Really Ira?

I expected the Shekhar's to be upset after knowing DS's kartoot, but what Ira said in the precap is just unacceptable.

Anandi was a balika vadhu and a divorcee, so it would have been difficult to get a good guy for her? Really? I hope Shiv gives a tagda jawab saying if Dadisa hadn't done anything to break Urmi Devi's daughter's alliance, he would have still ended up with Anandi because he loves her.

And Urmi Devi ki to baat hi kya hai! She says because of Dadisa her daughter is still sitting kuwari at home. Was Shiv's the only proposal she got? If she is finding it so hard to find a good alliance, may be it is something to do with her daughter! She is taking for granted that if Dadisa hadn't created this mess, Shiv would have been her son-in-law by now. Ha!

I agree Ira yelled at Anandi bcoz she does not know the fact that her son has hidden the truth from them and it is very true that to get a proposal for a BV and divorcee is very difficult and that too like Shiv is impossible.Its only bcoz Shiv loved Anandi they got married.And I somehow feel DS trapped shiv for anandi.IT am not saying Anandi trapd shiv.u anandi atleast has to listen If not pay a price for her most lovable Ds who ruined her life. Its ok that later on she is was the one who bought her out from it and that too because of her guilt.

As we know, Era has the ears made of bronzwe and she accept what ever has been said without processing the data. Yes, any mother will be hurt after hearing that some one bad mouthed about her son's charecter just to get the benefit but atleast she could have listened to Anandi's justifications...

it is bitter truth that daughter in law how much she is good to mother in law but mother in law always suspects daughter in law behaviour and believes own daughter word no matter how wrong her daughter is

Sorry. I do not buy this Ira bashing this time.

Ira is right. It is true that getting rishta and that too such a good rishta of a virgin, young IAS officer is nearly impossible for a divorcee, that too one who has been a child bride and is from a village.

I've seen the best educated women from respectable families get rejected just because they were divorced. Even if divorce was not due to their fault, still they did not get good match. Some of them are single now and some have been married off to much older men who are already fathers to grown up kids (to fill void for mother of their growing kids).

Ira is right in saying what she did.

They'd have got any good girl from a great, fully educated, reputable family for Shiv.

They agreed to get Anandi married to Shiv only on Shiv's insistence.

They have been so tolerant till now, lived away from their son and DIL, not objected to presence of her ex husband around or their son doggedly serving Singhs, their DIL freely interacting with her ex, her taking time to accept Shiv and not sharing the same bed with him (though he madly loved her), they welcome even their DIL's ex husband with open arms at their house!

For all their goodness and understanding, they get this? That their samdhan was dissuading others to approach Shiv for marriage by slandering him?

The kind of things DS had said for Shiv were extreme (including BS about bringing his GF from London as sauten!). DS slandered poor Ashima also!

This was no way justified. Anandi and others need to apologise and be ashamed rather than offering explanations or defending DS!

Ira's reaction is nothing. Imagine what DS would have done if situation was reversed and someone had been slandering her laadesar Jagya!

That shameless woman hides flaws of Basant and Jagya. But was freely slandering a flawless man like Shiv only so that coast is clear for Anandi?! Selfish hypocrite!

As a concerned parent Ira has every right to react the way she did.

She and rest of the Shekhars have already been more than tolerant and permissive towards Singhs and their idiosyncrasies. Allow her to be!

Forget the serial. How'd you feel if you'd know that your bhabhi or jija's mother slandered your brother or sister before marriage so that no one else marries them and they are left only for her daughter/son?
Would you excuse or rationalise it as an act of love and move on instantly? Wouldn't you get angry?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

it is bitter truth that daughter in law how much she is good to mother in law but mother in law always suspects daughter in law behaviour and believes own daughter word no matter how wrong her daughter is

You have a point. But in this particular situation Sanchi is NOT wrong in any way. Ira not only believed her but also had UD as proof.

If DIL's family has been fooling around and DIL stayed mum about it then reactions like these are a given.

Merely talking to Shiv was not enough. Had Anandi revealed the truth to Shekhars, her respect would've grown ten times more in their eyes seeing her honesty. Okay she was nervous to face them and handed the baton to Shiv. But Shiv was also wrong in assuming that just because he is laadla of the house so people will accept whatever he does or matters will die their natural death if he remained mum.

Shiv is also taking too much advantage of their family's love for him. You educate your son and bring him up in best possible way only to have him later reduce you to symbols who'd give him aashirwaad in whatever he chose to do?

In favouring Singhs and Anandi has Shiv even once considered his family's POV and their feelings?

He failed to balance between his lady love, her family and his own family. No wonder his mother and sister feel he got trapped or ensnared by charms of other party.

I felt urmi devi overreacted and now ira.. What happened has happened. Dont know about UD but at least Ira should think about the happiness of her son.

i don't think what Ira said was unfair...first it's true that for a balika vadhu and divorcee it is close to impossible to get a rishta like Shiv...remember what condition did Prathmesh's parents had put for this marriage...Anandi should have no contact with her ex-husband...it's Urmi Devi who needs a reality check...if her daughter is sarv gun samparn than why is she not able to find a good groom for her...is Shiv the only good boy left in whole rajasthan...check out for Prathmesh...even he was really good to be anyone's husband...wait till shiv says to her that he was anyway not going to marry her or anyone's daughter because he was in love with Anandi...she will be hakka bakka 😆😆...i do not blame Ira for not listening...ues she was wrong but she is a mother so she is excused

ya agree...she overreacted...I also feel that IRA may sugges mahi for urmi's daughter...more chance for that also possible...

Originally posted by: Skepblun

You have a point. But in this particular situation Sanchi is NOT wrong in any way. Ira not only believed her but also had UD as proof.

If DIL's family has been fooling around and DIL stayed mum about it then reactions like these are a given.

Merely talking to Shiv was not enough. Had Anandi revealed the truth to Shekhars, her respect would've grown ten times more in their eyes seeing her honesty. Okay she was nervous to face them and handed the baton to Shiv. But Shiv was also wrong in assuming that just because he is laadla of the house so people will accept whatever he does or matters will die their natural death if he remained mum.

Shiv is also taking too much advantage of their family's love for him. You educate your son and bring him up in best possible way only to have him later reduce you to symbols who'd give him aashirwaad in whatever he chose to do?

In favouring Singhs and Anandi has Shiv even once considered his family's POV and their feelings?

He failed to balance between his lady love, her family and his own family. No wonder his mother and sister feel he got trapped or ensnared by charms of other party.