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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: rdjha

awesome awesome post Tina!!!!

Shiv was band on yesterday and i loved his every action and dialogue...
he is indeed what a "Jeevan Sathi" should be...he just personifies it to the T!
and ur thoughts on Shiv are so true ...thanks for the wonderful post...


Rashmi, Thx hun.
❤️ part in bold ...so true!! ⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful post Tina,

I too felt Shiv was exactly to the point and very appropriate with everyone.

He put his point very accurately.

If you give respect , you will gain respect. Ira knows her son loves Ajee, She has seen her since past 6 months. She has agreed for the marriage and now when you came to know this everything has changed?

This is the main wound of Anandi . She has lost her confidence that she can be a good wife, When she just started gaining confidence Ira has rubbed salt on her wound big time. Shiv knows this may compel Anandi to put herself in cocoon again.

I understand she is angry, She could have asked differently, but saying so demeaning words Ira proved that being educated also she cant keep her dignity.

She has not given scope to her DIL to say anything instead trusted an outsider.

Last time when she made their private life public shiv made her understand very maturely but this time she insulted Anandi like anything.

So I think this was very much needed. And I am sure Shiv will manao his mom. He is that kind of person
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: umam

Tina 🤗- a very well thought out and presented post 👍🏼 considering the diametrically opposite reactions yesterday's epi generated!!! There are so many facets to the episode that debate/discussion can go on on who was right/wrong etc..


Shiv for me was to the point in his response to his family and UD.

Just hoping that Ira's harsh words do not open Anandi's old wounds and dent her confidence - would never forgive her if it happens.. But BV CVs are clever 😉, they may show us Anandi who may be momentarily sad for herself, but will feel for Ira and try to reach out - ultimately making Ira ashamed of her own prejudices😈. I want that to happen...

What DS may have done was wrong, but accusing A is just not the done thing 😡😡 You cannot question someone's integrity and accuse them of being dishonest!!!


gauri, Thx 🤗 You are spot on.This will make DS apologize & bring Ira & Aji a step closer & she'll wash her prejudices away. Shiv babu will learn a new lesson there is a difference btw mom's & MILs 😉 hehehhe Ma propoganda kaam hoga hum bhi pyaar batna walle hai 😉😆

Shiv was abs to the point anything more would have opened Pandora's box ...Oh! this mahan girl with such lovely credentials rejected u why did u not jump in the well right then ...hai Ira's ego tho would have gone kaput instantaneously 😛

I did this post only after reading all those contradicting posts sp blaming Shiv . He was too harsh. I was simply flabbergasted 😲 what rude! His mom was venting fire & blaming her shamelessly in front of stranger calling her BV & divorcee. Ira knew from day one even before seeing Aji abt her messed up past and she had no reservations then. She had always maintained that ...Shiv ko Aji jaise patni chaheye thee so it is fine. Now after shaadi why this. I liked what Shiv told Sanchi... rishte jodna seekho toodna/ misunderstanding create karna bahut aasaan hai. 😊

Folks who are blaming Shiv... we women are only our own enemy ...it is we who do not like ghar jamai & joru ka gulam. 😉



Edited by 5cents - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome post from a true ANSH fan 👍🏼
i felt so proud of shiv yesterday..😳..Anandi's rock of gibraltor..so true 😊


"Shiv's outburst was justified JMO😳 If you don't put your point strictly it is often not taken😉
A girl leaves her home, town and even changes her last name for the happiness of her husband's family and this is the kind of faith they have on the girl. Ira proved that she is absolutely fit to be called a pendu. 😛😆 She gets into motion at the slightest push ."

so true...😕 and then to hear such words...as uttered by ira is very painful. but am sure shiv wont let anandi crumble under this blaming game...

i always wanted to see a protective shiv..and got to see a jhalak of him yesterday...😉

whenever i read your post, i automatically become a poet, singer, dancer etc ..a very bad one though ...😆 that's the effect your posts have on me.

here's for my ansh:

tere mere sapne abb ek rang hain
jaha bhee le jaye rahe ham sang hain

mere tere dil kaa tay tha ek din milana
jaise bahar aane par tay hain phul kaa khilana
o mere jivan sathee...

tere dukh abb mere, mere sukh abb tere
tere yeh do naina, chand aur suraj mere
o mere jivan sathee...

lakh mana le duniya, sath naa yeh chhutega
aake mere hatho me, hath naa yeh chhutega
o mere jivan sathee...


Lovely post Tina...🤗


Edited by BeyondTheSky - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

awesome post from a true ANSH fan 👍🏼
i felt so proud of shiv yesterday..😳..Anandi's rock of gibraltor..so true 😊


"Shiv's outburst was justified JMO😳 If you don't put your point strictly it is often not taken😉

A girl leaves her home, town and even changes her last name for the happiness of her husband's family and this is the kind of faith they have on the girl. Ira proved that she is absolutely fit to be called a pendu. 😛😆 She gets into motion at the slightest push ."

so true...😕 and then to hear such words...as uttered by ira is very painful. but am sure shiv wont let anandi crumble under this blaming game...

i always wanted to see a protective shiv..and got to see a jhalak of him yesterday...😉

whenever i read your post, i automatically become a poet, singer, dancer etc ..a very bad one though ...😆 that's the effect your posts have on me.

here's for my ansh:

tere mere sapne abb ek rang hain
jaha bhee le jaye rahe ham sang hain

mere tere dil kaa tay tha ek din milana
jaise bahar aane par tay hain phul kaa khilana
o mere jivan sathee...

tere dukh abb mere, mere sukh abb tere
tere yeh do naina, chand aur suraj mere
o mere jivan sathee...

lakh mana le duniya, sath naa yeh chhutega
aake mere hatho me, hath naa yeh chhutega
o mere jivan sathee...


Lovely post Tina...🤗


True...I liked shiv yesterday...he promised to himself when they left jeytsar that he will make sure he will ate kb her sapno ka ghar...he is sticking on to it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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5cents...no one could have given better views on this track than you...hats off 👏 👏 👏
and i really loved your line ''A girl leaves her home, town and even changes her last name for the happiness of her husband's family and this is the kind of faith they have on the girl.'' 😭
If the girl can have so much faith and patience in a family to leave the comfort of her house and parents and settle in unknown house with so many unknown people than i would say that even in-laws should have enough faith that is par with that girl...that's what i did not like about ira or to say of many in-laws...they easily tell their DIL that she is an outsider and then the girl gets to hear similar things from her maika...nowhere for the poor girl to go 😭...India mein aaj bhi kafi jagah ladki sach mein paraiy hoti hai...parivaar vale paraya kar dete hai aur saasural wale apna maante nahi 😭...this is the truth because i still many issues like this where DIL is unnecessarily blamed
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17
Tina u r the best! Dear!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tina 🤗

Post is lovely as usual but I differ in your views.

Shiv's rudra roop was good till UD was there. All he said was fine. But, after UD left he didn't need to speak to his family like that. I didn't have a problem with what he said but the way he said. I understand he is stating his expectations but the tone was not right. I felt as though he was speaking in his office and not his home. True.. his mom insulted his wife. He gave defense for that. But, he needs to take care of his mom's emotions into considersation too. If he had handled the situation trying to explain or make her understand the situation then things would not have gotten worse and Ira wouldn't ahve felt that her son is taking sides. The previous time when Ira interfered in his private life he maturely told her that he was hurt. There was no maturity from him this time.

Yes.. a girl leaves everything and comes into the husband's house. Here, in this case.. Shiv has always placed Anandi first in front of his family. So, just because he is married does that mean he has no responsibility towards his family or respecting their sentiments ? Even in the past two incidents (Sankranthi incident and Ira learning of AnSh leaving Jeitsar from DS), Ira was hurt with his actions. Why shouldn't a mother feel insecure ?

Just because he is understanding and supports his wife does not make him a Joru ka ghulam and if he is understanding towards his mother, that doesn't make a son tied to her pallu.


I just want to say that both Ira and Shiv were at fault yesterday. Ira initially when she insulted Anandi and Shiv in the end after UD left. Shiv needs to learn to balance like every married man.

Edited by dixie123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nivi, I just wrote a long reply in epi discussion thread. You'll get your answer there.


Your last line: I just want to say that both Ira and Shiv were at fault yesterday. Ira initially when she insulted Anandi and Shiv in the end after UD left. Shiv needs to learn to balance like every married man.

See if Ira would not have crossed the line in the heat of emotions & at the spur of the moment it would not have gone out of hand. Shiv would not have reacted in that matter. Shiv of all people knows Aji's insecurities so very well & he had to work so hard to pull her out of that ...he was just shocked beyond words ...what is mom saying ...BV & divorcee 😡 ...he just lost it! If you think abt it from a divorcee's pov it a BIG ABUSE word. This I can say as I have worked in villages with the underprivileged and seen & understood their pain , insecurities and helplessness. Singhs are like parents for her but if u see the girl has no support other than Shiv.
Many people keep saying that Aji is not bothered about her birth parents but the great indian village parents do not want to keep in touch with married dauthers ...as they have to keep giving gifts & if they dump the daughter. I really don't know but I have seen in real world parents say maara hai/disowned you but you have to stay with them... adjust karke raho. Sometimes they are poor so can't afford & sometimes the villagers play villain & do not let the daughers stay with parents.

As far as Shiv's learning is concerned he'll be out of this dream idyllic shekhar land soon😆. Like it happens in real world the wife will have to do the explaining this mahan pati paremshews do not get their mom's insecurities & protectiveness. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tina

I agree Ira didn't do a good job there. But, I feel she reacted the way she did because of how it was presented to her by Sanchi and UD. Presentation makes a hell lot of difference. I am not supporting her actions here. Yes, like you said she should have spoke to Anandi and shooed UD away. if Sanchi and UD drama would not have been there Ira would have laughed it off like Shiv expected.

The last time too when Ira interfered in their personal life, Anandi was being accused. He didn't lose his cool and explained to her calmly and still conveyed to her that he was hurt. That is the maturity that Shiv is supposed to have which was lacking this time. He had a chance to explain to his family the entire situation in a sensible manner. He hid this thing himself from them. So, there is some explanation he owes them too. He can't just say that I am cool with it and so I want you guys to be cool with it too after all this drama. He was supposed to convince them and make them understand when his mom was accusing his wife that his wife was not wrong and not order them to not disrespect his wife. That is not done in my pov.

Yes.. for Ira now she is being a typical insecure MIL who is feeling that she is losing her son to his wife. Most of the times, it is the son's responsible for this kind of insecurity and the DILs get blamed for this.

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