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Nandita / Tina

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: dixie123
Tina

I agree Ira didn't do a good job there. But, I feel she reacted the way she did because of how it was presented to her by Sanchi and UD. Presentation makes a hell lot of difference.

The last time too when Ira interfered in their personal life, Anandi was being accused. He didn't lose his cool and explained to her calmly and still conveyed to her that he was hurt. That is the maturity that Shiv is supposed to have which was lacking this time. He had a chance to explain to his family the entire situation in a sensible manner. He hid this thing himself from them. So, there is some explanation he owes them too. He can't just say that I am cool with it and so I want you guys to be cool with it too after all this drama. He was supposed to convince them and make them understand when his mom was accusing his wife that his wife was not wrong and not order them to not disrespect his wife. That is not done in my pov.

Yes.. for Ira now she is being a typical insecure MIL who is feeling that she is losing her son to his wife. Most of the times, it is the son's responsible for this kind of insecurity and the DILs get blamed for this.

Nivi I get where you are coming from.yes, I agree that it is Shiv & Shiv alone who has to calm & put balm on Ira nobody else can do that. I know mom & son will kiss & make up & Aji will shed a few tears standing behind the uncertain curtains 😛 happy walla tears 😳 Drama re 😆

But part in bold ...she is quite aware of Sanchi's masala treatment so why did she fall for it. Last time when Shiv had told her & explained her clearly she shd have kept that in mind. Just my POV .

Shiv was really mad & angry & hurt that's why he reacted that way...he was royally pissed so he ordered ...it has gone too far ...he has been polite for too long never really said harshly not even to Sanchi ...he was mad at SAnchi ...so he had to yell & explain his pOv to his folks. Nobody is abusing her in FUTURE... then you know whom to answer. 👏

He has set the record straight . I'm so glad he showed his BB ...enuff patiently explaining now Ira will not hit pendulum at the drop of a hat ...try to listen & then react.

I abs agree that he owes an apology and explanation to his mom but at that time Aji needed his support & he did give her that. 👍🏼

Now they (ira & Shiv) can have a rational conversation...Shiv abs could see through Sanchi😡 so he told her clearly...misunderstanding create karna bahut aasan hai... try to nurture relationships. ❤️

Shiv abs does not deserve a noble piss prize for this yell-o-thon😛 ...just my 5cents

Bye

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Amazing collage of last two days episode with beautiful commentary. Loved it. And I am with you and others - Shiv was totally justified and to the point. I lost respect for Ira in this episode for her unjustified and insensitive outbursts to her own DIL in front of an outsider.

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: 5cents

Nivi I get where you are coming from.yes, I agree that it is Shiv & Shiv alone who has to calm & put balm on Ira nobody else can do that. I know mom & son will kiss & make up & Aji will shed a few tears standing behind the uncertain curtains 😛 happy walla tears 😳 Drama re 😆

But part in bold ...she is quite aware of Sanchi's masala treatment so why did she fall for it. Last time when Shiv had told her & explained her clearly she shd have kept that in mind. Just my POV .

Shiv was really mad & angry & hurt that's why he reacted that way...he was royally pissed so he ordered ...it has gone too far ...he has been polite for too long never really said harshly not even to Sanchi ...he was mad at SAnchi ...so he had to yell & explain his pOv to his folks. Nobody is abusing her in FUTURE... then you know whom to answer. 👏

He has set the record straight . I'm so glad he showed his BB ...enuff patiently explaining now Ira will not hit pendulum at the drop of a hat ...try to listen & then react.

I abs agree that he owes an apology and explanation to his mom but at that time Aji needed his support & he did give her that. 👍🏼

Now they (ira & Shiv) can have a rational conversation...Shiv abs could see through Sanchi😡 so he told her clearly...misunderstanding create karna bahut aasan hai... try to nurture relationships. ❤️

Shiv abs does not deserve a noble piss prize for this yell-o-thon😛 ...just my 5cents

Bye

Tina: I don't understand why you are saying he owes an apology to his mom. On one hand you are saying he didn't do any wrong, why say sorry for something he didn't do wrong ?

Or are you saying he said what he said in the heat of the moment and then he will realize what he did and say sorry ?

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timepass

@timepass

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Wow TINA 😊...tussi great ho...awesome post 👏

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palpal15

@palpal15

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Tina nice post.

Loved that Sjee stood up for Ajee.😊

Though felt he was bit harsh at end.

Poor Ajee ppl r so mean to her.😡

Was very disappointed in the way Ira conducted herself throughout this blamefest. 😡

Hope Sjee succeeds in Mom Manao mission.

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Good post Tina...shiv raj shekhar always stands for truth and he will never disappoint his anandijee...

Hope he will make his mom realize her mistake and also let her know that he still loves her a lot.

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Nandita / Tina

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: dixie123

Tina: I don't understand why you are saying he owes an apology to his mom. On one hand you are saying he didn't do any wrong, why say sorry for something he didn't do wrong ?

Or are you saying he said what he said in the heat of the moment and then he will realize what he did and say sorry ?

Nivi, He owes an apology for hiding the truth or not informing his family about DS before the wedding when Anandi had told him about it. This is exactly what he told Aji later in the room ...aapka tareka hee sahi thaa😃 ...problem ko tabhi suljha dena chaheye thaa. He understood that it was not right to have shoved it under the rug.

But his telling harshly (if u consider it yelling😉) was in response to Ira's insane & inhuman attack la BV & divorcee😡. I so liked him for protecting his wife in front of his family...it gave Aji the required self confidence (I feel she still lacks it a bit at times😛). He stood by his wife at her time of need in his paradise & I applaud him for that👍🏼 . He abs gets and understands her insecurities...she feels she is a lesser mortal 😭 ... Ira kinda reinforced that so he had to immediately start the damage control ...otherwise she would have gone back in her shell. If you still feel he should have explained his mom patiently ...I feel he has done it enuff number of times so his outburst in wittily incisive manner was necessary this time so that this will never be repeated in future. Ira will think twice now before attacking Aji.

Yes, I certainly feel she ATTACKED AJI which she had no right to in front of a stranger. She very well knew that her son LOVES Aji so whatever was the basis of marriage is irrelevant in present. She shd have shooed Urmi devi and stared her investigation. 😊

If Shiv did not inform them before that was mistake so Ira's attack was also a big mistake so both are at fault. hence if Shiv owes an apology so does Ira which she said 😉.

Now look at Ira height of insensitivity...Anandi per kuch jyada hee bharosa karte ho ...vo jaab tumhara vishwash todegi then u'll know. blah now what kind of a statement is this from a mom? She wants her DIL to break her son's dil ...gwrad! EGO!

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jazz89

@jazz89

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Aww.. such emotions.. sorry dear for such late comment.. fabulous pics 😳

Pyaar ki kashtiyon me chahe aaye jitne toofan
Saath rahega tera mera dekhega jahan
Mere mehboob Teri ankhon me koi aansun na aane dunga
Aur Jo kisi ne aankh utha ke dekha uski keh ke lunga 😆 😉

Phatichar shayari ke liye chama
😆

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RainbowSun

@RainbowSun

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Tina wonderful post again-

Tera Mera Saath Rahe...
tera Mera Saath Rahe
dhoop Ho, Chaya Ho, Din Ho Ki Raat Rahe
tera Mera Saath Rahe

dard Ki Shaam Ho, Ya Sukh Ka Savera Ho
sab Gavara Hai Mujhe, Saath Bas Tera Ho
jeete Ji, Mar Ke Bhi, Haath Mein Haath Rahe
tera Mera Saath Rahe

koi Vaada Na Kare, Kabhi Khaye Na Kasam
jab Kahe Bas Yeh Kahe, Milke Bichadenge Na Hum
pyar Ki, Preet Ki, Yuh Hi Barsaat Rahe
tera Mera Saath Rahe

beech Hum Dono Ke, Koi Deevar Na Ho
tu Kabhi Mere Khuda, Mujhse Bejaar Na Ho
sabke Hothon Pe Apni Hi Baat Rahe
tera Mera Saath Rahe

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

AWWW Thanks Jaya... aap aaye bahar aaye mere post mai 🥳

@ Anjali❤️ beautiful song ...Tera Mera Saath Rahe...

haatho kee lakiro me likha hai, tera mera dil kaa rishta hai ❤️
har dhadkan yahee baat kahe, (tera mera saath rahe)❤️

too meree duneeya too mera apana, tere bina kya hai mera yaar
too mera jivan too mera sapana, tujhape luta du saara pyaar
chaahe din ho chaahe raat rahe, har dhadkan yahee baat kahe
tera mera saath rahe, tera mera saath rahe
haatho kee lakiro me likha hai, tera mera dil kaa rishta hai ❤️

Mom Ira yeh 2 pyaar karne walo ki bhasha kya samjhegi

I just watched the episode again & I feel Ira did feel bad when DS was folding her hands in apology. But her hurt is still quite deep ...how could my son side with notorious DS & Singhs 😉 mera khoon aise kaise kar sakta hai is really disturbing her 😛 The tune mera beta paraya ho gaya hai is playing harder & stronger on her dil & dimag 🥱 so she was dull & grim

When something is not going in the right direction (beta in bahu land😉), you want it go in

the right direction (in momma land😛😆) then it's difficult to cope with. I think she is not playing her minutes because she is not playing well & can we blame her lol 😛😆

To err is human & to purr is feline 🤢 ( Ira keep purring )

AWWW DS's maafi nama was quite convincing left me teary... all for love of a child. 😊

Edited by 5cents - 12 years ago