Why cannot anandi love shv ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: monamie111

i meant most of the serial makers think that after the SR of the lead couple, there will be no more story to show..so in every serial they create tension among the viewers regarding this SR & they don show SR so easily!!..

but @ bold...when did i mean that? 😲...what r u saying?..

Originally posted by: YashpalDhavan

He he, that is my interpretation, if my wife were to be frigid (God please not 😭), then as a considerate husband I would take her for medical advice and counselling, that is what I meant. 😆 😆

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Give her time to fall in love.

All her life she had only one person whom she could call friend and that was Jagya.

And who will she share her sorrow and misery about her betrayal by her best friend?

She never had the opportuinity to talk about her feelings regarding Jagya's betrayal and see for herself what it had done to her.

She had support in the form of her parents and DS. But I don't think they were the people who could help her sort out her problems.They were all bottled up inside her.I don't know whther Phooli would have been a help either since she herself has so many problems.

She did not do anything about those problems she was prepared to lead a sinhle with her problems for company.Now she finds herself married to this man who loves very much.She wants to move on in life accept him as her husband but she is unable to do so because her problems seem to prevent her from doing so.

So Shiv has become her friend who is helping out by listening to her talk about her life.She will open up about him soon and once the problem is out in the open the solutions come out on their own.

I am sure she cares for him a lot more than most women who profess to love their men.That's enough for time being.

Originally posted by: nniks

But anandi is not frigid...she was never frigid ..she has some hang ups abt "THAT" coz of her insecurity...
its not tht she dosent want to move on...she never said "hai raam ye aap kya ker rahe hain ye to paap hai" 😆
Instead wat she means is "I know wat u want...I am just not ready...I just dont feel the same intensity yet..let me be ready then we'll hav fun" 😉

Originally posted by: YashpalDhavan

Wow, Neha, good interpretation "let me be ready then we'll hav fun", when did that happen? 😳 😳

Anandi does not look upon sex as fun, it is something that men want. Such sacrilege about Anandi, (don't know if you remember I used to call her Saint Anandi) God forgive them, they know not what they say about your chosen one 😆 😆

Originally posted by: YashpalDhavan

Nice mail, Aparna. Well thought out, even Anandi could not have interpreted her own mind better.

You have to be the bestest friend she never had 😃. Don't get me wrong, I have been a Anandi supporter, when the baiters would attack every movement of hers, I would stoutly defend. Got me many angry PMs. But that is beside the point.

In the analysis you have done, my issue is when she says "yeh mujhse nahi hoga", no effort, just a carte blanche I-don't-want-no-sex approach. But she knows does she not that the marital bed is also a part of the marriage and that she is now intentionally depriving her husband of something. Mind is something that a person controls, to say "yeh mujhse nahi hoga" is a defeatist attitude, asexual as Neha puts it. She is the wife, she has to make the effort instead of saying I will be your wife but Touch me not type, but I will make sooji for you instead. That is a bit absurd wouldn't you say? Time, yes, but when she makes the statement yeh mujhse nahi hoga, she is not hinting at a time linked solution. That is my objection.

A plunge is a plunge, yeh asexual natak is not meant for many of us perhaps, but for a whole lot of Mas and behenas who have been brought up with asexual thinking drip.

I don't agree and also know that after a huge drag, CVs will come around, but I find the current track slightly dishonest on Anandi's part.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Yash - I don't know whether you meant it as a compliment or not but I take it as one.😃

Even I wonder why she did not think of this aspect of it before she got married because she knows what marriage is all about.But I don't think they have shown us her giving a thought to this aspect.

From the time of her engagement till she got married her life has been filled with Jaggu and all the dramas he did.

Till the night before her wedding we have not actually seen her focusing on life after marriage.I personally feel that she did not spend time thinking about how she would over come this problem or may be she did not expect this problem till he started his SR talks.

That's when she started to withdraw from him realising she was not ready for it.

Mr Magnificent finally realised she is not there yet after her making amply clear in a very pathetic manner.She told him what her problem is and asked him to give her time to sort out.

Now at least she started giving it a thought and she has proven herself to be a sensible person on various occasions so far she will soon find a solution.

I don't know why every one is so upset in fact more upset than Mr Magnificent himself that hedid not get his SR.😉

Even poor Gauri had to wait for a few months before J could consummate his marriage.

On the infamous occasion where Gauri shut the door on Anandi's face J could not consummate his marriage because of his FBs of Anandi.

I suppose similar thing is happening now.

PS - I wont bombard you with PMs if you do not agree.😊

Originally posted by: hooked

Medical advice and counselling will not make her thaw my dear. what will make her thaw is the right atmosphere. It also is just a thought - but maybe she may just seem frigid to you coz she's saving the heat for someone else 😉 ! possibile right ?

Thawing is achieved by genuine, love, care and the perfect environment. Shiv has the right idea. He is loving and caring and has her trust. Now, all he has to do is - provide the right time and place and distance from JAITSER and Udaipur and finally THEN - take off his shirt. 😎.

Then watch the firecrackers. 😳