raising their children saanchi and jagya. Like jagya saanchi will be reformed one day.

Both families are more modern than western countries.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

I understand that in certain cultures, such marriages are common.


I guess...personally I am not ok with it.

I am against these marriages as it is such awkward feeling btw the couples. Even shiv said its weird to think about jagya saanchi rista. i am going to skip this week and next week saanchi drama.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19
@sheets yeah agreed. If SUmitra does not care then what can we expect of Shekars.
Well said. Seems like I am going to skip too. I cannot handle this nonsense .
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Posted: 12 years ago
#20
i'm sorry i dont agree with you, the shekars are victims of their own broadmindedness. you cant blame them for believing that everybody should get a second chance to life. this is the chance they gave Anandi, without thinking what society would say about it. when they approved shivs marriage to Anandi they never for once thought what society would say about it, how can you expect them to think like Khazan 'Singh,
they are not happy with the prospect that Sanshi has chosen for herself, and they know that she is going to regret it all if she marries jagdish. but right now she thinks she will only be happy married to jagdish.
Sanchi is putting on an act of being nice, and ammiable, and accepting. but its an act, and even if the others in the family dont see it Dadi sa will diffinetly see through it. and she will know by the looks on Alok and Irra face that they are speeking about sanshi and jagdish's proprosal out of durass. and she will also think about how it will effect Anandi, if things dont work out. and i'm sure that even though jagdish may have a soft spot for sanchi, and indulgues her, he will not want her for his life partner.
he will diffinetly consult with Anandi, and Anandi will tell him her truthfull openion. Sanchi is going to get hurt. but in the process is going to cause her family a lot of embrassement. and i feel sory for them.
but i hope she learns her lesson. and respects her family more.

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