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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

Singhs, who are not sensitive enough for people like Shekhars, cannot be expected to be sensitive towards Gauri specially when their Laadesar is concerned...they are too selfish to be good...its all about their son...their daughter...their bahu...their honor...their dreams and wishes ! 😡


DS is one selfish old lady. She is always in a hurry and gives dhamki she will die if her wishes r not fulfilled. Shiv please move to udaipur soon and take ur saanchi to hostel.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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when bv cvs showing gauri till then no sympathy for gauri till then v r too justifying singh family behaviour with gauri but now gauri is not shown for many months now v r complaing singh family cold behaviour towarsds gauri ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In Singh family, decisions depend on the whims and fancy of DS. Nobody tells her that she is wrong at least in some of her decisions. Even if BS protests, it is either ignored or ultimately he ends up doing nothing against any decision he thinks wrong (e.g. Jagya amnesia drama). And Jagya is ladesar, DS cannot agree that marriage with Gauri was his mistake. She will always blame Gauri for whatever happened. Yes it looks strange that they are so considerate towards strangers (like Ganga), but never remembered Gauri.

For viewers (unless they are ardent fans of Gauri or Jagya), both Jagya and Gauri charecters are like engima. Gauri as Gudia, was against her bal vivah, wanted to study and was happy when the marriage was declare null and void. Adult Gauri was introduced as a bright student looked like a sweet girl. Her transformation into a planning/plotting girl full of revenge and hatered towards Anandi was just not understandable. During childhood marriage, she was not so young that she cannot remeber that she was being married against her wish by her own parents. The anger and revenge, if directed towards her parents and DS, could be understandable. CVs ruined her charecter and made her negative so she will have less sympathy from viewers also and like Singhs not many viewers will think of Gauri in Jagya marriage track.
As for Jagya, they experimented with his charecter so much, that viewers still cant decide whether this is final redemption or some shades of grey are still there, of his six alter egos,how many are still there. Why he did not remembered Gauri? Why only after Ganga's word did he think that he wronged Gauri also?
And Singhs specially BS should think about court cases in which Jagya is involved before pressurizing him to marry again. His wife will suffer if Jagya gets jail term in those cases, and Jagya will get unnecessary sympathy because of his wife's suffering. Or like in other serials, in BV also court cases automatically forgotten once the culprit gets bail?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if gauri will come back and will ask for forgiveness i dont think she is going to b forgive...coz the person she trusted lot ...with whom she married...he himself put the blame of all his mistake on gauri than who will support gauri in singh family...its jagat only if will support to gauri than their relation will go smwhere...

yes few ppl dont have sympathy for gauri coz she is not crying like anandi or jagat...jagat to shuru se sabse zada dukhi isaa h...jisey do do shadio se bhi kuch nahi mila...aaj b vo akela h...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

Singhs, who are not sensitive enough for people like Shekhars, cannot be expected to be sensitive towards Gauri specially when their Laadesar is concerned...they are too selfish to be good...its all about their son...their daughter...their bahu...their honor...their dreams and wishes ! 😡

sugna ki shaadi shyam se kardi kyunk apni beti ki baat...will they accept the girl like sugna...will they give their daughter to man like basant...they want bahu like anandi who can make their son life heaven but they dont care about that girl whose life is hell due to their son...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalluuu

sugna ki shaadi shyam se kardi kyunk apni beti ki baat...will they accept the girl like sugna...will they give their daughter to man like basant...they want bahu like anandi who can make their son life heaven but they dont care about that girl whose life is hell due to their son...

SO TRUE...forget about Singhs not even AnSh thought about that point...if they are so interested in interfering than why not make the situation better than catch the wagon
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

when bv cvs showing gauri till then no sympathy for gauri till then v r too justifying singh family behaviour with gauri but now gauri is not shown for many months now v r complaing singh family cold behaviour towarsds gauri ??


I am not trying to say she is a good girl and singhs are bad people. What i am trying to tell is even strangers are treated good and nice why not they gave thought for proper closure to JA GA relationship. It's a girls life after all. How will she survive as a left over for rest of her life. If they dont want her then fine close it with decency why leave open so that some day she can brag into haveli with her child while jagya is married to some one else. The other innocent woman has to bear the burden of this open fire.

Kindly note that I am not complaining. I am telling they arte being insensitive to the situation. I never mentioned gauri must be loved and cared for. what ia m saying is situational. Now that marriage talks of jagaya are going on why not close his previous relationships??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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now i dont want propure closure for that selfish gauri .let her suffer for her bad deeds .bachpann mein bhi to jagya aur gauri ka proper closer hua tha baad mein kya nateeja nikla .and v know inspite of her shouting singh family atleast give her shelter and give her food and even pay for her education .so how singhs r insenstive ..it is gauri who is always to insestive towards them .they have tolerated gauri very much for her rude behaviour so i think they have fully right to ignore gauri

anyways thanks for clearing meaning of ur post .i have just curosity so i said it
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM I agree with you and disagree with you in parts.

I agree with you they should have made efforts to find about the status of his relationship with G when he came back.They should have ensured that he terminated the relationship in a proper civilised manner and it was a mutual decision.

But the thing is- to get married to Gauri was solely his decision and to break up with her also was solely his decision.His parents had no role in that.So why should they bother about what happened to Gauri?

The Singhs cannot be expected to like her after the way she rubbed salt in their wounds caused by Jagya.I will not blame them because if they think of Gauri as good riddance.
They have seen her vindictive nature long before J got to know about it and yet kept quite because they thought what ever kind of person she may be their son is happy with her.Now their son has come back after breaking his relationship with her which in their mind is a right thing.


I do not find the Singhs guilty in their behaviour towards her.They have been more decent to her than she has been towards them.It is just that they could not accept her as their DIL but they accepted her as the woman in their son's life.

If at all they are guilty in anyway it is because they failed to instill the values in their son.They did not raise their son properly or rather they just kept quite when DS was spoiling him.For that they paid the price having a son who two timed his wife.

It is J who is responsible for what happened in Gauri's life and not the Singhs.But it is Singhs duty to ensure that J does the right thing by Gauri.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Aparnuma,

I am not asking Singh's to accept gauri. I know what she did is not right but closure is very important in this. I don't want gauri bragging to haveli one day with her kid while jagya is happily married with another woman. I don't want to see another innocent woman's pain for the mistake jagaya did. I can't forget the pain Anandi went through. The same pain for another woman is what i wish at the end of the earth.

My only concern is after witnessing all this horrible nightmare, they still are not keen in closure. I accept every family will think of their kids first . But why open a port where pain can be inflicted. They are being insensitive to the problem. Insensitive in a part where they are not thinking of what will happen once gauri comes back.

They are good to even strangers, why don't they want to try gauri for their son's happiness. They didn't even had a talk if he wants to get back to her or not. Agreed she is not his wife in many terms but he did share his life with her even for a while.

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