Aren't Singhs being too insensitive???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed Gawari is not good enough for them for their DIL status but after all she is someone's daughter. Instead of asking jagya what he wants to do, they are hell bent on another marriage.
Admitted it is gauri's fault that she jumped into a married man's bandwagon and then her so called insecurities. What about the child, which is also jagya's??

I am very surprised that all the dayalu hearts of singh family forgot that their son manipulated the other girl telling lies. Agreed she was rude to them. Just her rudeness is not enough for singhs to call in her husbands marriage. I felt bad , not even one person thought about gauri. Either it's for good or bad , to divorce or to be together. They should bring a relation into a proper closure before starting a new one. I don't like mean attitude of gauri yet i felt bad that she didn't receive a proper closure.

I fail to see why she will respect jagya's family? when he behaved rudely with them , called them names. If a person can't respect his family it is beyond skies joke to expect the partner to be nice to them. Whatever JAGA relationship was it is a mistake from both ends. I agree gauri hasn't repented yet but does that give a tab to jagya to leave a female whom he slept with. I felt pukish when he said his memories are filled with Anandi then what about gauri who is his responsibility spent years together with him? Suddenly she evaporated from his memory?? Why fill another man's wife in your memories babu, you have also destroyed another girls life as well. Just give piece of mind to her. You went to mumbai and wrote a letter saying sorry but I just wonder if Singh's or even Jagay thought of gawari's life for once. They are so merciful to even strangers , so i question why so ignorance towards your second DIL.
Edited by ashahai_aamanke - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed on all counts.But rather than saying Singhs I will say only DS...the rest are all puppets on her chain.She is the matriarch of the family.And she has decided that come what may she will get Jagya married.She does not take Gauri into consideration because she feels that her grandson can do no wrong...all the sins he has committed this far was because ot Gauri,thereby confirming what all of us feel about Jagya that he is a spineless,spoilt and stubborn brat.I agree that they are doing injustice by gauri and that third marriage track is just not done but sadly neither you nor me are involved in the storywriting of BV
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Posted: 12 years ago
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they r ignoring gauri because as they have already told in previous episode that they have fear that gauri will seperate his son from them for ever and it is true gauri try to seperate jagya from family .whenever jagya try to talk his family she start shouting .yes there should be proper closure between jaga
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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its no gauri who seperated jagya from his family...jagya was after him by his own choice...now put all blame on gauri and consider your son innocet that gauri will snatch her.ha ha what a funy joke...their son is himself is spoil brat that they dont trust him...they want wife of their choice jo unke isharo par chale...arey jagat kya dudh pita bacha h jo usey ko cheen lega...if he is changed man he can coperate with all relations...even he can make good bond with singh and gauri...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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intially jagat left the anandi for gauri and now evaporate the memories of gauri so who will beleive on him...only the girl who is puncture from her brain ...whe he will have suhaagraat with third wife...kis kis ko yaad krega...

jab jagat ko gauri se ladoo mila to baant kar khaya aur jab mirchi mili to wo sirf gauri ki.....what a funda of life...
Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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till when jagya is not realized his mistake till then both gauri and jagya is to be blame .jagya is to be blame because he did not end relationshp propery with anandi before marrying gauri .gauri is to be blame because first she inspiting of knowing that jagya is married she still married that too hurridely secondly she force singh family accept her as dil any how thirdly she behave rudely with bs fourthly she does not bother about bm health fifth she is greedy when she told jagya to ask property from his family 6th she try to seperate jagya from his family

yes jagya behave rudely with his parents but he apologies for his mistake by heart and even repent
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes thats what i want to say if he is changed its better he solve out his old relation...if you will give someone your love he or she will automatically change...if dadisa will accept gauri she will also... vo to uska chehra bhi nahi dekhna chati and is planning for jagat third marriage...dadisa ko lgta h saari galti gauri ki h...gauri jaise log duniya m hote h...iska matlb yeh nahi koi b apma relation todey aur dusri shaadi krle...buri to dadisa bhi h leki wo sirf dadisa h sliye everryone respect her...

i was against jagat second marriage and even his third marriage too...

for me marriage is not solution of every problem...yeh to vahi baat ho gai ladke ki shaadi krdo wo theek ho jayega chahe uska past kitna bura ho...gehna is the most strongest character jisne apne worst pati ko b acha bana diya...so y not jagat...
Edited by shalluuu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't expect the Singh's to have a soft corner on Gauri just because their son slept/lived with her. And just because she pushed herself onto them to accept her as their DIL, she can't become their DIL. If a girl who hurried into an illegal relationship cannot be patient enough and respect the guys parents...then the guys parents too don't need to have any bit of soft corner for her. They can hate her as much as she hates them...and all is justified. I think they are even now..But i was intrigued by the way they did not put an effort to close this relationship properly on legal terms.

All this while, I have been harping in the forum about this improper closure of J-G relationship. But after giving deep thought to it, i realized that, neither the Singh's nor Gauri wanted a proper closure to this improper relationship. All of them have conveniently put it aside. Atleast J took a step forward to say a sorry...Gauri didn't even want to meet him. She does not hate him...but even worse is -- she ignores him! So what's the point in us thinking about a proper closure when both the sides are cool with it? Maybe this was left open to create drama after a year or two when Gauri enters with the baby to create turmoil in the Singh's life.
Edited by samvi. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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so why gauri is not telling truth to singh family ki main jagya to chod chuki thi pur jagya ne mujhse kaha tha ki agar woh mujhe chod degi to woh apne ghar anandi ke paas kabhi nahi jaayega to isliye maine jagat se shadi ki .i hope jub gauri yeh sach batayegi to singh family gauri ke behaviour ko samjhenge ki jagya ki wajah se gauri ka behaviour aisa hua sara dosh mere beta ka hi hai gauri ki koi galti nahi aur use bahu ke roop mein accept karenge
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Singhs, who are not sensitive enough for people like Shekhars, cannot be expected to be sensitive towards Gauri specially when their Laadesar is concerned...they are too selfish to be good...its all about their son...their daughter...their bahu...their honor...their dreams and wishes ! 😡

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