This NEGATIVITY is harmful for everybody - Page 4

Go ahead and watch it WR. It is your free will.

Originally posted by: whiterider

I am a man. NOt a lady.

oh i m sorry sir.. bt ur post was appealng

Originally posted by: lavy

Go ahead and watch it WR. It is your free will.

I believe 90% of viewers have not accepted and you do not. Thats fine. We will agree to disagree here.

We are no GOD that BV will end just because we wish for it nor are we Colors Management. We wish for it to end for the hurt BV gave us. It is our free will to say that it has to end and we will say it.

Have you never wished that an EX/Someonewho hurt you unfairly would get hurt? If you have not you are a much better person than most of us or you have never been hurt badly.

mam..u dnt lose ur calm... let others do wat they want..u have the power of remote use..it gud knite

Originally posted by: lavy

I believe 90% of viewers have not accepted and you do not. Thats fine. We will agree to disagree here.
Have you never wished that an EX/Someonewho hurt you unfairly would get hurt? If you have not you are a much better person than most of us or you have never been hurt badly.

This is not something to believe about. U r talking about a fact, not a fiction. So is either true or its false. There is no middle ground. And facts have definite proof behind them. As I said that 90% of people commenting in a website does not constitute 90% of the viewers. Thats just a minuscule part of the viewers. If u have some basic idea about the number of people in today's India that have the privilege of using internet (and even among them only a small percentage visit these websites and comment), against the number of people that have TV and watch serials, u will understand that the 1st group itself is basically just 10% of the 2nd group. So the 90% that u r saying is the 90% of that 10% viewers. Remember that BV is popular in rural parts also where there is cable connection. So currently TRP is the closest thing we have to knowing about it (its still far from actual figures, but closer than anything else). So when TRP will suggest that 90% people have stopped watching, I will accept that (they can not go on buying TRPs forever, even according to u)


If u want the same to happen to that person, then what remains the difference between u and him/her? And wanting some punishment or revenge is fine , but it should not be such a punishment or revenge which harms a large number of other people who are dependent on him and harms them also. I may want some small harm to come to that person if he /she treats me taht way, but NEVER in a way that my revenge will harm a large number of other people along with the one I want to punish.

Originally posted by: whiterider

This 90% is among ur friends. Not among all customers. And a lot of customers still like the product and continue using it. So if customer is the king, what about them? They have also spent huge time and energy behind this product. They are not customers? Or just because 90% of ur friends left means they are the only customers. If customer is king then all customers have right over it. How can they end a product just to satisfy a group of the customers ego, while another group of customers are still craving for that product?
If u do not like a product then u have the power to stop using it, that does not harm or affect anybody else. But if u try to stop the product from production then it affects the other customers that are still using it and liking it. If the product stops then they can not use that any more and can not produce it themselves. Whether the product stays in market or goes away, that wont affect u since u will be using a new product anyway. But whether it stays in teh market or goes away, that affects the customers that are using it.

Originally posted by: yaherd15

Refrain from telling us to feel, do, or think about Balika Vadhu. This is a forum for EVERYONE, where anyone can discuss a show, whether we like what's happening on it or not. It's not bashing to express one's opinion. You telling us to what to do/think/feel IS harassment/bullying.

Good day/night to you.

See, u generalize everything and everyone. If u would have read my posts, I have NEVER told anyone how they should think or feel about BV, or even how they should criticize it. Thats entirely their freedom and right. My complain is only against people trying to shut down the show. As long as u r discontented and unhappy, u have every right to express ur opinions, but never to the point where it can hurt others. If u try to shut down the show, then u r affecting and hurting the people that like it and want to watch it. Being unhappy and showing ur discontent is ur right. Trying to stop the show and hurt others in the process is not ur right.

Originally posted by: whiterider

My complain is against THOSE, who are constantly bashing the channel, and above all the SHOW BV. They are WISHING for the TRPs of the show to come down, and for the show to shut down. They are doing it inspite of knowing the fact that there are still a huge number of people who love this show and always want it to continue.

Originally posted by: yaherd15

It is naive to think that a show ending will harm individuals when the PH will have another show on air and those individuals will be hired to that very work on a different show.

If that's something you can't understand, we can't help you.

I am not talking about rozi roti harm of those people. I am not that foolish. I know that if this show stops then the next show that will air in its place will help them in that.
I am talking about hurting those people who like the show and want to watch it and want it to continue. If u can be hurt by an actor change in a TV show, then the same way other people can also be hurt if their favorite show shuts down. The thing is u guys have been hurt and now there is no way to remedy that. Even if the show shuts down u wont get it back. But if it shuts down , it is hurting another huge number of people along with it. U currently have the option to not to watch the show and watch something else. ( i am not telling u to do it, i am telling u have the option). But if the show shuts down those who are watching it will not have this OPTION to watch it any way.

Originally posted by: whiterider

See, u generalize everything and everyone. If u would have read my posts, I have NEVER told anyone how they should think or feel about BV, or even how they should criticize it. Thats entirely their freedom and right. My complain is only against people trying to shut down the show. As long as u r discontented and unhappy, u have every right to express ur opinions, but never to the point where it can hurt others. If u try to shut down the show, then u r affecting and hurting the people that like it and want to watch it. Being unhappy and showing ur discontent is ur right. Trying to stop the show and hurt others in the process is not ur right.