Aren't Singhs being too insensitive??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

now i dont want propure closure for that selfish gauri .let her suffer for her bad deeds .bachpann mein bhi to jagya aur gauri ka proper closer hua tha baad mein kya nateeja nikla .and v know inspite of her shouting singh family atleast give her shelter and give her food and even pay for her education .so how singhs r insenstive ..it is gauri who is always to insestive towards them .they have tolerated gauri very much for her rude behaviour so i think they have fully right to ignore gauri

anyways thanks for clearing meaning of ur post .i have just curosity so i said it

I am least bothered about gauri's being here. Why i am concerned about the closure is Once he is happily married if gauri returns back with their kid. What will they do?
Another innocent woman's life will be miserable and hell for no mistake of her's.
They are witnessed what gauri is, now why don't they want a clean chit?
If she is ever bound to come back to jagya's life , I am sure the consequences will be burdening for an innocent female again. I don't want to see what Anandi went through in another woman.
Get a proper divorce , pay her alimony and shut the doors of haveli permanent for her and then merry on marrying their son.

Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

@Aparnuma,

I am not asking Singh's to accept gauri. I know what she did is not right but closure is very important in this. I don't want gauri bragging to haveli one day with her kid while jagya is happily married with another woman. I don't want to see another innocent woman's pain for the mistake jagaya did. I can't forget the pain Anandi went through. The same pain for another woman is what i wish at the end of the earth.

My only concern is after witnessing all this horrible nightmare, they still are not keen in closure. I accept every family will think of their kids first . But why open a port where pain can be inflicted. They are being insensitive to the problem. Insensitive in a part where they are not thinking of what will happen once gauri comes back.

They are good to even strangers, why don't they want to try gauri for their son's happiness. They didn't even had a talk if he wants to get back to her or not. Agreed she is not his wife in many terms but he did share his life with her even for a while.

jagya gauri realationship ka proper closure ho ya na ho uski aadat hai shout karne ki to woh shout karegi agar uska relationship properly close bhi ho gaya to bhi koi guarantee nahi ki apne kid ke saath aakur haveli mein hangama na kare aur jagya ki new wife ki life hell na banaye ..btw it is jagya duty to end realationship properly before marrying any other girl .(hope ki gauri is baar jagya se mile) .it is not duty of singh family at all to think about gauri because they have not asked gauri to marry my son .bs have rejected gauri in childhood and in adulthood hood also so .no question by him to think about gauri .yes ds is responsible for gauri marriage in child hood but her parents r also equally responsible .even ds ask fogiveness from gauri in maha panchayat and her marriage is dissolve in maha panchayat too.but in adulthood ds is not at all responsible for gauri break up with jagya ds did not go to adult gauri to marry my grandson.gauri is herself responsible for her marriage break up.infact if v remember surekha ji was not there in bv for 2 3 months when gauri shouted at bs .she came when basant left home and went to his real father

Here's my two cents on this:

- I didn't expect anything from Singhs except Bhairon. I thought he would at least ask Jagya what he did to Gauri or would at least ask him to formally and legally end his relationship with Gauri before moving ahead. But it's surprising how Bhairon kept silent on this!

- I'd thought Anandi would ask about Gauri (because she did have empathy with Gauri as a woman). But neither her empathy for another woman nor her concern out of humanity goaded her to think about Gauri or at least ask Jagya what he did to her or if he at least properly separated with her or not.

- Gauri didn't respect Singhs because she'd forever believed they'd ruined her life and because both Jagya and her own parents had brainwashed her and clouded her sense of reason. Later when she learnt that Bhairon had sponsored her education and upbringing she still didn't feel a thing because it was too late when she was told all this! Also it was abrupt! Suddenly Bhairon cut off the financial aid and Bade Papa also withdrew his support and scolded Gauri. The way it was handled it was all done to make Gauri feel more guilty and worse about herself! Had she been told all this earlier maybe she'd have behaved better. It's somewhat how Karna in Mahabharatha was told too late by Lord Krishna about Pandavas being his brothers! By then that man had already committed many wrongs, had been wronged too many times by Pandavas and already pledged support to Duryodhana! He then told Lord Krishna that he should've been told of this earlier but now it was too late.

I feel Gauri is in the same predicament. Also, when she was pregnant, Singhs took care of her as they would for any woman. They did not even once show any excitement or even mild pining or any curiosity for their grandchild that Gauri was pregnant with (except DS a bit). That made Gauri feel even worse.

Only then she decided to go all revenge against them.

- Look it is not Gauri. It is DS and the Singhs who are responsible at the ROOT of the Jagya-Anandi-Gauri mess! Their way of handling it all was wrong ever since the three in this doomed triangle were kids! 🤢 One can't simply blame Gauri and absolve Singhs of all the sins they committed! (Gauri's own parents, especially her mom were trash too.)

- Gauri's only fault has been to believe Jagya and give in to his emotional blackmail earlier and to believe her parents and give in to her mother's instigating remarks later (her mom fed her insecurities). She was never evil or badly behaved vamp to begin with! And Jagya's no less guilty either!

- A proper closure to Gauri's chapter DEFINITELY needs to be there! Either let her correct her mistake the way Jagya's now being let to. And also make Singhs realise their follies in dealing with her. Or let her and Jagya get divorced so that Jagya's third marriage can proceed without any possibility of future problems due to Gauri angle.
Even if Jagya and Singhs are out of the picture, at least show us viewers what the hell happened to Gauri and her kid! What did she do after Jagya left her? Did she even give birth to the kid or not? Did she abort it? Did she leave it in some orphanage? Or did she get remarried to someone else who accepted her with her kid? Or did she choose to lead an independent life with her kid? Uska hua kya, aakhir yeh toh batao!
They can't stop showing a prominent character like this without telling what happened to it!

Now even Anjum's real life doesn't make any difference because if they can replace the lead herself then what's the hiccup in replacing Gauri?

I do want a proper closure on this instead of more new women in Jagya's life or Jagya saab reforming while Gauri being reduced to a stupid vamp who was deserted after a slap from Jughead!

Let me make this clear once and for all, some of us here don't bring up Gauri because we are her fans. But because in the show, both philandering Basant and Jagya have got chance to reform and have been pardoned for their mistakes. Even DS has never really had to pay for her umpteen sins and has been given a chance to turn over a new leaf. The Singhs (DS included), pardoned Mahaveer Singh, he was also given chance to reform himself and even stay at Singh haveli like family.

So if the other more evil or equally worse characters can get a chance or their tracks at least got a proper closure then why not Gauri? And if Singhs (basically Bhairon) can do a lot for others (Mahaveer Singh etc.) out of humanity, then why couldn't they consider Gauri's fate out of humanity, out of concern for a woman (knowing it's their son who's been equally party in all the stuff that happened)?

It's purely due to humanity, concern for a female and that too a pregnant female character that some of us are talking of Gauri and demand a proper closure to her chapter. Nothing else.

Plus we don't want to see K-serial type stuff of Gauri returning suddenly with her kid in Jagya's third marriage and his third wife also suffering or all flabbergasted as to what happened!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

jagya gauri realationship ka proper closure ho ya na ho uski aadat hai shout karne ki to woh shout karegi agar uska relationship properly close bhi ho gaya to bhi koi guarantee nahi ki apne kid ke saath aakur haveli mein hangama na kare aur jagya ki new wife ki life hell na banaye ..btw it is jagya duty to end realationship properly before marrying any other girl .(hope ki gauri is baar jagya se mile) .it is not duty of singh family at all to think about gauri because they have not asked gauri to marry my son .bs have rejected gauri in childhood and in adulthood hood also so .no question by him to think about gauri .yes ds is responsible for gauri marriage in child hood but her parents r also equally responsible .even ds ask fogiveness from gauri in maha panchayat and her marriage is dissolve in maha panchayat too.but in adulthood ds is not at all responsible for gauri break up with jagya ds did not go to adult gauri to marry my grandson.gauri is herself responsible for her marriage break up.infact if v remember surekha ji was not there in bv for 2 3 months when gauri shouted at bs .she came when basant left home and went to his real father

I want Singh's to take this in action because it is their wish that jagya remarries. Jagya hasn't said a word about it. It's their thought of seeing him happy so it is their responsibility to clear the path as well. If at all it's jagay who instantiated this process then yes it's one and only jagya who has to deal with it but it's his family who want that and they better clear things up else they will turn very ugly later. I can't imagine what it tug it will be between Ganga and Gauri or Sanchi or Gauri. Sanchi are not suffer in silence type. And Ganga had enough!

When their is a kid involved, A closure is the first thing that needs to be done. It's gauri's fault that she hadn't informed about the baby but that doesn't make her only authority on the baby.

yes there is should proper old realation ship in marriage before starting new one .but in gauri case it is differente .they fear gauri can manpulate him once again .and gauri has not yet reply jagya apology letter that means she is not at all interested in proper closer of relationship. c jagya already told ds and his parents that gauri did not meet him .so why should they go again to gauri for proper closure of relation ship ???just to wait for madam gauri outside the chamber for 6 hrs ??.why should they insulted themselves wating for gauri for 6 hrs ????and even after wating so many hrs there is no reply from gauri and gauri is not in chamber ?????????