Anandi should yell? 4 different options

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Right now there are so many posts that Anandi should take a stand and I am like NOPE now is not the time for her to say anything. She has no right. All she can do right now is go home asap and get back to shiv.

She is in really tough situation

Ira and Sanchi hate right now. They are going to do everything to make her life miserable

Scenario 1: Anandi tells Sanchi lets go home and forces her to go home. Sanchi goes home tells Ira how badly Anandi treated her there and how she wanted tospend time with the man who saved but Anandi could nto see her happy and want her to be a good person rather she wants only her to be mahan and want no one to take the credit that they can also be good to the singhs. She only wants them to see how good she can be and no one else.

Ira yells at Anandi and gets more Angry.

Scenario 2.

Anandi yells at Sanchi that she should nto speak like that. Sanchi goes home crying to Ira says Anandi insulted her in front of the entire family and supported someone else and not her own family member.

Result Ira yells at Anandi

Scenario 3

Anandi tells Shiv about Sanchi and Jagya.

Shiv confronts and Sanchi denies getting scared and Ira tells Shiv how she is a bad person and wants to break the family and she probably did that before that is why a good person like jagya got away from her

Result; Anandi insulted and portrayed as a lier

Scenario 4

Anandi does exactly what she is doing right now. Be silent.

Sanchi goes ahead with telling jagya bout her love. jagya rejects. Sanchi cries ...tells Ira.

Ira blames Anandi saying how come you didn't tell her that this was going on. Shiv gets angry that why didn't Anandi confide in him and gets upset with her. Anandi is left disgruntled again.

Result: Ira has to deal with the problem that sanchi is in love with jagya herself and not count on Anandi. cause she will realize that Anandi does not want this marriage to happen. She will do everything to make sure this marriage happens and in the process learn the truth about what exactly did happen to Anandi and Jagya's relationship and eventually feel like the idiot she is and apologize.

Shiv will support Anandi that, yes I was upset that she didn't confide but at least she did not jump into any conclusions and start making decisions. Rather she is doing what she was expected to do ... stay away and let the elders handle it. and let jagya decide to as who he really wants to spend his life from.

Result: everything will be solved.

So in my pov... right nwo Anandi remaining silent is the best way to handle this situation. Until Gauri comes and the past of Jagya comes out, his real other 6 sides of him come out... nothing will be clear. They have to know why Jagya and Anandi actually separated. Specially ira to trust Anandi again.

So basically that trust crap that Ira was talking about will happen now when Anandi will remain silent and that is when Shiv will be upset. BUt its better than being called a lier and backstabber when shei s not.

my pov

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Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

This is another post I wrote about this point and it elaborates on the above mentioned scenarios

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I do not think Anandi will say anything and yes this might upset Shiv cuase he will be like why didn't she think she could trust him but, what will she say?

I think your siste ris hitting on my ex?

thats soo pathetic and sanchi , ira are already sooo vicious right now.. so its very likely possible that Sanchi and Ira would turn against Anandi and make shiv turn against her too saying look how she is lying about her own nanad in such a dirty way.

I am glad she is shutting up right now. No use talking about this nonsense unless sanchi herself breaks the news.

Then she can get away saying , yes i knew it but I was not sure. I suspected.

Then shiv would like why didnt you tell me nad be angry and ira would be like look how she made a fool of us .. and broke ur trust yada yada..

buts thats ok, cause regardless ira would be negative towards her. And if anything said earlier then it coudl just get worse. Silence is better now. Its better than being called a lier.

Its better she stays away from this and let shiv and his family handle this. She can be like its not my problem. Let jagya decide and I am sure Jagya would decide for Ganga.

Then Ira would be having a problem that , if Annadi would have said good then Jagya would have chosen Sanchi and this way she ruined her daughter's life.

And sanchi would hate her even more.

SO no matter WHAT and Where you look Anandi is in deep trouble cause of Sanchi and Ira. They are out to get her and that they will do no matter what.

If she is silent at least this way Shiv will later support her that yes, its not Anandi's decision its Jagya's and what can she say. Its not her life its his. So its a bit better.

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Only when gauri comes, then the situation is going to get solved.

Ira will realize jagya was before and now he is a changed man. So she would change her pov.

Until then its better to be patient and wait.

Right now her situation is

Agay kua peechay khaayi...

but the kua is not that deep... so she can still swim out and live due to her silence.

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timepass

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Posted: 12 years ago

There is a fifth option too

Anandi should CALL Shiv and tell him to come and get her...Shiv will come...Anandi will be so ready to go with Shiv but Saachi would want to stay...this time Anandi will not stay back for the sake of Saachi...Anandi should go back with Shiv and let Saachi decide if she wants to stay alone with Singhs...that way, Shekhers will not hold Anandi responsible because Shiv went to go get them and Saachi decided to not come...

Anandi is staying back at Haveli just because Saachi wanted to take care of Jagya...Anandi wants to go back...to be with SHIV...

Can she not do this?????

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dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

Suchi: I agree that Anandi will be quiet and the bharosa thoding moment of Ira is going to come true. AnSh will have a MU.

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But, I don't agree with your scenario 3. I wrote this in the other thread also..

Why should Shiv just confront Sanchi ? Can he and Anandi not come up with a plan ? Anandi need not tell her decision that Sanchi is in love with Jagya. She just needs to give Shiv a hint that Sanchi might be in love with Jagya. There is a difference in the scenario. There is no need to tell Shiv that everything is fine and Sanchi is gul-milgayi with everyone in BH. Why lie about the situation ? Why can't she tell that she doubts Sanchi has feelings for Jagya and tell him that she is wearing Lehenga and cooking kheer for Jagya.

Anandi as a character is always known to do the right thing and not be afraid of anybody. So, why know make her scared of Ira and Sanchi ?

Shiv has always been supportive of Anandi. If she tells him, they together can find a solution to the problem and there will be no mistrust between them.

I know I am being way too realistic and this is BV but I want AnSh to act like this. CVs are wasting them in midst of this Sanchi drama.

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Snceario 1 and 2 definitely NOT happening.

I don't think Sanchi will get rejected by Jagya. For some reason I fell that Sanchi's Elaan-E -Ishq will happen in front of the Shekhars.. 😆 then Anandi will not get blamed for knowing and not telling them.. 😳

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sheenug

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Posted: 12 years ago

Dear Suchi, i know u wrote all the probabilities that might happen with her in her in laws place with her if she takes a stand against Sanchi. Even right now she is behaving in the exact same way as u wrote.

But my question is that Anandi is always portrayed as a sacrificing girl who stand against injustice under any circumstances. Then how comes in this situation when one women (Sanchi) is behaving wrong with another women (Ganga) she is being quite. Anandi is not a kind of a person who thinks about herself. Infact in the past she never cared about herself and gone out of her way to help others.

I'm not saying that she should reveal Sanchi's attraction towards Jagya to Shiv's family. I'm just saying that she must stop Sanchi not to misbehave with poor Ganga. Sanchi is behaving like Ganga is a servant to Singh's. Even servants gets treated better.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

She should sheenug.. and she might but.. honestly.. she will get in huge trouble for that.

Sanchi is very vicious.. and the sad part is no one is in her side at this moment.

Anandi used to be like this always. She never spoke against family, even when they are wrong. DS, Basant, Gehna (during the nandu thing), Sumitra during that nandu thing, of course Jagya .. Gauri's attack on her ..

She always shut up and if she were to go and tell something to sanchi now I would see that to be a different approach.

I am nto saying what she is doing is right.. or wrong. I am saying she is weighing out the possibilities.

Let her..

Jagya should support Ganga.. and stop sanchi, that would be more of a better thing to do than Anandi butting in.

I am really upset about Sanchi treating Ganga like crap, Anandi speaking against her will only escalate the matter. Jagya should stop Sanchi. He never (99%) of the time stopped Gauri when she badmouthed Anandi. Now its his turn to find out whats happening and react accordingly.

I am sure he will and only that will stop sanchi. She needs to hear it from Jagya himself that she is not all that. And he is not interested in her.

Anandi getting in will surely mess things for her. I think she will stand up for jagya and ganga wedding .. but not tell off sanchi by words.

This will surely piss Ira and sanchi off big time. We are in for a HUGE show down.

Shiv tho I have no hopes really. He is good but its his first marriage and he has not learnt to balance between mom and wife yet. Wife is like him so he is not having issues. If wife was like sanchi, he would have to split his house by now.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

@nivi if the elan e ishq happens in front of shekars then half problems will be solved but even then , Anandi will be blamed cause, she knows and suspects such behavior.

She is in DEEEPPP mud. No way out for her... this or that way she will get blamed.

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Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: timepass
There is a fifth option too

Anandi should CALL Shiv and tell him to come and get her...Shiv will come...Anandi will be so ready to go with Shiv but Saachi would want to stay...this time Anandi will not stay back for the sake of Saachi...Anandi should go back with Shiv and let Saachi decide if she wants to stay alone with Singhs...that way, Shekhers will not hold Anandi responsible because Shiv went to go get them and Saachi decided to not come...

Anandi is staying back at Haveli just because Saachi wanted to take care of Jagya...Anandi wants to go back...to be with SHIV...

Can she not do this?????

she can.. then it will fall under the scene i said. Sanchi will cry...tell Ira that Anandi just wants to be with Shiv. She does not care abotu how sanchi feels. That whole mahanta Angle will be brought out.

Anandi is just waiting... .. for instructions. In the end she can simply say.. I did what you told me.

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andv

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Posted: 12 years ago

Suchi you have presented very interesting scenarios that would crop up from this 'Sachiviciousness'. I agree with you, A is behaving in her character. Although she stood up against wrong in the outside world she did take things a little cool when it came to family. The main problem that A has is that she will keep mum when the problem starts and only takes an initiative when things are blown out of proportion. Why wait till then when the the issue can be tackled in its infancy itself? Its best that people learn from their past mistakes and not repeat it again. But this seems to be her inherent character which will be difficult to correct (all the same it should be changed).

From all the scenarios that you have presented here, the conclusion is A falling in trouble. Hence at least in my viewpoint I would rather have her take the right step and fall in trouble than letting things take their natural course and reach another level all together. If she confides in Shiv he will surely understand. There are always ways of saying it and Sachi's idiocies are not alien to S either.

With regard to Sachi's behavior towards Ganga, its A who should correct her or stop her. G is a guest in A's house, so is Sachi. A is the link between the Singhs and Sachi hence Sachi's tantrums cannot be corrected by the Singhs, it is A who should strongly correct her. Sachi will not yell back at A, that's for sure, if A is stern. I am not saying that it is A's duty to discipline Sachi but in A's house, if Sachi is misbehaving she being the closet relation to her, needs to correct her and that too sternly. People like Sachi only voice themselves when they know that the opposite person will not retaliate. See the way she behaves with S or Alok. Sachi has been given a very loose rope and she is misusing it as we see in the precap. In my opinion the best way to stop all this tamasha is to go back to Udaipur. Her talking to S and asking him to pick them up will be the best option in my opinion. But the CVs will continue to show illogical tracks and situations just to complicate relationships...

Edited by andv - 12 years ago

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MaxMayfield

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Very interesting post Suchi😊...but I too disagree with the scenario 3...

My problem is that the strength of Ansh lies in discussing everything and being super transparent and striving to get a solution - they could discuss about J still being in love with A too...How uncomfortable would have that been for A and S both, but A dint hide it from S...even her not being able to move ahead in her marriage with S, she eventually did tell him!! As against those issues, Saanchi problem is not that huge to me...Ansh can come up with a solution together for this...but both A and S are on some other tangent...It would be better for A to solve this right away, instead of waiting and watching, atleast introspect about talking to S about it <<where she is not even thinking about informing him or getting his viewpoint>> n S's antenna is in the wrong direction...he hasnt even realised that Saanchi has fallen for J!!

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