Why did cv make anandi character weak suddenly ?

Anandi was always a fighter. Right from childhood to adult life. Once shiv entered her life they made her confused and weak. The anandi we know would never have asked shiv to marry her under forced circumstances to fulfill her mothers wish. Why do the male writers butcher a strong female lead to glorify a male character. Here the male is shiv raj shekhar. All the mahaanta shown in all the years is suddenly changed to confused weak person. When she knew she can never love any guy in her life as her belief is love happens only once then why did she create fuss about shiv canceling the wedding. Rather she should have accepted the changed jagya wanting her back in her life. All the drama created in November was just to boost her ego that she cannot remarry jagya for all the sins he created in her life. But what about shiv's feeling. I think it's high time she thinks either love him or leave him for good. Atleast shiv will eventually get along with his life. Fr god sake atleast call his name as shiv not CS. It sounds very formal and unromantic now. When shiv can change from anandiji to anandi why can't she call him shiv. Cv just to make audiences accept a strong Ganga u r making anandi character weak.